How many times do you go out with a strong intent?

Saturday, Sunday, Monday, it doesn’t matter what day of the week it is.

Do you think to yourself, “Today is going to be a lot of fun as soon as I can find some women and hang out with them.”?

You pretty much make your intent to chase women all day long.

Think about that for a second.

When you set an intention to chase women, doesn’t the phrase “chasing women” bring about a sense of desperation?

In life, when you use the term chase, aren’t you referring to people who are always behind?

Ever watch a sporting event? Watch the team that falls really far behind.  You know they’re not coming back 99% of the time, because they don’t believe that they can.  They start chasing the other team down the field.

In life, most guys will have an unsatisfactory day if they didn’t chase enough women, because that’s what they thought would be fun that day.

The thing is: you already are the destination.  

What does that really mean?

Wherever you are, you’re already where you’re supposed to be.

You are the party, no matter where you are.  No matter where you are at any point of the day, you can have fun just by making that decision that you want to have fun.

Whenever I go anywhere, I decide that where I am is where I’m supposed to be, and I’m going to have the most amount of fun there.

When I was in Chicago, I wanted to hitchhike, so we all as a group decided to hitchhike around the lake. The problem is, nobody picked us up on their bicycle and no joggers put us back on their back.  In that moment, we were playful, we laughed, we smiled and other people enjoyed it, too.

Because we were the destination.  Wherever you are is where you’re supposed to be.  Whatever you’re doing is already the most fun, so why not enjoy it?

Life is too short.  Wherever I go, I feel like I’m having a party, and I don’t care where it is. I could be walking down the street.  I make every destination my destination, meaning I’m going to have so much fun that people will be attracted to me, which in turn stops the entire chasing idea from ever happening.

If you chase women, you’re desperate.

If you continue to think that you need to chase women in order to get them, then you’re going to continue to be alone and not hooked up with the gorgeous woman that you actually desire.

So stop chasing and start attracting.

This is step one to having women chase you.

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