Remember that saying “Do what you love, and the money will follow?” So many people spend so much of their life chasing — chasing money, interviews and jobs — and doing things they don’t like just to make a little bit of money here and there. Some people I know even stay in careers they don’t like because they’re too afraid to go out and do what they love.

I had a great conversation yesterday with a client of mine. I told him I was dedicating today’s blog to him because of something really interesting he said to me.

He said, “Man, I want to have a summer of doing things that I love, but I am afraid I am not going to meet any women if I do that.” Guys are always so afraid of not meeting women, that they go out and do things they don’t love.

They go to places they don’t like.
They go to parties to which they don’t want to go.
They go to bars even though they don’t drink.

They go to places like this, i.e., places they don’t enjoy going, because they think there might be women there. What happens when you do this, though, is that you bring your bad energy with you and you look miserable. So there’s no way in the world you are going to meet anyone because you’re not happy.

If you do what you love, you have an entirely different (and better) energy about you. You have this feeling about you.

People are attracted to you because you’re actually having a good time. Everyone wants to be around somebody who is having a good time. So if you do what you love, the women will follow.

Now, granted, there are some places where this will not always be the case. You’re probably not going to meet women at a WWE wrestling match . . . although, then again, you might.

If you pick five coed things that you like to do or places you enjoy going, then the women will follow because everyone is attracted to people who are enjoying themselves and having a good time.

Today’s podcast is all about that. In this podcast, I go even deeper into how you can start living your life doing things you really love and how the women will follow when you do.

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So for purposes of this blog, I’m going to modify the saying from the beginning of the blog. From now on our new saying will be this: Do what you love, and the women will follow.

Learning how to be able to approach and interact with any woman you want with total CONFIDENCE and in ways you will ENJOY, is something you CAN DO. If you want to learn step-by-step how to do this, check out my Men’s Mastery Series!