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Hey david.... just had a great thought.... I would love to find people.... both men and women.... who are in my local area to hang out with who subscribe to your blog, products, and beliefs.... I have no guy friends who I enjoy hanging out with that I can go out and have fun with and live the "lifestyle".... I think this would be a great tool for your followers to meet others.... to support and learn from each other.... what do you think?
sorry came in late...i listened to part of the podcast about approach anxiety...when a guy comes up to me i am usually polite...but if he rambles on or talks in the wind about the same thing over and over again then it gets boring...well i should be one to throw stones...next blog...
Nick, you nailed it with the whole not being dragged into any negative stuff. I too went through a divorce and the resulting distance of friends. That heavy feeling of alone was damn tough. It all started turning around once I accepted that I was alone in a very dark place AND I was the only person that could get my ass out of hell. Changes began almost immediately with the simple (or not so simple in some cases) act of distancing myself from all the negativity both inside and out. Unfortunately, I had yet to find great sites like this or getting out may have been a little easier and begun a lot sooner. So, Thank You David for doing what you do. Thank You Nick for sharing a piece of your story.
Excellent idea! I'd love to find some like-minded guys that are working on growing in my area as well. If any of you guys are in Orange County, let's meet up!
Good for him. He has a wonderful accent (Australian I presume) and his positive attitude is key. What you think about and how you think about yourself becomes your reality. I, too, ended a relationship with a VERY negative, Debbie Downer friend. Life is too short to waste time with people who disagree with your sunny outlook on life and like to start arguments with you.
Also, for anyone looking to make new friends Meetup is indeed a great resource. I run my own Meetup group for women and have made many new friends.
thanks dan but i was looking for people who specifically subscribe to davids beliefs in dating, life etc.... I can make friends very easily just have a hard time finding guys who have a similar mindset to me...
@Pan - British, but I've been in the US for quite a number of years.
I like the idea of a 'like-minded' group - I don't know if Meetup is a way to do it but I think you can set your own group up with a joining criteria, so you could specify a Wygant group or something that people who "know" who associate it with David's mindset.
Having friends with a similar mindset to be your wing-man/wing-girl is great. I didn't have that so it makes it harder, you have to have a strong personality and desire to do it yourself.
i think thats on david to add to his website... if he so desires to do so... but i think it would be a great idea... have a "wing" to push me out of my comfort zone as well as i would do the same with said "wing"
I can be shy, but that's not my problem. I sometimes lack confidence, but that's not my problem. My problem is that I just don't like anyone. I tend to dismiss excellence in the search for perfection; but even excellent, or just good, is nowhere to be found when I meet girls.
@ Brian - David has a community web/blob that you can subscribe to - people post in there to find "like minded" people in their area
I've seen the Meetup idea work in some other areas that I've been in - like minded people getting together to be wing-guys. If you are the admin on a group you can approve "members"
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