So you’re out on a Friday night.

You see this incredibly, sexy, beautiful woman.

And she keeps getting hit on—over and over again—by all these loser guys.

How do you pull her away from one of these guys that she’s talking to?

Well, you can do what most guys do:  get inside your head, try to figure out the perfect thing to say, and wait your turn.

And by the time you finally have the guts to talk to her, she’s so burnt out from dealing with all these guys that come over with a lousy pick-up line, that no matter what you say it isn’t going to intrigue her.

Or, you could do what I do:  be really gutsy and ballsy.

Did you know that I worked in a bar in New York City for three years and then owned one for four? That’s right:  seven years in the bar business.  I’ve seen more men fail with women in bars than in any other place that exists, so I know what works and what doesn’t.

Not only that, I have failed miserably in every single bar in this country, in this world, trying to figure out what worked.

And there’s something that I found to work all the time:


Act like you know her.

While she’s talking to a guy, you walk directly over to her. You look at her, you give her a big smile, and say, “What are you doing? I can’t believe you didn’t come over and say hello. It’s been so long, how are you?”

Then you turn to the guy, you put your hand on the guy’s shoulder, and say, “Hey, look, I need to catch up with her for one minute. Do you mind just giving me a minute and then you can come back over here and talk to her? We haven’t seen each other in so long.”

And so he leaves.

You know what this does?  She has no idea what’s going on, you’ve dismissed the guy for her. And whether she was interested in him or not, you believe she’s not interested in him because you’ve read the situation. She finds you to be the Alpha male that she’s looking for because you got rid of the annoying guy, and there you are, standing there, gutsy as can be.



Get them.