This is for all you swipers, typers, texters.

I’ve got a warning for all of you online addicts. All of you app addicts.

Before you end up being an old man alone in diapers, I have some words of wisdom for you today.

The most significant people that I’ve met over the last year, the women who I’ve really connected with and felt something strong and powerful with, every single one of them was met in person.

Not one of them was met sitting on the toilet in the morning looking through my Tinder, swiping right and getting a Tinder blister.

Not one of them was met on Bumble.



Plenty of Fish.

And the list will go on and on. Every single one of them was met with a serendipitous moment.

That’s right. The magic of boy meets girl.

Meet Someone and Create a Moment

For those of you who still refuse to comprehend the power of this; for those of you who are still suffering from approach anxiety even though I have countless programs showing you how to create that moment so you can have significant relationships in your life: You’re not going to create a serendipitous moment sitting around Tindering.



When you walk over to a woman, like a man should, you look her directly in her eyes like a powerful man does, you speak words that come out of your mouth.

Not magical words, not pick-up lines, just words, confident words because you’re a confident guy.

A woman will stand there and look at you and say to herself, Oh my god, a real man is actually approaching me today. I’m curious to know what he’s all about. I can’t wait to hear what he’s actually thinking and saying.

The conversation ensues and then after a moment or several moments, the man looks at her and says, “You and I should connect again. Give me your number.”

That’s what a powerful man says. He doesn’t think about what to say or how to say it. He just says, “Give me your number, I’d like to take you out sometime.”

He states his intentions. He doesn’t say “Hey, why don’t you give me your Facebook so we can become friends and we can friendzone each other.”

He doesn’t look at her and say, “Hey, why don’t I meet you on Bumble or Tinder so we can make it an un-serendipitous moment.”

meet someone in personHe looks at her and literally says, “I don’t want to be an old man in diapers swiping and typing. I’d rather be able to take you out now. When I’m old and I’m in diapers and I’m typing and I’m drooling and the nurses need to wipe my butt and wipe the drool from my mouth, I’d much rather have you do it for me. You see, this serendipitous moment we’re creating right now is going to enable both of us to be in diapers together.”

Wouldn’t that be more fun, to be in diapers with somebody who you once thought was the hottest woman in the world? Wouldn’t it be great to look at this woman dressed in diapers, and you think to yourself, she’s still the beautiful girl in the world?

Because together, you created moments, and magic, and memories. You created a life together. But no, for all you typers and swipers, you’re all just going to end up in Depends, disposable diapers for adults.

Get Over Approach Anxiety

So I strongly suggest today, you either:

A. Purchase one of my cool new Approach Programs and get this ridiculous thing called approach anxiety taken care of and meet somebody who makes you feel great, somebody you can grow old with.

Or B. You just continue to sit around on the Internet, living in a virtual world. Being lonely.

Because I have to tell you something men: approach, the women are waiting. They’re waiting because they want the serendipitous moment that only a man who approaches can create.

The future is all yours. In your diapers together, cuddling, hanging out in your Depends, watching reruns of Golden Girls as you age together.

It’s beautiful, as you sit there and hold each other’s hands and feed each other Melba toast.

Or you can be in diapers alone. It’s your choice. Hopefully, this visual scared the shit out of you and inspires you to make the change that you need.