I’m about to share with you the number one sign why men never commit.

I know, it’s a lot of my fellow men, especially the ones who are just looking to have a fling and they’re not honest about it. And they aren’t going to be happy that I’m sharing this information with you.

But as you all know, I’ve been coaching women for 17 years. And I’ll protect you as long as I’ll be coaching because my goal and my job is to help you find the one that you so deserve and desire.

I think one of the biggest motivation things as one of the main forces behind this job for me is that my mother never found love ever in her entire lifetime. One wrong man after the next. I’m kind of motivated by that.

Anyway, let’s talk about why men don’t commit.

One of the number one reasons why he won’t…

When I like someone, I will truly care who I am as a person.

The things I’m experiencing with my daughter.

The battles I may have with work.

I share my life. I’ll let her in, in my mind, my soul. I’ll let her in to my secrets — secrets that, if I let you all in on, then we would be in a relationship.

But the inner workings of my heart and mind would be the things I feel about myself, the things that are the mistakes that I’ve made in the past, how I’ve learned from them.

I’ll share with her the what I’m going through right now. I’ll definitely share with her when I’m frustrated.

If I’m having a day that’s not exactly fantastic and great, I’ll share that day with her because I’m looking for a female guidance. I also want her to see that that everything is not always perfect with me, and I want her to understand that there’s going to be days like this, and I want to be able to show her one of my vulnerabilities.

I let her into my heart. I’m allowing her to see the real me.

And if you’re with a man who’s just keeping things light and fun…

I never really share any of that . Sure, maybe telling her stories about things you’ve gone through and that’s the easy subject for men.

But he doesn’t truly let you in. Let you in to get to know the workings of his mind and his heart and his soul. He basically just lets you in on the things he lets anyone else in on.

So you might be having a great time dating him.

He may tell you he wants a relationship.

The sex might be good.

But he’s not exactly telling you who he truly is…

And that’s a big warning sign that this man you are currently dating is not ready to commit to you at all.

Vulnerability, feeling safe, sharing and not being judged are huge things. We know we need to be honest to females for support that you will give. And a man who’s ready for a relationship will open up in ways that a lot of men don’t.

As I mentioned, so many of my programs are about exactly this. Become a CSI and listen carefully to what a man says, because what a man says is truly what a man wants.