Hope you all had a great weekend!

I had a very eye-opening weekend, and I will be sharing all my thoughts on that (as well as on a number of other things) tonight when I will be interviewed LIVE on my friend’s MatchMatrix Internet radio show.

If you want to hear my views on relationships, and how to super-connect with the opposite sex, then this is one hour that you do NOT want to miss!

If you want to tune in, it is taking place TONIGHT — Monday, June 8, 2009 at 6pm PST, 7pm MST, 8pm CST, 9pm EST.

Click on this link to listen:

So onto today’s blog, where I am going to give you hopefully a new perspective on the idea of finding love and relationships.

I don’t know about you guys, but I’m getting tired of hearing all the ‘gloom and doom’ about the economy and the state of things in general. There is one thing, however, that is priceless that you can get for free — it’s love.

The one thing in life that is 100% totally free is love. Love doesn’t cost any money. 

Of course, you do have to be willing to “pay” in some senses to find love. The only way to find love is to open yourself up, become vulnerable about who you are, and accept yourself and your quirks.

The truth is, though, that nothing else in life is free except love. With the exception of certain disgusting Los Angeles men or certain other types of very wealthy men who try to do it, you can’t buy love.  You can’t buy someone’s heart, because you can only buy possessions.

So instead of complaining during these tough economic times, you should be focusing on the one thing in life that is free: love. Love for yourself and for other people never costs a penny. With love, it doesn’t matter if you’ve had to take a pay cut at work. You can still always afford it.

You can always consistently be loving yourself and trying to let love in from others. If you aren’t doing this, then you’re missing everything. If you’re sitting home every night with a ‘doom and gloom’ mindset thinking how bad your life is right now, then what kind of people are you going to attract?

So start thinking about a change of perspective. Think about what kind of person you want to be attracting right now. Why not decide you are going to concentrate on finding love with yourself (because if you don’t love yourself you will never have anybody else love you) and love with someone else. Start challenging yourself to find love.