How to Unlock Your Inner Sex Goddess

February 24, 2012 13 Comments Women Attract and Approach, Uncategorized

Do you want to know how to unlock the beautiful, feminine, sexual being that you are?

Do you want to unlock the power that will make men swoon?

Do you want to be in control of whom you attract into your life?

I’m going to share an exercise that I’ve talked about before that I want all of you to do.  It’s one of the best exercises in the world.  I’ll give you a little background:

As men and women, we really are very primal.  A man wants to feel like he’s the King; he wants to feel like he’s the king of the cave; he wants to feel like he’s the caveman bring home the food.  He wants his woman to adore him.

I’m not talking about being a pushover or anything.  I’m just saying that if you adore the man, and he’ll adore you back.  Because deep down, no matter how successful you might be as a woman, you still want to feel like a princess.  You still want to feel like a queen.  You want to be protected.

The only way to do that is to really unlock your pure primal sexual being.  If you unlock your pure primal sexual being, a man awakens.  He feels alert.  He feels alive.  And he’s intrigued.

A lot of women have trouble doing this because they’re so busy in the work world, fighting with men, battling with men, earning the money and so forth, that they never unlock it.  Plus, they’re afraid due to their own programming—mainly programming from their past, the programming that they had growing up.  Parents telling them not to let their sexual energy out—‘you’ll be a slut’—whatever it might be.  So what happens is most women don’t unlock their true sexual being.  And that’s where everything goes wrong.

So here’s what I want you to do: the next time you see a man that you’re attracted to, instead of doing the usual—waiting for him to approach, or maybe doing the coy smile or looking down at the ground and doing nothing—I want you to unlock that feminine goddess sexual being.

I want you to look at him and I want you to imagine that you can give him the best damn blowjob he’s ever had in his entire life. You can even picture a blowjob that you gave to a guy that brought him down to his knees.  I want you to realize that you can take this man and bring him down to his knees instantly.  I want you to look at him as you’re picturing that.

What happens is that you’re going to smile.  You might even blush.  You might start laughing.  And he’s going to look at you and he’s going to feel that.  It’s a primal thing.

He’s going to wonder what you’re thinking.  And he’s going to immediately feel attracted to you because you’re different than any other woman.  You’re a mystery.  There’s intrigue.  He wants to find out what you’re thinking.  The gutsy guy may ask you and you can just tell him you’re having a good day, with a smile.

The bottom line is by unlocking that true sexual goddess inside, you’re going to be able to really attract more men in your life than ever before.  But more importantly, you’re going to start to have the sexual experiences that you deserve.  You’re going to become that sexual being that you deserve.  And you’re finally going to understand how to really pull over some really good men, because it’s about being primal.

Tarzan still wanted Jane, but Jane knew how to unlock the beast in Tarzan.  But the modern woman doesn’t.  It’s time for you to get visual.  It’s time for you to start imagining.  And it’s time for you to unlock that thing, that very primal thing, and watch the results fly in.

Every client I’ve ever done this with has been immensely successful and they’ve met men that they have never met before.

It’s your turn.

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LoveForever says

2012-03-06 13:01:09

I can't date a guy who wears a necklace!! lol so I just told him, "you look really good not wearing anything" :D lol jk! (He does, too! :D lol)
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LoveForever says

2012-03-05 11:18:42

As long as he pays a lot! lol (just kidding!) That's really interesting! ~ How come if guys are visual creatures, it doesn't seem like most of them are meticulous about their own looks or at least as judgmental about their own looks as they are of women's?? However, this one guy who wants to date is really masculine and really good about his appearance BUT he wears necklaces! lol This is really turning me off!! lol I mean, they are guy necklaces like surfers or whatever wear but they really kill my attraction for him and then it was making me wonder what I could be doing that could be doing this for guys! I've also been thinking about that 'would I date me' question! lol And I don't think so (but I would definitely have sex with me! lol It's so hilarious how I have to hide my hypersexuality or it attracts the wrong guys and I'll sometimes be with a guy and he's saying how he wants a girl who's sexy and all and he has no clue how I really am! lol) only because A.) I prefer men lol but B.) because I don't get to dress the way I really like! :( (Plus, you get in trouble if you just go around in lingerie! lol jk!)
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Leanne says

2012-03-03 11:35:05

I had this reply back from one of my friends about the sex issue. I thought that I would share this on here so that it is available forever and a day for everyone: "My thoughts. Firstly there is no such thing as a slut in my mind. Terms like that are smothered with religious overtones and imbued with all sorts of moral implications that the church would have us believe. Mary Magdelane was cast as a prostitute by the Catholic church because they wanted Jesus to be cleansed of all sexual desire. She was his wife and sat next to him at the last supper. And they called her a slut and a whore and wrote her out of history! Personally I like women who enjoy sex. From a purely practical perspective it can tell you immediately that you might be doing something right. That has to be a good thing. It’s even better if women tell you what they want. It’s not a criticism it’s a guide as to how to get better and please your partner more. Great. Sex is and can be intimidating sometimes and if someone’s reserved and tightly controlled then it can be very off putting for the bloke. Relax, go with the flow, choose your position, and I can assure you most men will find that very refreshing and it will take the pressure off during the first sexual encounter. We’re all adults and we should feel free of pressure to be perceived as sluts or easy or any other such title. If sex is consensual and desired, what’s wrong with having sex on the first meeting? Nothing at all."
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LoveForever says

2012-03-03 09:02:17

Oh! and when we were leaving, that scotching hot valet guy was like dreamily staring into my eyes and normally, I would have thought, "omg he's the hottest-look away!" but I just dreamily stared back into his eyes! I wish I had gone up to him and just made up some stuff so that I could have talked to him... :( OMG he was soooo HOTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!!! lol
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LoveForever says

2012-03-03 08:51:06

You're welcome! I happy to hear you appreciated it! You're hot & gorgeous! :D You're comments help us all, too! Why does that drunken monkey have to show up and fill us with guilt? lol I've always made impossible expectations for myself and I've always purposely pushed guys away because I really feel like I can't be the best for them and I don't want to be less than the best for them (but not just the best-going beyond the best! lol) but what I set myself to be for them is impossible to ever be! I don't know how to not do that! lol Omg! Leanne, your comment reminds me of a conversation I was having with this one guy about sex lol (why do guys always make the conversation go right to sex? lol) Check this out! This is bizarre!! He was asking me if I were good at sex. So, I'm like, what's "good" to him? and he said, "what do you like to do?" and I'm like, "That makes it good for the OTHER person? lol and he's like, "Yes!" lol omg can anyone decode guy language? lol ~ My mom has always told me that sex is bad so I'm like to her now, "you had sex! You're gross!" lol She's like, "I know." lol But when you're growing up it's soooo confusing!! She always made it ok for guys but for girls, no-that's wrong! Do not talk about that! lol Isn't everyone a hypersexual exhibitionist now that there's web cams? lol ~ Also, when I was at the restaurant (on my other comment above), I didn't have makeup on (except for my lips but I blotted most of that off) Ewww!! so normally, I would have just put my head down and checked out what's going on on the floor! lol but I thought I would try David's advice out just so that I could report back, "Nope! Doesn't work!! Tried it, David!! Doesn't work!!" lol
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Leanne says

2012-03-03 03:51:44

PS I am so glad that I came back and checked this blog. I totally forgot this advice and plan to use it! Thanks LoveForever for sharing your experience. Leanne
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Leanne says

2012-03-03 03:50:29

I have posted the issue on the internal conflict on David's Friday Q & A. I am asking all of the men on there to tell me HONESTLY what they think when a woman that they are with really enjoys sex. I have really laid myself bare, but decided that it is time to deal with this issue once and for all...
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LoveForever says

2012-03-03 02:30:24

Leanne, just blame it on "hypersexuality"! lol That's what my mom does about me! lol It's so embarrassing! Everything has a clinical diagnosis lol (probably doesn't help that she's a doctor, either lol). If I'm wearing a miniskirt she tells total strangers that I have "hypersexuality" and she's serious about it lol like it's a problem that needs to be cured! lol If I'm wearing a swimsuit, I'm an exhibitionist... omg the list goes on! lol It looks hilarious now but when you're little and growing up and she tells you you're an exhibitionist, it's like WTH?!?! lol There's worse ones she does too about gifts that I have that she's burningly jealous of! She makes them out like they're bad things! :(
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LoveForever says

2012-03-03 00:15:19

I hate your newsletters!! lol Make them boring!! lol I always have to open them and read them as soon as I see them when I don't have time to! lol Otherwise, the title stays in my head all day and makes me wonder what it says inside! lol I'm going to have to have them sent to a different e-mail account!! lol Also, your advise causes real big problems!! I was at a restaurant with a girlfriend and I was like, "Ok, I'll practice on the waiter!" He was kinda cute (not as scotching hot as the valet guy, though! lol My friend and I were fighting over who gets to go up and give him the tip when we were leaving! Both of us wanted to!! lol). So, when we were in the restaurant, I was like eyeing the waiter and doing kinda seductive things! lol But then as he was bringing our drinks, he was spilling them! (I was ticked!! I had a the cutest $300 dress on! lol) Oh, no! It gets worse! So then he was taking our order and he seemed to be writing it down. I'm like looking at him all seductively....he looks so nervous!! lol After, he leaves to put in our order....but then he comes back and says, "What did you order, again?" lol I swear!! lol Later, when he brings out our order, he totally ordered the wrong thing for my friend and brought me something better than I ordered! lol
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Tina says

2012-02-26 16:15:26

A couple of other things that will help unlock the "inner goddess" Always wearing sexy fun underware and regular heart pound sweat pouring workouts. :) Leanne - So sorry to read that you are struggling with your desire for sex (been there done that). The fact that you are aware of it means you are one step closer to resolving it. For me personally the struggle with sex was a combination of being with the wrong man for me and a lack of self love. Keep working on yourself and you will get there. :)
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Leanne says

2012-02-26 10:01:31

You know something? Typing that out, I have realised that I have totally lost my dating confidence. I would rather be by myself where I am happy and enjoy my own company than to risk feedback of being too emotional and intense again. It's horrible. :( You ask in Naked would I date myself. The answer is "no" I wouldn't for this reason. Would I have a relationship with myself? The answer is yes. I think that I have a lot to offer in the long term to someone.
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Leanne says

2012-02-26 09:53:58

Wow. Great blog and very timely for me right now. David, how do I deal with a very old fashioned upbringing and the fact that I am a very sexual person as well? If I do let go, I then am overcome with guilt later that the man will think that I am some total slut. It's far, far from the truth. I can count on my fingers the amount of partners that I have had and I am 40. Sex is a BIG deal to me. This complete value clash results in me losing confidence and becoming needy. It's horrible. It's like some constant battle ground in my head. I have come to the conclusion that I am just plain hard work and have stopped dating period.
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ANDIE says

2012-02-26 05:28:34

They say the chase is the best part of the relationship for men and the most important part, as well. So, if they know they have your interest, then they can have you waiting and go on to more women. Just asking because I readabout this the other day.
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