Speed DatingHave you guys ever tried speed dating?

You’ve got two minutes to impress a woman, and then you go the next woman, and the next one, and the next one.

That’s two minutes!

A lot of times guys go speed dating, don’t see a woman they’re really attracted to, and have a piss poor attitude for the night.

These guys are missing a serious trick!

Speed dating is the best place to practice your openers.

That’s right. It’s a great way to have a practice date. It’s a great way to practice your charm. It’s a great way to work on your confidence.  It’s the perfect tool if you struggle with approach. If you’re shy or have trouble communicating with women speed dating is the perfect way to beat approach anxiety.

I don’t care if the women are older than you, heavier than you, not as pretty as you want them to be, it really doesn’t matter. It’s a great way to work on your social skills.

I remember years ago I used to watch speed dating events. And I always watched the guys.  You could always tell when they weren’t interested in the woman they were talking to. They would slouch, they wouldn’t make eye contact, and they were obviously completely disconnected from the “conversation.”

But guys…

Life is all about perfecting skills so when the beautiful woman you do want to meet walks in the room, you’re able to go and talk to her. You’re able to approach her and sound intelligent, open, engaging, and exciting. You’ll actually sound like a man who actually knows how to talk with women.

Honestly, if you haven’t tried speed dating yet you need to get out there and give it a go!

If you’ve had any good (or bad) speed dating experiences I’d love to hear them.