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Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.
this is the best thing ive ever heard .
i am a product .and without marketing no one will buy me !
thank you
i will record this on my phone and set as an alarm clock to woke me up in the moring !!!
hope you dont mind
tomorow im going to salsa class . marketing myselve
Um, excuse me;I recently sent some emails to david but they were unresponded to. There might be a problem with my email, i dont know, but i was in dire need of help lol. Sorry for this informal message
If any of you are history buffs you will enjoy this letter.
It was Written by Ben Franklin and it deals with women and mistresses.
Old Mistresses Apologue
Benjamin Franklin
June 25, 1745
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My dear Friend,
I know of no Medicine fit to diminish the violent natural Inclinations you mention; and if I did, I think I should not communicate it to you. Marriage is the proper Remedy. It is the most natural State of Man, and therefore the State in which you are most likely to find solid Happiness. Your Reasons against entring into it at present, appear to me not well-founded. The circumstantial Advantages you have in View by postponing it, are not only uncertain, but they are small in comparison with that of the Thing itself, the being married and settled. It is the Man and Woman united that make the compleat human Being. Separate, she wants his Force of Body and Strength of Reason; he, her Softness, Sensibility and acute Discernment. Together they are more likely to succeed in the World. A single Man has not nearly the Value he would have in that State of Union. He is an incomplete Animal. He resembles the odd Half of a Pair of Scissars. If you get a prudent healthy Wife, your Industry in your Profession, with her good Economy, will be a Fortune sufficient.
But if you will not take this Counsel, and persist in thinking a Commerce with the Sex inevitable, then I repeat my former Advice, that in all your Amours you should prefer old Women to young ones. You call this a Paradox, and demand my Reasons. They are these:
1. Because as they have more Knowledge of the World and their Minds are better stor’d with Observations, their Conversation is more improving and more lastingly agreable.
2. Because when Women cease to be handsome, they study to be good. To maintain their Influence over Men, they supply the Diminution of Beauty by an Augmentation of Utility. They learn to do a 1000 Services small and great, and are the most tender and useful of all Friends when you are sick. Thus they continue amiable. And hence there is hardly such a thing to be found as an old Woman who is not a good Woman.
3. Because there is no hazard of Children, which irregularly produc’d may be attended with much Inconvenience.
4. Because thro’ more Experience, they are more prudent and discreet in conducting an Intrigue to prevent Suspicion. The Commerce with them is therefore safer with regard to your Reputation. And with regard to theirs, if the Affair should happen to be known, considerate People might be rather inclin’d to excuse an old Woman who would kindly take care of a young Man, form his Manners by her good Counsels, and prevent his ruining his Health and Fortune among mercenary Prostitutes.
5. Because in every Animal that walks upright, the Deficiency of the Fluids that fill the Muscles appears first in the highest Part: The Face first grows lank and wrinkled; then the Neck; then the Breast and Arms; the lower Parts continuing to the last as plump as ever: So that covering all above with a Basket, and regarding only what is below the Girdle, it is impossible of two Women to know an old from a young one. And as in the dark all Cats are grey, the Pleasure of corporal Enjoyment with an old Woman is at least equal, and frequently superior, every Knack being by Practice capable of Improvement.
6. Because the Sin is less. The debauching a Virgin may be her Ruin, and make her for Life unhappy.
7. Because the Compunction is less. The having made a young Girl miserable may give you frequent bitter Reflections; none of which can attend the making an old Woman happy.
8thly and Lastly They are so grateful!!
Thus much for my Paradox. But still I advise you to marry directly; being sincerely Your affectionate Friend.
On a related note about action plans:
Grab a friend to help you set up goals and to hold you accountable for them. It's easy to make excuses, it's a lot harder making them, if you know that there is someone who will rub your face in them for the rest of your life.
I've set up a Monthly Challenge deal with a friend today, where we challenge each other to get out of our comfort zones with a new task each month. Not just related to dating, but to growing into the best man you can be and pushing yourself to walk down that path.
My athletic career this century consists of one afternoon of playing basketball back in 2005. Now I have to attend parcour training in february as my first challenge. I hate my life right now more than I can put in words, but I know that it's ultimately going to be for the best. And more importantly I know there can't be any excuses.
So if you're having problems with discipline, let someone in on your action plan and commit to it.
Awesome podcast! :)
Alright, just like I did with my Japanese studies (I do 1-2 hours a day studying the aspects of the language. I try to do at least 30 minutes if I miss it by accident or I need to do something else), I'll come up with my own action plan on my dating and social life. Alright, better get my ass off this chair and do it!
Ha, i love action plans. They're useful for just about any area of your life. Of course, it also makes sense for dating and learning to talk to people. I think it's just important to try to put things on the plan that are really possible to accomplish, and not just things that are way out of reach.
I've been wantng to learn how to dance, and I found a great place to go. the problem is that I don't have no one to go with. Do you think going alone is a good idea?
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