Are you like most women?
Are you constantly waiting for the right man to come your way?
Man, women have been sold that scenario since the beginning of time.
I call it the Disney moment.
You’re walking the aisles of the supermarket and all of a sudden your prince comes down the aisle on his white horse, dismounts the horse, looks at you, and says:
“Those are my favorite crackers as well. I’d love to have you come to my house. I’ve got some homemade cheese, some olives, a great bottle of wine, and I’d love to share it with you and get to know you. What makes you tick? What are you all about? Who are you as a woman? I want to hear everything.”
How many of you just got goosebumps reading that? It would be amazing to have that moment happen to you, wouldn’t it?
Of course it would.
Then again, 90% of the men in this world have no idea how to approach a woman.
That’s right, 90%.
Only 10% of the men in this world actually know how to approach a woman.
So if you’re going to kick back and wait, guess what’s going to happen: you’re never going to meet the man of your dreams.
You’ve got to get them to approach you.
You’ve got to go and do things to get him to approach you. You’ve got to smile at guys. You’ve got to have open body language.
You’ve got to do things to get him to approach you. Otherwise you’re going to be waiting for that magic moment that never happens.
A few weeks ago, a fella suggested coffee, which I perceived as pathetic. I declined because he didn’t sound confident.
I’ve been too harsh, I think.
Due to texting many men have gotten lazy and laid from low esteem women/people pleasers. Yes I smile & flirt and do thinks to get him to approach me and even still, too many men behave as though they want us to make the first move sorry I’m not doing that. The only way I know a man is interested in me, is when he approaches me first and again, I’m smiling, body language is open, etc. etc.
The FEW times I’ve approached men first I was never secure in the relationship, never knew if he liked me or not.