I’m going to share a secret with you today, a secret that may lead most men to basically stop reading my advice for the rest of their lives. I’m about to break a pact among the brotherhood of all men. It’s a good thing I’m not in a fraternity, and a good thing Tinder is not called Tinder Bumble Epsilon Pi.

Because what I’m about to show you in today’s video, and what I’m about to explain to you a little bit in this post, is the reason why you’re not meeting the men you want to meet.

Not only that, I’m going to explain why men disappear.

Look at this scenario:

You go out on a date, you met him on a silly little dating app like Bumble or Tinder or Hinge.

You had a good night. You actually enjoy his company.

You go back and forth, texting him a little bit afterwards.

He tells you he wants to see you again.

And then all the sudden, just as quickly as he swiped right into your life, he’s swiping left to get out of your life. The next thing you know, he’s gone, he’s vanished, he’s become a virtual ghost.

Whenever you turn your phone on, all you hear is the sound of crickets nonstop.

You sit down with your friends, go over and over it; you just can’t understand what happened.

You had such a (you thought) connection. You felt this guy. You thought he was something that you could really have a relationship with.

You Don’t Understand Why He Can’t Commit

Oh you beautiful, naive woman. You’re still living back in the 90s again when boy met girl and girl met boy, and they didn’t have all these apps and dating sites to choose from.

You, you old-fashioned romantic are thinking it’s 1995 all over again.

There’s a new movie coming out called Back to the Future. The main character goes back into the past and shows them Tinder, and they don’t know what to do about it, it’s the 50s.

You’re thinking to yourself, boy he never calls, but then again who calls anybody anyway?

We text, we use our screens to message, and never really call one another at all. We forgot what the sound of voice is like. Before you know it, you get back on one of the online sites and you find another one that vanishes, and yet another one. You start thinking it’s you.

Well, I’ve got something to admit right now – it’s not you.

It’s Not You, It’s Tinder

It’s nothing you did on the date, it’s nothing you didn’t do on the date, it’s not because you kissed him too early, talked about your drunken uncle Edward.

It’s got nothing to do with it. It has everything to do with him being a swipeaholic.

He’s basically TAA – Tinder Anonymous Associate.

We feel that we have so many people to date, and when we do finally have real chemistry with somebody, we still have the illusion that maybe we can have more chemistry with somebody else. We have become addicted to dating sites and the dating apps. We’ve become addicts in our lives, and that’s why we’re alone more than ever. It wasn’t meant to be this way, but it is this way. And until we all change it, nothing will change.

So, I found Mr. Chetski watched today’s video.

I’m going to be looking at the YouTube view count as well. Because I want to see it go up by the second. It means we did something today that we normally don’t do. Normally, you watch my videos and take in my great information and keep it to yourself. But today, I want you to share it with everybody you know. Because I want to campaign out there.

We talked about stopping Donald Trump.

We talked about stopping meeting Donald from Tinder.

About stopping meeting Marco from Tinder.

How about we find one good candidate that we need and can feel their energy, instead of being Tinderized or Bumblerized.