Are You A Repeat Opener Kinda Of Guy?

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By David Wygant November 6, 2010 197 Shares

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Did you go out last night and found that you could not get any conversation past the opener.

I call this syndrome Openerittis!

Its when you cant stop talking about the opener 3 minutes into a conversation.

It happens to the best of guys and it also happens to some women as well.

So what is the cure for Openerittis?

Glad you asked.

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About David

1.7 million men & women come to me every month to find the secrets to success. And after 20 years of coaching, I’ve discovered the golden keys to success in dating, business, health and wellness, and life.

I’ve helped millions of men and women around the globe achieve success in their dating, social and personal lives. I’m also a father to the world’s cutest little girl, and I am an unapologetic man. Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. I never sugar coat anything.

Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.

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Patrick James

Saturday, November 6th, 2010

Like the old saying of how "Communication" is a two-way street, and it's true. If you're stuck in your head just dwelling on that 'great' opener you just pulled then you're traveling on a one-way street and that street is pretty lonely. Thanks David for teaching me to be present and in the moment, the women I meet more often than not just totally enjoy the interaction I share with them.

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Patrick James

Saturday, November 6th, 2010

David Funny how that seems to be the case. You pretty much always spot these people whenever you're out. Example at a bar, you see a man or woman constantly looking at their cellphones. I'll be the first to admit that I'm just as guilty as the next person, but it isn't until you realize that you're out somewhere and being present and in the moment, that where ever you are... -you are, or you should be, having a great time. Put the stupid cellphone away and enjoy the company you're with. And do other people a favor and start interacting with them too! :D Okay I'm done, going out to play dodgeball, feel free to join in

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Patrick James

Saturday, November 6th, 2010

HAHAHAH!! Oh man that is too funny!! wait! Can anyone say... "Smart Phone Opener"? Yeah thanks David... putting the smart phone away :P

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Patrick James

Saturday, November 6th, 2010

It seems like we're on the same wave length David, as I was thinking about writing a blog post about the same topic while I was in the shower... I have a date, so again thanks David lol Either that or I was thinking about writing a book on the subject, especially since my generation is responsible for the direction in which cellphones or "smartphones" are leading us

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Farley

Saturday, November 6th, 2010

David, So when it comes to women, what are the 3 ways we are wired? A sequel video would be awesome.

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Farley

Saturday, November 6th, 2010

Patrick, Another one I have been hearing from many people: It takes two to "dance". If the man does not lead, the woman won't follow. I dance salsa, and when I go on the dancefloor, the girl waits for me to start. But... If the leader leads and the follower won't follow, then there is no point in leading. Up to the next follower.

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Dancer

Saturday, November 6th, 2010

David you really have a gift of telling something with and outstanding intensitivity. As you spoke about being in the now i really cought myslef thinking about going on facebook and checking some sh** ahmm stuff while listening to you in the background. I now realised that i need to work on being present again. Thnak you.

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David Wygant

Saturday, November 6th, 2010

Dancer The internet has turned us all into muti tasking retards. No one pays attention anymore longer than 12 seconds:)

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David Wygant

Saturday, November 6th, 2010

Patrick Put the damm stupid phone down when you play dodgeball. Smart phones my ass. Peoples smart phones are making them stupid:)

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David Wygant

Saturday, November 6th, 2010

Patrick I think its time for me to write a smart phone blog and why we have become dumb. I have touched on this before but you got me thinking.....

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Clint

Sunday, November 7th, 2010

That's true a sequel video would be great! Is there one coming next?

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Don Juan

Sunday, November 7th, 2010

Dancer, I can relate to you on that one. I sometimes fall of the wagon and its still a work on progress. I think our life can be so much fulling if we could have the intensity which David has.

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Coach Jacob

Sunday, November 7th, 2010

Clint Stay tuned we will see to have a part 2.

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Coach Jacob

Sunday, November 7th, 2010

Dancer It can be shocking to realize how long we have been thinking or behaving the same way all of our lives right?!

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Palila

Monday, November 8th, 2010

Hey everyone! It is my first time in a dating blog, so I am not much aware about the concept here. I think this may help me sort out my issues that I am having trouble with. The Blog is doing an excellent work for people like us

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Patrick James

Monday, November 8th, 2010

Palila, the basic principle, as what David teaches isn't concept, is that there's no need to be wasting time on pick-up lines or techniques as women are able to smell it coming from a mile away. No need to waste time on limited resources especially when you have an unlimited amount of "You" to offer. Also look into some of David's podcasts as well! He has a ton of information out there to help you get started.

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anonymous

Monday, November 8th, 2010

Can't get enough of these videos David! I can't wait until the next part. Thanks again to you and the coaches!

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Wednesday, November 10th, 2010

Excuse me while I go outside and use this advice!

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