Internet BUlly “This blog is supposed to be about picking up women. Why are we talking about iPhones?”

“Who’s the guy in the scarf? Why is he telling me how to talk to women?”

“You know jack s#it! All women are nasty users!”

Etc etc.

Sometimes I read the comments on the blog and I think to myself, “Are you kidding me?”

I could care less if you agree or disagree with me. In fact, as long as you have an opinion I’m happy about it. But it has to be an intelligent opinion. That’s what life is all about. It’s about having intelligent discussions about different topics, which help us grow as people. That’s the reason I post a blog. I want to see and hear different opinions, and find out what you’re all about.

But some days I read the comments and it feels like there’s no intelligence here. Sometimes it’s like aliens are posting or something. Sometimes you guys like to fight with one another, call each other names, and even make personal comments about people. Is that how you talk to people in real life? I guarantee it’s not. You’re just the Internet bully. It’s like you become the person you were in third grade. You just sit there and say the dumbest things to people just to get a reaction.

Once again, I love the comments, but keep them constructive. I mean, if you don’t like John, my friend “in the scarf” that appears in my videos, tell me why you don’t like him. Try to see the benefit of what’s up there. Say, “He seems to touch and be very tactile with women. Is that a good idea? I don’t think that works for everyone.”

Make a valid contribution rather than just flaming someone without giving a reason. On the subject of John, are there some women who get turned off by the touching?

Absolutely, I’ve been with him and see it happen, but he does it because it’s his qualifier. He doesn’t want a woman that’s uptight. He doesn’t want a woman that’s afraid of physical touch. The reason I put those videos up is so you can see there’s many ways to approach women and talk to women. I love the fact you like the way I do it, and want to see more of me. That’s fantastic.

But acknowledge the fact I’m showing you different styles, and admire the fact he has the guts to do it, rather than spewing venom on the Internet. It’s funny. I asked one of you to actually go out there, shoot some approaches, and then put the video up. I offered a free critique. It’s not often you get a dating coach offering completely free coaching. There was no response at all. Put your money where your mouth is. If you’re going to spew venom and someone calls you out, back it up. Be a man or woman about it.

Come on, folks.  You’re better than being Internet bullies.  Let’s have intelligent debates.  I don’t care if it’s 300 comments of intelligent debates, and you don’t agree with me.  If you don’t agree with somebody, tell them you don’t agree.  This is a great way to learn how to communicate without being like a frustrated child. Life is all about communication.  You should re-read some of the comments that are up there.  Imagine sitting in a restaurant and somebody talking to you like that.  I’ve never had it happen to me in real life, and neither have you. So let’s talk!