There are some critical mistakes that a lot of women make with their online dating profiles.

I’m about to show you and tell you what some of them are.

Women who talk negatively are a big turnoff. I’m going to tell you about a profile I saw online from a woman, and I’ll tell you why it’s such a big turnoff.

“It’s hard to be a single mom or so I hear. I wouldn’t know, I don’t have kids.”

“You should have ten fingers, ten toes, two elbows and one head.

“I don’t eat red meat, watch sports or get down with religion. Except for making fun of Scientology.

“I’m looking for a funny guy, not a fun guy.

At the end of the day I want someone who’s successful, good looking, and great at giving a massage.”

Something about that profile did not resonate with me.

Why would you attack single moms? Especially at the age range that she is in.

Single moms are awesome. I happen to be a single dad. So I respect single moms. She doesn’t have kids. Why bother saying that?

Ten fingers, ten toes, two elbows and one head is funny, but don’t eat red meat, watch sports or get down with religion? Okay. Except for making fun of things.

I feel like with her it’s going to be a constant battle of wit. Like I need to be super funny all the time to be with her. Not only that, I’ve got to give her a massage. Does she give a massage back? What does she do for me?

Her profile doesn’t resonate with me at all.

So many women are trying too hard to be funny.

Other profiles that don’t work are the ones that have absolutely nothing in them. Not a word. Nothing.

Even though we men are fascinated by photos, we want to know just a little bit about you. We need to get a feel for you.

A lot of women will put quotes in their profile.

“The cure for boredom is curiosity, there’s no cure for curiosity.” – Dorothy Parker

We don’t care what you are quoting, we care who you are. Tell us something that’s going to intrigue us.

Here’s another one I saw recently.

“I’m nice and I’m sweet. I’m into real chemistry. I’m into a man who wants an age appropriate woman. I’m talking to you super hot 49 year old who will only date up to 33. You’re ruining it for the rest of us.”

I mean, it’s negative. It’s ruining it for the rest of us? So you’re going to allow other people to ruin things? There’s only negativity there.

When there’s negativity, it’s not a turn on. I smell fear. I see fear. I believe that a woman is full of fear when I see negativity. Men are not interested in that type of profile.

Here’s a good one that I actually like.

“I’m a singer/songwriter/actress/model. I’m looking for someone who’s outgoing, funny and overall solid.”

She’s looking for someone who’s a solid individual. To me something like that speaks of being real and being open. I like that. It made me feel good.

Today’s video is all about how you can get more guys to click on your profile. There’s a lot more in there. Check it out and I look forward to hearing your comments down below.