Google Eyes: The New Dating Tool For Men And Women

May 13, 2011 16 Comments Men Attract and Approach, Uncategorized

Man, what an amazing city Munich is! Whoever said the Germans are not friendly? Everyone has been super nice, the cafes here are wonderful and relaxing, and for the drinkers the beer gardens are great fun! Shogo and I have been exploring the city and meeting all sorts of new and interesting people everywhere we go. There’s something I’ve always loved about European women-so many of them are just very graceful and really know how to enjoy the moment. For my European readers, I’m sure you can relate to what I’m saying. We’ve got some amazing new surprises in store for you guys, especially for my German readers!

So Shogo and I were in a beer garden today in Munich near the English Garden, and we sat and had a great conversation with a couple of German men and women we had just met. Beer gardens are so funny because it’s such a bright open space so everybody can see everybody else, everybody is kind of on display and can check each other out. As you know, I teach you guys to talk about what is going on in the moment, to observe the things that are going on around you and will never run out of things to talk about.

So the six of us, we all started talking about how in beer gardens there are so many people and everyone can check each other out. I introduced them to a new English term, “googley eyes,” and they couldn’t stop saying the word.

“So what are googley eyes?” they asked me. Googley eyes is not getting on Google.com and punching in a search for the best optometrist in Munich, real googley eyes is when somebody looks at you and they have that certain look. That look that makes you kind of gaga, that makes you weak in the knees. That look that sends the message that they just like they want to eat you for lunch (and they’re probably thinking that way too).

Googley Eyes

For men, when a woman shoots a set of googley eyes at us, all we think is, “Oh my God!” We immediately go right into our head, and then our thoughts shoot right to our groin. We read that sexuality, because real googley eyes is just pure sexual energy. It is uninhibited sexual energy, that look that drives us crazy. All of the sudden when you get shot that look, that person becomes the sexiest most erotic passionate person that you’ve seen in ages. Googley eyes, gotta love it.

I’ll tell you, used to be my favorite thing when I was single when I would meet somebody and get those googley eyes from her, because I would just googley eye her right back. I know all of you know Google as the search engine term, and it’s really time to set the search engine as yourself. Your own personal search engine is now going to find other people, because what do search engines do? They search for that perfect match right then and there for them to keep riding down the road and see what pops up.

So today’s message applies to my female readers just as much as to my male readers. The next time you see somebody and you really want to get their attention, what do you do? You shoot them the hottest set of googley eyes and you give them a look that they will never forget. You be completely uninhibited with your energy, make them feel you, you make them notice you, and you get them so intrigued that you make them want to get to know you more.

So that’s what the real “google” is all about. Well, I that was a pretty good analogy at least. What do you guys think about that? Googley eyes…

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Mark says

2012-05-20 09:24:44

You are wrong, dude.
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Mark says

2012-05-20 09:23:35

Exactly. Women can do it and it's pretty much ok. Maybe a few exceptions. But if a man does it? I'd feel very nervous with that approach. The only time when I'd feel comfortable doing this is if the lady and I have enough rapport. At that point, I'd let my gut instinct tell me when I can do it.
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mohamad says

2012-04-27 02:20:30

question to David, hi David, welcome back from Germany, let us have a challenge for you, why dont you try to visit any muslim country and show us how can someone use your techniques in this environment, I;ve heared a dating coach (Mark Manson - as I can remember) saying that women thre are standoffish and the country as a whole is boring. would you for it? come on... NOTE, if you are coming, go step by step in order for you not to be slapped or deported back to US very soon yours,
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Jay Scott says

2011-05-20 11:16:44

David is right on. Googley eyes is more than just looking at someone; it is giving them a look. Eye contact and a sly smile. You can see it register on their face. Priceless. After that it hardly matters what you say, as long as the tone of your voice matches the look. The ice is broken and you can get to know them. Seriously, it is a lot of fun!
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Amanda says

2011-05-15 20:34:12

David you are sooo right! I met a guy once who fell just head over heels for me when he saw me driving down the street and when I met him he gave me the "google eyes" and told me he just had to take a chance and meet me since he may never get another chance again. It didn't work out in the end but the google eyes is a powerful thing and will never forget him or that day.
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Lukas says

2011-05-14 13:08:05

@Ben: wouldn´t it be nice to create a new culture of more social freedom and energy, energy that often get lost in our minds, thinking too much of social appraisals, of what other people are thinking about us? if you are looking at a girl, so what. you just look at her, this is human nature. i guess that if you wouldn´t have the stalker mind-set, you wouldn´t care about the whole situation. you just look at her. that´s it. of course she realizes that you are curious about her. so what again :) we are projecting so much our inner feelings, our mind-set into other people, more concrete, what other people are thinking about us. if we would free us from that, we wouldn´t only feel much better, we would convey a much better energy to other people, no matter of what intense or quality. it is just natural and for that good to get out and to be lived. just my thoughts about that..
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Lukas says

2011-05-14 12:54:41

@Kevin. in this regard you are absolutely right. everything you are feeling is good to come out and it is good to share that.
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Kevin says

2011-05-14 12:45:22

@Lukas I know it's David's blog and he can write whatever he wants,I'm just saying it's getting old. David has made his blog public now hasn't he? Sure he makes Munich sound exciting, I don't have the cash to fly there myself and find out and not once does he sound like he's bragging, just sounds like a broken record. He has his opinion and I have mine. Isn't that what he tries to motivate all of us to do? Speak your mind?
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Ben says

2011-05-14 09:10:51

Interesting topic. I think this could work especially If the girl thinks your very good looking or if she has seen you interacting with alot of girls which triggers the preselection attraction switch so when you give that girl the google eyes she feels incredibly special. You could have also talked about holding eye contact longer when you spot a girl looking at you. Google eyes and holding eye contact longer is a great peice of body language to show major confidence but be careful. Crossing the line and doing this too much will not only make you look like a creepy stalker perv but completely give your power to her. After throwing the google eye pitch be sure to give mix messages next. Google eyes are a very obvious indicater of interest but the 1 step foward 2 steps back metaphor states make her guessing and wondering if what she saw was true. Ignore her for awhile or act uniterested for a bit to have her begging for valadation and for the google eyes to return. Then go in for the kill!
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Cristi says

2011-05-14 05:40:33

i think just the other day i gav googley eyes to someone,i was at a stop light ,on my right was a girl,i was chewing the last piece from a pretzel.i wanted to ask her something .i turn to her and gave her a big smile and the googley-eyes,but i had to wait 3-4 seconds to swallow :))and during this time the girl was so intrigued,she gave me a big smile,and can't wait to talk to me.and i started to talk to her was a really nice person.but even now i'm starstruck by the way she responded :)))
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Lukas says

2011-05-14 03:52:44

I instead can not get enough of David telling about his trip to munich! @Kevin: it is david´s blog not yours, of course it is meant to be to help us, motivate us, but this is exactly the thing he is doing all the time, he isn´t bragging with his trip to munich, but inspiring us through his lifestyle, that´s it!! so david, keep on rolling :)
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Patrick says

2011-05-14 02:40:07

Are you sure about this, David? Most guys are going to try this and it will be creepy and desperate. I think sometimes this can happen in the moment and it's really hot when two people do that, but a lot of guys who are trying to force this to happen will come off as creepy.
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Kevin says

2011-05-13 17:33:40

David, The last 3-4 blogs you've put up all start out the same and how how amazing Munich is, and how your having a great time...Ok, we get it, we're all very happy for you! Starting to sound like a guy I used to work with "hey, Did ya see my bike in the parking lot? next day "I rode my bike in today,it's in the parking lot,did you see it?" Next day after that, "Hey I went ridin today on my bike after work,that shit is loud!" Not trying to be a "Bob" but I don't need to be reminded about your trip everyday. Once was enough.
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liveforgold says

2011-05-13 15:22:06

David i usually agree with most of the things you say but I dont know if i agree with this. its okay for girls to give googley eyes, but when a guy does it, i think it can turn a girl off; especially when you've just met. it looks like you are looking at them like they are a piece of meat and then they think you're a creep or predator that only wants to hookup with them. For myself, i find that it's better not to give googley eyes, even when a woman gives you googley eyes, as it makes you different than most guys. most guys get all excited when a girl gives them googley eyes and they think they "got it in the bag." they give googley eyes back and then become so lame. then the comversation dies out or it turns completely sexual. Basically, the guy loses all that was intriguing about him. Unless of course it is one of those nights where the girl has shaved her legs and is wearing her special panties and is just looking to hookup. I dont know maybe you have perfected a certain googley eye look that can turn girls on and also not make you look like Hornball Lecter.
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Lukas says

2011-05-13 11:11:34

I really love it to turn a strange girl on just with the way i look at her. I love it even more when she starts to stutter :P
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Lukas says

2011-05-13 11:08:31

Very creative analogy David! I like that but i don´t like the word googley as much, especially the sound of the word. my first association was something like a goggle-eye :)
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