They get in their heads and they worry about what to say to women.
So when they’re in the presence of a woman, they’re going through an entire script, never actually connecting with her.
I like to do things a bit differently.
Watch the video and hear me tell you about how I like to create attraction:
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I continue to hear that the number one thing a woman wants from a man is to be able to "make her laugh". What in the hell does this mean? It is so vague that it is useless for a man to understand. Women dont even understand what it means. They just hear it and repeat it like parrots. They don't want a stand up comedian, or a joker, but a guys who "makes them laugh" in some nondescript method. What the hell does this vague nonsense women continue to spout even mean??
We want you to make us smile, so we want to spend more time with you. Some people are funny, some people are self-deprecating, some people are self-aware and some people are really observant. Making us smile, makes us connect with you.
So many mant are focused on that perfect line, but all we really want is to know that you are listening, and t make sure we enjoy our time together whether it is minutes, hours, or nights.
I've thought about this one a lot in the past!
It's vague because, generally, their understanding of what they're attracted by is vague. They also think they want roses and candle-lit dinners, but that sure as hell won't attract many if that's what you do on your first (or even 3rd!) date.
It won't get you anywhere to dwell on what they mean by this. It's as simple as this: everyone simply wants someone who makes them feel happy; to have a bit of banter. Everyone likes to be made to smile!
I agree, it's vague, and it's useless. But you'll be wasting your time to try and conclude anything more precise. You'll simply start over-generalising; what makes one woman smile, will make another cringe.
PS Chill out dude! Looking at them as if they all spout 'vague nonsense' will not help your plight! :)
~bob
I felt compelled to answer with more undefined vagueness. Its really about just being yourself. I will define this; when your comfortable in your own skin and can play with the different situations life throws at you, the humor in life will appear. Its not about "being funny" at all, its about having fun in your life and adjusting to all the situations life presents you. be authentic, dont try to put on any act EVER! And really just BE PRESENT IN THE MOMENT. Thats what life, attraction, and successful relationships are about.
not sure that you will understand what that means but I hope this helps
I agree with you Bob. Reminds me of the saying that women don't know what they want until it's in front of them. I think when you boil it down it just comes to confidence.
Bob, making a women laugh depends on the woman you're dating with...for example, one day i went out with a girl who told me she was a teacher in sports and religion. So i asked her, are you catholic ?
She answered: a little bit but not that much
Me: yeah i bet you pray before dinner and sit on your knees before you go to sleep.
She started to really laugh for 2 minutes...
So it depends on the woman you're dating, i'm sure other girls would find this isn't funny...
Hi, David you are right about creating attraction in women. You have just given away so much information in that one video it is amazing.
It is wonderful feeling to know that we all change our own thoughts and beliefs. It makes a massive difference in the world of communication and the way we think and act. It has completely changed my own perception about meeting women in this amazing world. It is so easy to meet and talk to women and fun!
Yes, I have purchased some of David's products… Mastery Series, the Girls Tell All Series, Undercover Approaches Women Crave and the NAKE! Book.
Thank you for changing my life.
Michael
From the UK England
Humor means something different for everyone..
I easily smile and laugh a lot, and find humor in a lot of things...I personally like dry humor..
And guys who of course take themselves seriously but at the same time know how to find humor in situations and in themselves..
@BOB
Listening to women's description of what they want is useless. It's so vague that it's no wonder they get harassed by every type of guy there is. You would think any guy with a pulse can get some women the way the throw out these cliched descriptions.
KC1, if the description of what they want is vague, it is because often times they do not know what they want..
But this is all a generalization, as many, especially 'enlightened" women know what they want :-)
Not looking for the funny guy here, either. Looking for the competitive gentleman. :D
I love the guy that compliments me because I love to compliment, praise and just be as affectionate as possible to a man. Unfortunately, guys don't find this attractive. hehe I've even been told by guys that this pushes them away but it's me and I've changed that and I was not happy being not that way and it didn't attract anymore guys anyway. It's not from a needy, desperate or clingy place either. It's a competition to be the most loving woman in the world. Guys don't understand that. hehe
But seriously, I look for "does he lead?" and like that "As Good As It Gets" line where he says something like, "you make me want to be a better man" except obviously I'm not looking to be a better man hehe but I love that feeling that a man gives me that makes me strive to be a better woman. I can only be around those types. because if you're not striving to be better everyday and believe that everyday you get better, what are you doing? hehe
Bob, my theory is that women say they want "sense of humor", and "confidence", and all that other vague bullcrap because what they REALLY want is so shallow, that they won't admit the truth because they don't want to be SEEN as shallow, so they LIE about it. Looks, money, power, and fame are what is really most important to women. It's really depressing, but it's the truth and it's just how the world works.
That's just my feelings about it. (I know I'm going to regret posting, and I know I'm gonna get backlash from the blog optimists, but screw it. I don't read this blog much anymore anyway.)
Read over a few dozen profiles on match or pof, and you will see that I am right. Make me laugh is what THEY SAY is most important to them. I know that is bull shit, just pointing it out. Women have no idea what they want till they see it, and it bites them in the ass...so to speak.
Well What Dave Is saying when he says be enthusiastic ,,and the humour thing is dead on ,,the secret is amuse yourself use them as a amusement,,If you can amuse yourself they will follow,, They will call you crazy,,or mean but they are interested,lol,say something like "I heard using a tobasco bottle as a butt plug is a bad Idea?" maybe she'll say cap on or cap off,,he he,, Women are just as horny and devious as we are!
To John I'm considered handsome it scares women off ,,untill I open my mouth and get under their skin,,make them laugh ,,make fun of their hair or earings,,is that your real hair? did you make those yourself ,,they will punch your arm or call you an asshole . but your in!! Looks and money wont get you anywhere alone,( they can actually make it harder look around at all the hot chicks with fat dorky looking boy friends),they just want their pig tails pulled,,lol. Under every woman is a scared little girl thats the secret. Peace out!
I constantly hear the fat, dorky, nerd, with the beautiful model girlfriend, but in real life, I rarely, if ever see it. sometimes the man, or woman, will let themselves go to hell(physically) after they have been together for a while, but initial attraction to extreme opposites in looks is extremely rare, so I am sick of hearing this argument.
Some of my family consider the phrase, "just wants to have fun" as a one night stand type of thing, when in fact, I mean, "fun" as in having fun like building a sand castle, having water balloon fights...lol Activities create a bonding experience that you will never forget! Do I want to sit there and chew food at a restaurant all the time, or sit at a bar. No!
Oy vey lol
Ok..Remember David posted a really good article last week about what we are looking for in a relationship? Notice he did not talk about the person, but describe your ideal "relationship" because its not all about the qualities of the person, male or female.
So for women, (and I am speaking for myself here and I am sure I am not the only one in this world who feels this way)
It is not about looks, or humor, or smart or fame or money..At all because those are just qualities of a person but it does not mean they would treat you well or you would have a long lasting, loving relationship with them...
For women, its "How do I "feel" when I am with this guy?" Whether she feels connected & cherished...These are the the main things they look for..
Also the feeling of being taken care of emotionally, safe, and the the feeling that they can "grow together" as well as even heal each other without evening knowing it..
Dear Bob
You need to stop listening to all that information flowing inside your head,
just STOP for a minute!
I am going to talk about walking over to meet a woman.
You might be scaring her with your own approach before you even open your mouth!
You are going to jump into her body and play the girl standing there. You are going to be the Girl. We are going to change roles! You are the Girl and you will see a man approaching you!
Just Imagine you are in side her body right now.
She is thinking about shopping.
She is 4 foot 9 inches tall.
She is Slim and light boned.
Her muscles are small.
She is 28 and smiling.
She is looking into a shop window at a new book!
She is thinking about buying this book to read.
She sees a man approaching and the reflection in the glass window confirms her thoughts.
Remember you are the girl looking.
You see this list below.
This man starts to walk over to her.
His 6-foot high!
This man has massive muscles that will lift 280 pounds easy!
He face shows one thing…Dam she is hot and sexy!
He is walking and gets all nervures and cannot think of what to say.
His getting closer to her…But then there is this look on his face of frustration.
His body movement is no longer friendly because of his frustration.
His face has stop smiling due to his frustration and then he does not even realise it.
His is no longer aware of his own body movements or actions, he cannot see himself.
He cannot see the expression that is on his face, the natural expression of frustration.
He begins to get agitated without even realising it… the kind of walk; that a person gives off after having an argument with someone.
The confident person has completely gone.
The body and facial expressions convey one huge message.
You have just created fear and anxiety inside her own mind and all those feelings flowing throughout her whole body is telling her one thing. RUN!
I want to get away from this person.
She does not run because she knows that this person in front of her is too big and too strong. Therefore, she tolerates a conversation for a short period.
Just Imagine you are in side her body right now. What would you be thinking if you were in her shoes? If you see a person who is really upset what do you see? The same goes for fear!
Women can smell fear, BS, without even opening their mouths.
Umm, we're not talking about 6' + ripped, muscular guys and women's reactions to them. I know how women react to them. They want to SLEEP WITH THEM. Those guys have no trouble getting women.
We were talking about what women SAY they want in a man is BULLCRAP. (i.e. make me laugh, sense of humor.) Women lie to guys, and themselves about what they want. They want looks and money, not "make me laugh".
If it were the other way around, hoards of screaming women would be lined down the block to see Danny Devito, instead of the Chippendales.
Jeremy, I would love to see you say all of that to my face.
Are you from the Midwest? If so, i'll be happy to meet you anywhere, and beat your fucking ass in person.
I'm NOT joking either. Give me a place, and we'll meet, and I'll knock every one of your goddamn teeth out, motherfucker.
Let's make this happen.
Get back to me.
your a disgrace to men and a pansy. you'll never change john with your piece of shit attitude you have about everything. boodoo hit everything on the head what needs to be said about you. now go stick a tampon on your bleeding vagina
Do you think David Wygant would ever developed a feasible customer base if all women cared about were looks?
Do you think there would be anything to talk about?
Do you think there would be any testimonials? Do you think he's been making them up for the past 20 years?
Get your head outta your ass dude. Stop blaming your problems on the world, stop blaming your sexual frustration on women.
Have the balls to look at your own pessimistic, victim mentality and say "shit, maybe I'M the problem. Maybe the problem is with MY state of mind."
Only then will you stand a chance of solving the problem. In fact, you'll stand a really good one.
Until then, it will suffice for you to stop tarring all women with the same brush. It's kinda sexist, kinda judgmental, and the only people who will agree with you are those who, similarly, are looking for someone else to blame for their own internal problems.
You're helping no-one here.
I don't understand what comment I made that brought on this lengthy comment.
I have no trouble approaching women, in a strong, confident, easy going manner. Why is this comment directed toward me? I merely stated a few observations about women #1 comment about wanting a man to "make them laugh", and that there are not many women who go out with men who are substantially "uglier" than they are. I really don't think women understand the difference between conscious thinking, and subconscious behavior, that is what they actually make decisions from. Women consciously want all these rational checklist items, but react from their subconscious emotional feelings. Women are emotional wrecks, due to their naturally wildly fluctuating estrogen, while men are stable and more aggressive due to a sustained rate of testosterone.
Nathalie
Is that why most women constantly choose the wrong type of man? The bad boy, the guy with the edge, the one who excites them the most,looks the best with his shirt off,gives good sex, and keeps them wanting for them, by being just available enough but not as much as she would like?By not committing to them in any real manner, and even lying about the chance for a real life together? Making them wonder, keeping them jelous,etc. I know, I have done it all, and it is so easy to make a woman want to fix you, and make her yours, when I was only playing with her the whole time, along with others at the same time. (when I was young and stupid of course) Nathalie, you are completely wrong. Women should go with their conscious, realistic, minds, not their emotional rollercoaster of the subconscious mind. If you want a good man, who will treat you right, stay with you, and be a good father and provider, you should approach it like a job interview, if you are interested in him. How many times has he been married, how many girlfriends in the last year, what type of job, how does he get along with his mom and dad, brothers, sisters, etc. Does he have friends who are well grounded, family oriented?HOW DOES HE TREAT HIS PETS? Does he even like animals and kids? This is what women should look for if they want to find a REAL relationship, not let their emotions and sexual fantasies choose for them.
"Women consciously want all these rational checklist items, but react from their subconscious emotional feelings."
I would say it is the direct opposite; when women react from their deep inner feelings and really are in genuinely in touch with those feelings, that is when they make the most "rational" decisions.
Nathalie, can you describe what type of feeling you are looking for, when you are in the presence of a man?
From what you said, feeling that you are safe and secure are important. Also connected and cherished! So if a man approached you, who appeared attractive, in terms of his appearance, and his manner, but when he came to talk to you, didn't make you feel safe and secure because he wasn't secure in himself, and was unable to make you feel connected because he wasn't in the moment with you, that initial attraction would be lost?
Ben, that actually got me thinking that I do love my women's group and advice, but I notice I feel drawn to this site lol
I do feel intrigued by what men here have to say too, I have become to enjoy alot of David's work..
I can't say I don't feel triggered, but in a good way, I feel more personal growth because of it.. :-)
Yeah, I think it is important to get both sides of the picture!
And, having a better understanding of the opposite sex, does I think help you become more well rounded. :)
Ben, yes exactly! :-) And then if I was feeling good with they guy I would yes like the guy to take the lead, ask for my number, and I would give it and then he'd call and arrange the date..This makes me feel girly when the guy is all masculine and making plans, and then I in turn respond positively.. :-)
Come on Ben, Of course that is what she would expect. If the conversation is going well, she is interested in you, listening, laughing, and positively responding, she would expect you to make the next move and ask her for her number or even ask her out then. Common sense bud!
I know what you saying Bob, it is really common sense! But sometimes, it's nice to hear it coming from a woman, so you can get an idea of how they see it.
There's a lot of advice you hear from other people and you read on the internet, often from men, so it is nice to get a woman's opinion.
@Ben, Yes the feelings I was describing was more in the process of dating someone or being in a relationship..
It would be hard to know if I felt secure and connected and cherished on a first date...
Upon a first approach I would feel open and curious and checking in with myself if I was enjoying myself and feeling "good" with the guy..
Everyone can be nervous at first so that is ok.. I would definitely wouldn't dismiss a man for that..
I believe women should heart and mind open..and then take things from there..
So really, on that first approach and when your initially starting to get to know a guy your really just enjoying the moment and thinking am I having fun with this guy! :)
If your having fun and feeling good about things, then, as you said you would take things from there!
Although, you said you wouldn't dismiss a man initially for being nervous, which I think is fair enough, as a woman, would you then expect the man to take the lead, ask for your number and arrange dates from there?
@Bob, hmmm yes I feel in agreement with you and I see what you are saying now..
I felt really good reading your honesty and frankness on the topic..
This made it clear what you mean too:"This is what women should look for if they want to find a REAL relationship, not let their emotions and sexual fantasies choose for them."
Yes I think this was a question of semantics with our uses of the terms emotions and feelings..Which for me personally is closer to intuition..and when I say how does this guy make me "feel"? It means do I feel secure? not jealous, or kept off balance and all the rest..And all you said in the second paragraph is exactly what women should be looking for, yes yes yes...:-D
The guys in this picture (at the time) was not a guy any girl SHOULD have wanted, if she had done a little checking on me, but I got as many as I desired, almost any time I wanted...I was 24, full of myself, and a terrible choice for a girl, yet I had no trouble getting them. That is the point I was trying to make. All icing, no substance (at least for women) I did still have very strong ambitions for myself, and knew how to get what I wanted, and was willing to work for it.
Aw I hear you..I feel appreciative of you sharing that..it feels real..
I see totally what you meant..I feel intrigued..and how aware you are, and how you honest you are about how you once were..
:-)
Dear Bob, it is fascinating to read about your experiences of life in the dating world.
It is interesting how person can read information about another person and end up thinking something completely different. Words can convey so many different messages and meanings.
Dear Nathalie, it is fascinating to think, how words can structure our own world.
It is interesting to reading about your own perception on dating.
Dating reminds me of different trees, just like people. You can see all those beautiful, leaves, flowers, colours and you can even taste the different fruits of the forest, if you know where to search and you have the correct permissions to taste the fruit!
However, you cannot see the roots beneath the soil. You know the roots exist and the roots can travel deep into the ground. The roots can spread in many directions. The roots are travelling or searching for the best, soil, and minerals deep in the ground. All people have chemistry, feelings, emotions, and experiences in life. However, there are so many different trees and roots searching for the right patch of Earth. The quality of the Earth depends on how the tree grows. However, we have legs so we are not stuck in one muddy field!
People will see this as many different meanings
Words can be so ambiguous!
Keep dating simple!
Michael, thanks :-) sometimes its not easy to express feelings through words,especially typed..sometimes people can be saying the same things just in different way..it is much easier in person, with the tone of someone's voice, facial expressions, eyes..
Wow your imagery of comparing trees to dating felt so beautiful to read, poetic and so calming to visualize..
This basically how it goes for me...Can any woman decode this email me? I met her in person from line and asked her to go bowling this weekend. Here is the email....
Hi Kevin,
Thanks for your message. I'm sorry I wasn't available to chat Tuesday night.
I've thought a lot about your proposed plan to go bowling, and it wouldn't be easy for me to hang out again due to the differences in our living/work schedules.
I have really enjoyed our movie conversations, though, and would be happy to chat online sometime!
Rebecca
(I am just processing and thinking out loud here lol)
This is why I just don't believe in "sparks" its not "real", you can have sparks but it doesn't mean you will find a quality loving relationship..
I have seen countless times women and myself included not having these initial sparks and keeping my heart open to the guy and then falling for him..
@Nathalie
That's just it, love takes time, I ask out not out of "spark" but out of weather or not I enjoy talking to that person. I've had countless times where I didn't feel anything for a woman right away, but the more times I see her and talk to her, the chemistry develops.
Yes that schedule still sounds doable between the two of you..every other saturday..and and there are sundays and there are fridays after work..
Hmm her response strikes me as bit vague, but I would still be open to her and leave it in her court and give her a chance now to get back to you..
Keep dating others in the process..
Kevin, she's letting you down gently and trying not to hurt your feelings. When someone is truly interested they make time no matter how busy they are. I agree with Natalie--onward & upward and no use fretting...onto the next one.
@Pam
I figured as much, I remember my sister telling me years ago "If she was interested, she'd drop everything"
Let's face facts...women want a spark when they meet you, everything else comes second.
Too bad though, she was really cute, she was 5 feet tall and wore glasses and a total bookworm.
I pretty much figured that. I said to her "We should go out again" She said "Yes" So I said "Ok, Let's go bowling next Saturday" She said "I'll have to get back to you.
She already said yes, for some reason she changed her mind in the middle of the conversation....women are crazy :)
Hmm Kevin...My first feelings about this is it sounds like, "due to the differences in work and living schedules" is that she somehow thinks you are both not compatible for whatever reason..Or she is not ready/available or open for dating really..if she really has that kind of schedule (?) Unless she works all day and you work all night..there is always a way..
Not having time is a poor excuse in my opinion, you must "make" time for dating otherwise you will meet no one..
I would move on to the next girl who is more available..
@Natalie She works 9 to 5 Mon-Fri, I work Wed-Fri 7:30am to 7:30pm and every other Sat. Which is why she brought up the schedualing. She said my accent is very charming though :)
@Kevin, what kind of accent do you have?
Bottom line--chatting online is not the same as seeing someone in person. I wouldn't try to waste energy dissecting it...just live in the present and keep moving forward.
@Pam,
I met her in person at a Starbucks on a Saturday afternoon. I chatted with her online, got her number, called her and asked her out for coffee. Then asked her out again before she left.
I speak with a Boston accent.
How does anybody meet someone in a Starbucks? I'm in a Starbucks outside Cincinnati right NOW. There is NOBODY to meet. There is one really pretty girl that just got a drink and left (she was too young, and obviously way out of my league anyway. Besides, she never even glanced at me), there are a couple guys here on laptops, an elderly couple, and a big fat lady with a baby. That is the typical Starbucks scene here in Cincinnati. Nobody to meet, or even talk to.
Oh yay, a Boston boy! From one Bostonian to another...dating is wicked haahhhd!
Well, if anything that shows that you can meet people in person (in New England!!!) and get a date. If she wants to get together with you again I would be open to it but in the meantime I'd keep myself open to other people as well.
Kevin. My man.
I apologise I didn't read your first message. But this big debacle going on here has caught my interest, and I have now read through this thread properly.
Listen, I'm gonna tell you the same thing I reckon the big DW would tell you: you're over-thinking this.
The more you invest in trying to figure out precisely where you went wrong, the more power you give to this woman. The more you dwell on this negative situation, the more it will eat away at you, degrade you.
I speak from experience when I say you will get nowhere doing this. And if, after all is said here, you DO feel like you've learned something, let me tell you: if you'd have only invested all this energy into simply getting back out there and meeting a new woman, you will have learned 10x more.
She's given you her reason. Take her word for it, and move on bro!!
PS Chat online? LOL. You have better things to do than hang around at her feet waiting for a fuckin scooby snack. Get back on your mighty horse and keep trying til you get it right my man.
ABUNDANCE MENTALITY!!
PPS If you're bent on trying to troubleshoot, you need to go a lot deeper than "this is what I did, this is what she said" You need to really look inside yourself. Anything you did or said 'wrong' is only ever a manifestation of a deeper issue. :)
Hi Kevin, It is interesting to read about this min adventure! I see all dating, as small min adventure to start with; I do not expect anything to happen other than it is going to be a great day if it happens.
However, if a person is not connecting with you there is one reason… no chemistry! You cannot force chemistry because it happens naturally. You need to ask yourself some questions. My time on this Earth is priceless. Should you be wasting more time and energy on a person that is not committed to dating you? You should listen to both Nathalie and Pam.
I want to ask you, “At any point did she say, “Let’s be friends?” or did you say, “Let’s be friends?”
Kevin It could be that she has met someone else after meeting you.
One girl I know, on average she's was getting 15 to 20 men ask her out per a week. That's without going into pubs, Cuban dance clubs...
At On line dating, she was getting 20 emails per day.
The point I am making she did not know which one to pick, because she had so much choice.
Most people are frightened of saying, “No this is the wrong person for me, and I need to find someone else.”
Have an open mind and make her your friend, because you might meet your girl friend through her.
Keep dating simple is what I say!
I really liked this statement..its true:
"Have an open mind and make her your friend, because you might meet your girl friend through her."
Stay friends with her, you never know and keep dating in the process..
Hi Nathalie, you are right, talking to a person face, face to face is so important. The feelings you get when you make a connection for the very first time is just breathe taking. When you hear a person’s voice it can make you feel as if want to know more about that person. Do you remember a time when you kiss someone, and it was as if the whole universe just slowly melted away?
I can remember being in my secondary school and I had this most amazing kiss from this girl... It just lasted forever.
You are right about "Sparks". You need more than just a "Sparks" to make a great relationship. You need a great deep connection.
Michael, its so true..it feels amazing and beautiful the feeling of being connected and mutually feeling "got"..
That was beautiful how you described a kiss...It feels magical..the whole universe melts away while you both melt into each other....
Hi Nathalie...My first kiss at the age of 15. She was 16
We were both staring into each other’s eyes. She had this most amazing look on her face. You know that incredible feeling you get where you undressing a person inside your mind. Her face and lips were glowing bright red; she started to breathe faster and faster. I slowly moved one hand around her back. Our hearts where pounding like the ocean waves. Like a flood of waves flowing one after another… At the same time, it felt like watching stars falling from the sky. Then moving my hand slowly up her spine and running my fingers through her hair. Next, I remember slowing running my finger through her hair once more but slowing pulling her hair and head to one side. So her head would move slightly back. The most incredible sensation flowed through our minds, as our lips touch for the very first time. I remember say to her after the kiss, “If God came down to earth and offered me all the universes, for this moment in time. I said her, “God came keep the universes.” She sunk her nails so deep into my back and she squeezed me so tight…She replied, “I want you inside me.” Wow, we just kissed and touched like crazy.
Wow Michael, that sounds like an excerpt directly from a romance novel..You have a poetic descriptive style of writing... :-)
You sound like a romantic as well hehe
Hi Nathalie...It is true I am very romantic.
The kind of things I would do for girl friend. I would buy real red rose petals and sprinkled them over my black-red Satin sheets.
One girl I remember, blindfolding her and driving her to the beach. When we arrived at the beach I slowly took off her blindfold.
It was night time and we both walked along the beach. We would light some soft glowing candles on the beach. Take a bottle of wine and some strawberries.
Anyway I need to stop writing and close this conversation...
Michael.
Only so much of the mushy stuff works. Many women will put you in the "gayish" friend zone if you carry on and on with this type of behavior. Give em a little romance, then lead like a man and take control!! Knock off so much mussy, romantic, bla bla if you want to keep her.
Bob. I 100% agree with you. There is a right time and place for talking romantic. I was just talking about my first girl-f and other wonderful women.
At the time, I was only looking for shorterm relationships, because I wanted to date more. However, I wanted all women to experience a wonderful moment.
It all depends what a person is looking for in a relationship...longterm, shorterm or one-night-stand. I like to step deep inside a women's mind and unlock all those naughty thoughts, so I can take her to places, that others don't know how to.
You are right about, "Given a little romance, then lead like a man and take control."
I also believe too many men never seduce a women's mind. What do you think?
If a person only look at a glass of water as he/she walks. A person will miss all the other wonderful items in life.
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