Getting laid, one-night stands, are not worth it unless you desire to just have sex.

Today’s video is about authenticity, hot sex, and truly connecting so she wants more.

I remember back when I was 23 years old. I was on a quest to sleep with as many women as possible. Girls, women, whatever you want to call them, I wanted to sleep with as many of them as possible.

The summer of 1986 was a classic summer.

It was the summer that the New York Mets made it to the World Series.

It was the summer that my friends, Wayne and Mark and their cousin, had a points system. It was unlike any other points system you have ever seen.

We had a ‘get laid points system’.

Every time you got laid there were points.

The winner by Labor Day got the prize as the guy who could get laid the most during the summer.

The bets were on.

It went from Memorial Day to Labor Day.

As childish as it may seem for some of you readers right now, it was a lot of fun to me at that time.

I ended up winning that points system. I don’t remember the number of girls or women I slept with that summer. The number was high. But I remember winning and feeling so fantastic and validated.

But I also remember feeling something else that lasted a lifetime.

There was nothing authentic about what I was doing. It was all just a game. It was

That’s all it was. It was a game that I was playing with my friends using women as conquests and trophies.

I can’t even remember the names of any of the girls I slept with. I didn’t have relationships with them, and most of the time I was becoming a penis salesman, selling myself to them.

The experience was a lot of fun, but I hurt a lot of people.

I don’t think about it now because it was 25 years ago. I don’t think about the number of people that I hurt. They were grown ups. But I do realize that there was nothing authentic about what I was doing.

Not only that, the sex wasn’t that great. Half the time I had trouble getting hard

Why? Because I was so nervous. I barely knew this person, yet I was trying to have sex with them i
mediately. And I was in my head, wondering if I was going to have sex. I couldn’t relax.

Fast forward to now, one of the biggest lessons I teach people is to be authentic.

It doesn’t matter if you want a one-night stand, a long-term relationship, or a booty call.

Authenticity leads to hot sex.

Too many guys are running a game on women every day.

Too many men are trying their hardest to get laid, not being real and authentic. They think if you’re real and authentic you won’t get laid.

In reality, the hottest thing that turns a woman on is an authentic man who states his mind, states where he’s at, and allows the woman to make a decision about what she wants to do.

Allowing her to make a decision, not tricking her into having sex with you.

Women want hot great sex. They crave it. They desire it. But they want to give it to people who are authentic.

Whether you’re looking for a one-night stand, or if you’re looking for a relationship, authenticity is the key.

Today’s video goes deep into being an authentic, powerful man.

You’ll be able to get sex, relationships — anything you want.

I’m all about authenticity. It feels great. I’ll tell a woman exactly how I feel or what I’m looking for.

You should try it. You’ll be shocked at how much more you get laid and how much hotter the sex is.