I Had A Moment
By David Wygant

Forget about all the ridiculous rules of the game that we play when we meet each other.

Let me ask you a question.

How many times have you seen someone to whom you are attracted, you both look at each other, you both do the half-way smile, and you both didn’t know what to say? Then later you wonder if there was anything else you could have done which would have made it a memorable moment.

You were just having the moment! That is what a moment is – the glance of two strangers standing across from each other in the aisles of 7-11.

You are about to suck down a Big Gulp and she was about to eat a hot, delicious, plump Super Dog. The mustard oozes down her chin and you are slowly getting a head rush from all the caffeine and sugar in the Big Gulp. The two of you lock eyes. THAT is the moment.

The moment that the two of you lock eyes, you NEED to talk to each other. Here are ten quick ways to take advantage of the moment:

1. Walk over, bring her a napkin, smile, and wipe the mustard off her face.
2. Offer her a sip of your Big Gulp – You have 64 oz, you can spare a few.
3. Stand behind her in line, be a sport and buy the 49¢ Super Dog for her.
4. You could be really ballsy by walking over to her and accusing her of checking you out. Be playful. Teasing her is a great way to start a conversation.
5. You can walk over and ask her for a bite of the Super Dog.
6. You can walk over and ask her if the hot dogs are any good at 7-11.
7. You can just walk over and say hello. Hmmm . . . what a novel idea! You both looked at each other. You really don’t need to be that clever. Just walk over and say hello.
8. You could fill a small soda cup, bring it to her, and tell her she might need some liquid to wash down the Super Dog.
9. You can do what you normally do – NOTHING – then walk away and beat yourself up all day long for blowing the moment.
10. If she’s on her lunch break, you can ask her whether she’d rather eat standing up at 7-11 than at her desk.

The bottom line here is this: If a man and a woman look at each other and you both smile, that is a moment! It really doesn’t matter what you say, as long as you say something that’s applicable to what’s going on around you.

You don’t need a magic pickup line. There is no right or wrong thing to say. You just have to say something, otherwise you’re going to go home and text your friends asking them what you should have said. When someone three hours later finally comes up with “the perfect thing” to say, it will probably be something corny like one of the above ten things.

So for those of you who believe that you have to find the perfect thing to say, maybe Santa Claus brought it for you this Christmas (assuming you still believe in Santa Claus). For the rest of you, open your mouth and seize the moment. Otherwise this will be another missed opportunity you can rationalize with your friends.

Todays video goes even deeper into the lack of games that needs to be played.
Its all about understanding the mindset of women especially heading into New Years.