The Art Of Erotic Massage; Make Her Beg You For Sex

March 8, 2011 53 Comments Men Sex, Turn-Ons & Turn-Offs, Uncategorized

As all of you know I never have a guest poster on the blog but today I just could not resist.

A friend of mines girlfriend thought that this would be an awesome blog for all the men and women.

So she took the time to write this up for all of you.

So straight from her mouth to all of you here is the unknown massage therapist.

Thanks David and hello all of his readers.

Here is how to give an amazing erotic massage that will drive her crazy.

The only thing that tops a massage is an EROTIC sensual massage, and that is where we are going to go with this today. Erotic pleasure brought on by the sensations one feels when their skin is center focus. Your skin is the largest organ of the body with thousands of nerve endings and the touch stimulates all of your senses.

Before we get into the steamy specifics there are some important things that need to be tended to. I will keep the details short and to the point on this part?:

#1. Please make sure your nails have no jagged edges that can ruin your efforts to please.

#2. Have your massage oil warming in a warm bowl of water so it is a pleasurable sensation (Oil is a MUST for a great massage. Water based oils are preferred, containing NO Nonoxynol-9 which can be an irritant to the skin). Keep it close by at all times because you will need it for continual lubrication for a smooth massage.

#3. You may want some “edible” oil for later on your tongue can work massaging erogenous zones.

#4. When you are giving a massage of any type, IMPORTANT: NEVER break contact with your partner’s skin. Once you have started the massage, keep that connection with your partner at all times.

#5. Create a sensual environment from the start. Light some candles, maybe some erotic incense of your choice or some Lavender oil heating in a burner (very sensuous and very relaxing).

#6. Turn the phone off. Draw the blinds. Lock the door. NO DISTRACTIONS!

#7. Last but surely not least – MUSIC! You can purchase soothing spa CDs at any music store. Try to make sure it will continually play. You certainly don’t want to have to get up to take care of the music flaws.

#8. TAKE YOUR TIME and BE GENTLE! So important! This is meant to be a slow process that builds into such uncontrollable sexual desire for both of you the end result will leave you both breathless.

#9. You should both have a glass of water, wine, or something sweet to sip.

Lets get started shall we?

Men, your first task is to have your partner strip to her birthday suit. Have her lay on the floor face down. Put a soft blanket down. You need to be able to eventually reach every part of her body without effort. Place a sheet over her back. It is very sensual as you move down in the massage, to slide the sheet down as you work your way down. NO body part will be left untouched.

Now, take your warm oil and oil yourself up to begin with, where she can watch! You will be using your hands yes, but you will be wanting your arms and chest oiled up nicely. That alone is a turn on, so you are off to a great start only to get better as you go!

Take a good amount of oil in your hands. Rub them together to further warm it. Gently, start by gliding with smooth strokes using your whole hand, over the neck and shoulders, down and up the arms. Make your movements rhythmic in motion working together in a continual synchronization. Remember not to lose contact at any time.

Work your way down the back, now moving into longer deeper strokes. Continue this method using you body for pressure and not the strength of your sexy arms we love to see all oiled up! Lightly press your chest up against her back, letting other parts of your body lightly skim against her.

The sensations of your skin brushing against her are so stimulating! Kiss her jaw lightly then her neck working down her back soft and slow. You can lick the lower back in circular motion, moving up a you lightly breath your warm breath up her spine until you get to her ear lobe where you can kiss lightly to drive her wild.

By this time, I guarantee she is HOT and you are getting there if you haven’t gotten to that point yet. Haven’t lost contact yet have you? Nice!! Move back down, only now you are massaging her butt. Make sure her legs are open where you can lightly skim up and down her inner thighs. You want her squirming? Inner thighs touched sensuously will cause just that reaction. It is an involuntarily reaction of pure pleasure and stimulation!

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Time to roll her over onto her back. Make sure you keep a hand on her. Is the oil plentiful? If not, grab it with one hand and lubricate her chest in between her breasts. Gently massage her shoulders working down her arms and back up. Skim over her breasts with the palm of you hand only with plenty of oil. You can stop there for a few circular motions over her already erect nipples.

Does she love it? Move on then.

OOHH why did you leave there! Now is when she is feeling sensations in her nipples that are dying for stimulation, as well as her vaginal area. It is feeling hot, certainly wet and yearning for you to penetrate at this point, BUT not quite yet. She is more than likely breathing hard and gasping every time you kiss her stomach down to her inner thighs. Now you should know where that G-Spot is—yes?

Good, because while you have her leg up on your shoulder kissing the inner thigh, you are going to massage the outer lips of her vagina—lightly skimming. Go in and gently massage her G-spot. Now, whew it is almost more than a woman can bear! Find just the hood of her clit and GENTLY move it side to side.

Experiment and watch her reactions as to where and how what you are doing is working. When you get that gasp of pleasure, stay there for awhile. Glide that other hand up to stimulate her nipples that are SOOOO in need of attention.

By now she NEEDS and WANTS and HAS TO HAVE the feeling of your erection. Just tease in and out a LITTLE in and out. Okay! Enough! Please take her hips and turn her over on her knees. Kiss her back, and fondle her nipple as you enter her vagina slowly. Keep teasing.

Right now, you are hitting that G-spot again with your penis as long as you don’t go too far in. OKAY! No more teasing! You should know how to take it from here…

Alright, so now I gave you these tips, but here’s the deal:

Most men screw up somewhere from point one to point nine. Don’t be that guy.

If you want to be the BEST LOVER she’s ever had CLICK HERE and I’ll show you how to become every woman’s sexual fantasy!

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sani says

2017-01-23 08:51:02

Hii
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Anastasia Deshazo says

2017-01-18 16:59:42

I'm a female reading this ... I want my boyfriend to massage me and just know I want fucked :... I read this and was sooo wet ... my pussy wanted it so bad ( bites lip)
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Drew says

2016-12-18 13:20:20

My baby is coming home from a trip this afternoon. Room temp 78, massage table covered with very soft blanket, fine sheet to cover her, candles ready, music qued up, coconut oil warm, lights low, champagne chilling and a wedge pillow ready for the finale. Hope I haven't forgotten anything. I've had a hard on just reading this and getting ready. Thanks for the tips.
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Roy says

2016-04-25 09:44:37

Wanna try it with me? Tracy?
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Roy says

2016-04-25 09:41:14

What if youve actually experienve it... sureky you will go willd and hot....jewel
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Cheryl says

2016-04-16 16:43:30

I had my first erotic massage and WOW! It blew me away! Mine was "supposed " to be a combination of a TaI Chi massage and energy sharing between friends. My friend is a professional massage therapist, BTW. Needless to say he knew what he was doing. That was a month ago, he is on his way here now for a 2nd session.
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Som says

2015-10-19 23:13:28

Are u Indian....I live n bangalore. Where are u from
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omni vour says

2015-08-30 13:34:09

try coconut oil....works great, tastes great
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Laura says

2015-08-12 23:54:59

Ian, Good luck finding your audience for an erotic massage. I feel it will be trickier but I suppose you might be able to find someone that would be interested, hence these website comments. You had to go all the way to Thailand to learn the erotic massage movements? Wow!
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Ian says

2015-08-12 22:37:53

I am very much into giving erotic massage and I agree, this is not a good idea in a threesome. I got some good massage ideas recently in Thailand, which I would like to try out.
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Laura says

2015-08-12 14:48:17

ian- Sounds great! I had an offer for an erotic massage from a friend and his female cohort. I wasn't too sure about the threesome massage so had to turn it down.
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Ian says

2015-08-11 00:50:25

Where and when Laura?
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Laura says

2015-07-20 23:49:16

Just reading this is a definite turn on. Can I get a massage please? :)
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Shaalu says

2015-05-16 08:47:35

Crazy stuff... Got Loads to learn. This was an amazing turn on than porn.. Just read this out in slow whispers in candle light with your spouse & start the game.. Uuuummmmmm.......
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Buster says

2015-05-02 02:01:04

Great article, got me hard just sitting here reading it and hoping to try it tomorrow. Thanks.
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ketan vora says

2014-11-21 07:21:29

its excellent
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Sarah says

2013-12-18 06:12:36

Reading this makes all of our girls wet.. lol I think music and the wine is really key. For women in particular, we have also found chocolate helps a lot. Especially any chocolate with hazelnuts. =)
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Peter V says

2013-11-22 22:03:28

Ok just to help everyone out here, a better choice than oils for a deep sensual massage is Moroccan Oil Body Souffle. You will think you died and went to Heaven. Heat it up in a cup until it is just under hot to the touch and have at it. You will be amazed. Happy Hunting!
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Nick says

2013-10-10 14:03:01

Awesome. I think it's time for me to try this out. Thanks!
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Jewel says

2012-11-01 11:46:15

OMG jut reading that made me wet!!!!!
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Tracy says

2012-10-31 21:48:15

Hmmmm+ aaaaaahhh. Yes. The way to fulfil her every need. Want. Desire. Ms. T. K
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lezbehonest says

2012-10-19 23:42:07

thanks for the great tips really made her happy
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erotisk massage says

2012-10-16 03:08:51

you provide information about The Art Of Erotic Massage it's really good...
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Lavidafi says

2012-09-02 07:33:23

for sure my gf will be on top of her voice shouting my name tonight.
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slatherage says

2012-08-17 13:08:26

well im told my massages are already amazing and so good, but after reading this blog, my massages are going to maximize!!!!
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RICO says

2012-08-16 01:30:08

DO YOU HAVE ANY SPECIFIC NAME OF OIL THAT I CAN USE?....EDIBLE
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thawk says

2012-07-31 10:25:45

thats means shes not happy with you in bed get some toys and surpise her
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roro says

2012-06-19 22:27:45

Guys try telling her what your going to do to her before and during massage especially if you don't 'talk during sexual incounters. Send her a text while she's at work or something and by the way doing this for her might just inspire her to do something like this for you. I can't wait to try this on my bf. Also if your wife or gf is pregnant this will make her feel sexy and wanted. It did me.....I'm 7 1/2 months and it was the best experience of my life.
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Tamee says

2012-06-15 19:09:42

:) I know u only say that bcz u guessed Dave, but it's okay because you happen to be right. I am;) but still a vergin...so... I don't go all the way^~^
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dave says

2012-06-15 12:31:42

ooooo you are a sexual woman i can tell i bet your boyfriend is a lucky man ;D
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Jimi says

2012-06-07 17:32:28

Jeezus! David, You left out the most critical elements of a sensual massage. what about timing? what about sequence? Alternate arousals? mind arousal which is the most important? wheres the pre-sex hug to wet the waters? not a mention of the stimulants! Jimi
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Tamee says

2012-05-28 20:10:14

That sounds irresistible! I'm a "verg'... kw what" lol do u think I could get a massage like that just for fun without having to go through any 'intercourse'?
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David Wygant says

2012-04-15 12:43:30

Coconut Oil, Gary. It's natural. It melts when warm. And you can make popcorn with it afterwards. ;)
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Gary says

2012-04-15 12:08:41

How would I get my wife to do this? She won't mind, but she'll hate the oil... is there an oil that won't sound "nasty" to her?
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Zoo says

2012-04-03 13:10:27

Thanks ! Super.
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barry says

2012-02-26 06:24:00

David, Read this and then put it into action. Thank you so much. It worked wondors
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Diko says

2012-01-30 10:52:37

You really know how things are done. I have a few experience by visiting erotic massage in the salon so I know how important is the constant touch of skin on skin. Therefore, effort and time we have to take in massage is key of success.
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Ryan says

2012-01-12 08:42:20

Doing this tonight! I cant wait - I feel intimidated cause the lady I will be performing this on is a masseuse ;) I guess however it is apple and oranges in comparison with a massage vs. Sensual Massage. Great blog - love it!
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Stephen Liao says

2011-12-27 09:27:13

This is indeed a very good piece of article. Now I know what to do to have my girlfriend turned on....and enjoy fully.
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Elen says

2011-12-26 22:44:54

My imagination exploded :)
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robert says

2011-12-23 19:40:17

i did this last week but only around butt area - wow was she mighty pleased ! We had de best time of our life after that. Thanks bro
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Jason says

2011-12-02 02:03:39

Thanks David, gonna try this out tonight
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Brad says

2011-11-10 22:36:59

Love to help Kelly!
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kit says

2011-11-02 20:53:47

very helpful tips.. thanks David for letting her to write & thanks stranger ;)
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Jim says

2011-10-30 06:56:44

What do i do if my GF never even wants to get naked. or anything sensual at all? i have asked her a few times to share some fantasy's with me but she never will. we used to be very experimental but now it has all stopped. the only thing i can get her to do is missionary position. and that is only like once a month.
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Kelly says

2011-10-14 08:21:40

Where can I get the service?
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Mario says

2011-03-13 19:27:24

haha good idea jen.
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Jen says

2011-03-11 12:04:17

That was so hot! I'm going to leave this on the computer for my boyfriend to find when he comes home!!!
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Larry says

2011-03-11 03:41:39

David, can we eat a sandwich while we get this massage from the girl?
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Mary Beth says

2011-03-10 21:20:40

OMG that would be amazing!
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Danny says

2011-03-09 03:39:55

I got excited just reading this blog, so I can't imagine how turned on she would be actually receiving this massage :)
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Bobby says

2011-03-09 00:05:50

Damn, I needed a cigarette after this blog. Great read though :)
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Sean says

2011-03-08 23:23:20

Favorite'd X 10! Will be referring back to this ;) Thanks so much for the tips I will have fun with this!
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