There’s nothing sexier to me than after sex, watching a woman get up from bed, heading to the bathroom, and seeing her beautiful body as she walks into the bathroom and vanishes. That moment to me is one of the most powerful, incredible moments that there is. I’m going to tell you why and it’s not what you think.

It’s not that I haven’t seen her naked. Because obviously in order to do what we just did, in order to have the incredible sex that we just had, I would have had to see her body.

But that moment to me tells me that she loves her body.

love your bodyThat she’s proud of her body.

That she loves the way her butt looks.

She likes the way her thighs are. She’s happy and comfortable in her nakedness.

I’ve had women who have just not been able to do that.

I’ve had women who have gotten up in that moment and wrapped themselves in the sheet. Why? Because they are not proud of their bodies. They don’t feel comfortable in their body. And when you don’t feel comfortable in your body, you’re not going to be able to do what? You’re not going to be able to turn that man on for a long period of time.

Be Comfortable in Your Own Skin

As a man, we love that moment. Love your body. Praise your body. Look at your beautiful body. I’m sure if you looked at your body, you would be able to find something wrong with it. We all can. Every one of us can look at our body and find a body part that needs work or needs something.

But in reality, if you don’t start embracing every little beautiful curve, every little dimple, every little bit of that body, men aren’t going to love it because they are going to feel your insecurities. Men are going to feel you being insecure when you get naked.

Love Your Body, Embrace It

One time when I was younger, I dated a woman and I would touch her stomach, touch her body and enjoy it. But every time I went to her stomach she pushed my hand away because she didn’t love her body. It didn’t really make me want to do anything more than stop the fooling around.

You need to start loving your body. Nobody’s body is perfect. But yours is perfect exactly like it is. When you love your body, when you think it’s beautiful, a man is going to find you sexy.

Here’s the thing, the man is getting naked with you, he really thinks your body is pretty damn hot. So don’t ruin it by being insecure.

Embrace the fact that your body is yours. Feel good about it. Let him look at it, let him feel it, let him touch it, because he already craves you and desires you, and he thinks you’re hot and sexy. If you’re pushing his hand away and not giving him the home run shot after sex, well, you’re going to make him think twice about you.