I was having lunch with a friend the other day and she started getting upset in the middle of our meal.

She looked at me and said, “The guy I’m dating right now has been great. I just feel like I’m never going to get better.”

I looked at her and said, “You’re beautiful. You’re amazing. You’re still young.”

She responded with, “I’m 40. I haven’t met him yet.”

And I said to her, “Because you haven’t been ready to meet him yet.”

You see, great men truly do exist. They really do. Evolved, beautiful, heartfelt men are out there. They’re out there but you just haven’t been ready for them yet.

You Need to Be Great First to Find Great Men

great men do existYou see, in terms of finding that great man, you need to really be that great woman back.

You need to be open, warm, loving. You need to not be afraid.

You need to not have the expectations of what you think the perfect guy is and really just allow him to come in because there is no perfect. So let’s change the wording from perfect to amazing. To get that amazing guy is completely possible. He’s truly out there and he’s waiting to meet you. As a matter of fact, he’s knocking on your door right now. Hurry, go answer it. Made you think, huh?

How do I know he’s out there? Because I meet great men every day. But it takes you to be great first. It takes you to open up. It takes you to start seeing who you are.

Let Go of the Fear

When you go out on a date with a guy, don’t be so afraid. When a man comes, it’s really good. Don’t be so afraid. If a man texts you the next day and tells you he had a great time and wants to see you again, text him back and tell him you want to see him again.

Don’t be so afraid. Let go of your fears and learn to be your best.

We all want love. We all desire love. We all want to be loved. But we all have to start being open and just being real with it.