I remember when I lived in New York City – one of the most expensive cities in the world, no matter what year you were there – there were many time when I was broke.

That’s kind of what being in your 20s is all about. Sometimes you just didn’t have coins to scrape together to buy yourself a meal. But that never stopped me from dating.

Some of the best dates I ever had were when I had no money. That’s because cheap dates take so much creativity in order to succeed.

Ideas for Great Cheap Dates

When I was living in New York, I remember always having a glass of wine at a restaurant or bar where friends of mine worked. I used to be a bartender in the city, so we had this network of people that hooked each other up. We would be able to save money and help one another out. It’s amazing how much you can drink when you just give a bartender a good tip and how they’ll feed you alcohol because they know they’re going to get the favor back.

But I want to talk about the psychology today of cheap dates. In this video, you’re going to get a lot of ideas for cheap dates that are going to work. Dates that are going to make her want to see you again and again.

You see, anybody can make a dinner reservation. It really takes absolutely no creativity at all.

When you go and have dinner, it’s very easy to find a great restaurant. All you need to do is go to Open Table or Yelp and check out the reviews to find something. It takes a minimal amount of time to do that in today’s world.

It’s convenient, it’s simple, it’s easy, and it’s lazy.

Creativity is Sexy

When you’re dating a girl for the very, very first time, she wants to see some creativity. You want to stand out among all the other men she may or may not be dating.

And being able to stand out means that she’ll most likely be more impressed by the things you do.

You see, a cheap date doesn’t mean a bad date. A cheap date means a creative date. And there are plenty of ways to get creative on your dates.

When you’re creative in planning a date, the woman is going to respond in a lot of different ways.

First, she’s going to see you put forth an effort that most guys don’t do.

Second, she’s going to tell her friends all about it, which means that the conversation will revolve around you and the date for quite some time.

It’s not going to be like, “Oh, we went out to dinner, we had a good time.” It’s going to be more like her phone blowing up because you came up with a creative idea and all her friends are talking about it.

They’ll say they wish the men they were dating would come up with ideas like this too.

That’s why creative dates are the best dates. Because you’re leaving an emotional imprint on her.

You’re emotionally connecting to her. And when you emotionally connect with her, she’s going to form an attachment to you – an attachment that’s going to bring something to her, which is the start of a relationship.

Create an Instant Connection with Her

Women love to talk and feel. They’ll talk to their friends and tell them, “On our first date, you know where he took me? He took me to one of the places suggested in David Wygant’s video. And that made me fall for him.”

That’s what you want. You want a woman to fall for you. You want a woman to remember you. You want a woman to think about you. You want to create an emotional attraction to her.

The average dinner where you’re sitting across from one another chewing food and exchanging resumes and telling stories is not really fun.

This weekend, if you have a date, I strongly suggest you watch this video and start using some of the ideas that are in it. It’s going to change the way you date, and not only that, it’s going to put money back in your pocket and gain emotional heart points with the woman that you’re looking to pursue.

Check it out, pass it around. And leave a comment below; be sure to tell everybody else some of the ideas that you might have too.