So this is a subject that often throws up a bit of controversy and difference of opinion – How to text women like a man, not a teenage girl!
As you know, I’m not a fan of text messaging anyway. I don’t see why we can’t just pick up the phone, dial a number, and talk. It’s so much better hearing someone’s voice. You can hear their tone, the expression they use, and tons of other great verbal cues about how they’re feeling.
Anyway, like it or not, texting is one of the most popular ways to communicate now, so you need to know how to do it right. “How can I text wrong, David?”
You can text wrong in a bunch of ways my friends!
In fact, if you don’t know what you’re doing when you text a girl/woman, you can make yourself look weak, effeminate, and even creepy. I see so many guys making the same stupid mistakes when it comes to texting, and it drives me nuts. So let’s try and address some of these mistakes now so you don’t end up in the friend zone, or even the creep zone!
Stop With The LOL!
LOL LMAO LMFAO PSML!
I mean what the hell is this?
Laugh out loud is so weak!
It’s like a little teenage girl giggling nervously in the corner. Some guys flat out disagree with me on this but I don’t care, LOL makes you look weak. It makes you look effeminate. LOL is something most people associate with teenagers or girls.
If you were just using an LOL every now and then it wouldn’t be so bad, but guys use it in almost every single message they send. It’s so overused it’s sloppy, it’s lazy, and it looks stupid. I hate the way people shorten words to like “gr8” and “c u l8er” but I get that’s part of the whole text talk movement, but please, guys…cut out the LOL!
Text In Statements!
I tell you all the time to own your words. Now I’m telling you to own your texts. There’s no difference between the two. When you send a woman a text, be strong, be bold, and be confident in what you’re saying. Don’t say, “It would be great to see you again. Maybe we could do it again. Are you free next Tuesday?”
Say, “I had a great time. I’d like to see you again. I’m free next Tuesday. I’ll pick you up and 8 and we’ll do something. Deal?”
If she’s not free, she’ll tell you. If she’s not interested, she’ll tell you. But either way she’ll know she’s dealing with a real man who knows what he wants, and isn’t afraid to ask for it.
Own your texts guys!
Don’t Escalate To Quickly
There’s an art to escalating a girl sexually by text which I teach in “A Guys Guide To Texting.”
Get it right and you can quickly go from friends to lovers. Get it wrong and you can end up shooting past the friend zone, and going direct to the creep or perve zone. Believe me, there’s no way back from either of those places.
The secret is not jumping in too fast. If your first text after, “I had a great time tonight” is “Send me a picture of your breasts” you’re ahead of yourself!
Check out the video below, and I’ll give you some great examples of how NOT to text a woman, and then once you’ve watched that go check out, “A Guys Guide To Texting” and discover how to text like man!