david-wygant-woman-in-mirrorDo you get a lot of dates that go absolutely nowhere?

Do you find yourself alone on a lot of Friday nights?

Do you find yourself online trying to date, but without much success?

Have you had, over the last year, relationships seem to go absolutely nowhere?

You know, the man appears to be into you, and seems to really want to be with you, but then out of the blue he stops calling you back.

Does this happen to you?

Do you complain a lot about dating? Do you feel like there are no good single men in your area?

Do you fill your life up with excuses?

There are no men in my age range.

No men approach me.

Are you always placing the blame on everybody but yourself?

Here’s the deal:

If you don’t have dates, it’s not the men. It’s not that there are no men out there in the world. It’s not that they decide that they don’t like you.

You know what the real reason is?

You’re the problem.

Life is a mirror. What we project to the world is how we feel about ourselves on the inside.

If you don’t fill your day—every single day—with self-love and beautiful thoughts. If you don’t think that you’re the most beautiful, incredible, fantastic woman that any man can be with.

If you don’t date with that attitude, that mindset—you’re going to turn men off every single time.

So much of dating is about the subconscious; body language, eye contact, the way you convey your best self with your smile.

So get within yourself. Figure yourself out. LOVE yourself. And dating will become much smoother for you.