Dating can be a grind.

Dating can be tough.

Dating can be frustrating.

Dating can be sad and lonely. Dating can just be an adventure that you really don’t enjoy. Here are two things you need to know right now.

1. Any day, any moment…

Number one, any day, any moment, love can happen. That’s the greatest thing about dating, that, in any moment, you can meet the person you’re supposed to be with.

You could be walking down the street.

You could be looking at artificial sweeteners in Whole Foods.

You could be swiping on Tinder or Bumble. But at any moment, if you’re out at any moment, you can run into the person you’re supposed to be with and literally fall in love.

But in order for that to happen, you need to know, you need to be something.

Which leads us to number two.

2. You must remain open.

You need to lose the negative loop. You need to lose the feeling of doom. You need to lose the it’s never going to happen for you feeling.

You need to believe because, if you’re actually out there every single day, learning, talking, connecting, then guess what?

You will find somebody. You really will. It’s about playing the odds, and that’s what dating really is all about, playing the odds. You’re playing the odds, as you are in any other venture in life, any other business, any other thing you do. You’re just playing the odds. So you need to be willing to play the odds. You need to be open for playing the odds. And you need to remain positive. I can’t say more about this. I’ve been down the road, and I thought I wouldn’t meet anybody new and exciting and great, you know? As you get older, dating becomes more of a challenge.

People are more broken, more confused, more broken down, more — well, or depressed. It’s all you’ve got to do.

Continue to believe, and you will meet somebody great. I know that because I’ve been down that road, too. And every single time I was about to give up, I’d always meet somebody who was pretty damn great.