Guys send me questions a lot, asking me how I deal with my ex-girlfriends. My answer? It depends.

The crazy ones I let go into the Universe. I said goodbye.

The ones with whom I had a bond, I absolutely kept the friendship going. I love the friendship I have with some of my ex’s. They were great friends to begin with, and I see no reason to throw a five year friendship out the window just because I am no longer romantically involved with them.

We have talked about this subject before, but I really and truly believe that if you are on good terms when you breakup that you can stay on good terms with them for the long term.

It’s important to stay on good terms with people, because you never know where you’re going to be, to whom you are going to need to reach out, and what you’re going to need. Ex’s are good people, so don’t throw them all out.