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I was on the phone the other day with a client and he asked me, “When are things going to be perfect in my life, and when am I going to be amazingly happy? Because I’ve been doing the ‘growth thing’ for a almost a year.”
I stopped him at this point, and said “Almost a year? Do you realize that self-growth is a never-ending process?”
I want all of you to think about that for one second. No matter where you are in your life today, if you’re somebody that really strives to have an amazing life then you are going to be growing every single day.
Self-growth is a lifetime job. It really is.
It is not a temporary thing you’re going through like getting the flu. There is no temporary self-growth fix. It’s constant.
It’s a constant thing that happens in your life. You will always have things that you need to work on, there will always be things that you need to battle, and there will always be things that you need to learn and to embrace.
Self-growth is something I am going to do until the day I die. I’m going to be still growing probably on the day that I die, because I still have a lot of self-growth left to do. That’s life.
So just enjoy where you are in your life right now. If you feel like you’re frustrated, and you wish that the self-growth stage of your life would be over so that you can finally be where you want to be in your life, then I have news for you.
Once you get to where you want to be in life, you will want to be somewhere else — because there is always something else you will need to work on or learn. So just enjoy it.
One of my favorite quotes is one I said to a client a long time ago: “You are where you are in your life because that’s exactly where you should be.”
I want you all to think about that today. You are where you are in your life because it’s exactly where you’re supposed to be.