You’ve just met a guy. You’re on your first date. And suddenly he starts telling you all about his last bad relationship, and going into detail about all the things his ex did so wrong to him. How does that make you feel?

Doesn’t do much for the “moment” does it?

Well, it’s exactly the same for men. No man wants to hear you listing all the things your last boyfriend did wrong. It’s like you’re giving your date a big checklist of all the things he musn’t do. You HAVE to leave your past relationships in the past before you start dating again. You have to stop being so angry at your ex, before you’re going to attract someone who’s right for you.

Until you put what happened in old relationships behind you, you’re never truly going to move on. I’ll explain more in the video below. I’d love to hear your thoughts on this.