The Final Word On PDA
September 1, 2009 
17 Comments
Public displays of affection (“PDA”) are one of my favorite things in the world. If you have chemistry with a person, why should you keep your hands off them?
I’m not talking about you gyrating each other in public, making out, or making out in the middle of the supermarket. Have you ever been in a car with a friend and he has his hand down his girlfriend’s pants? Does he think no one notices? Some people think they’re so good at PDA, that they can keep their right hand on their girlfriend and shift with their left hand.
Why not, though, hold someone’s hand, put your arm around them, whisper something in their ear, or give them a kiss. I’m all for that.
In supermarkets, it’s great. Sometimes, I’ll walk through the market with my arm around my girlfriend. I’ll give her a nice little kiss on the lips and, you know what, I don’t care what other people think. People who make determinations like that are basically jealous.
They’re jealous because they don’t have that in their lives. Now, granted, I’m not going to grope her. I’m not going to touch her private parts in the market, nor am I going to try to hump her in the middle of the supermarket.
As for bars, I believe anything goes when there’s alcohol in there. People can go and they can gyrate, hump each other, and makeout like crazy. That’s a bar atmosphere.
Now there are times and places where PDA isn’t so appropriate. If you are with a friend and they feel like the third wheel, I think you need to limit your PDA to holding hands, putting your arm around them and giving them an occasional tongueless kiss.
Any more than that, and you will make your friend really feel uncomfortable. You will also make them your friend think how much they don’t what you have.
I find that people who are judgmental about PDA to be jealous. I find that the jealous people need more love and affection in their life. These are the type of people who actually need PDA the most.
I’m all for PDA. If you’re a couple who have great chemistry and can’t keep your hands off each other, who doesn’t want that? That’s the kind of relationship for which we’re all looking. That’s what love is really all about. That’s what life is all about.
In order to have a chance at some serious PDA, today we dive into something all men need to learn.
Hey David. PDA is great but like you said only when there is chemistry between two people. Ive seen some couples where one person has no problem with it but the other person kinda shies away from it. The worse one is when PDA is not genuine, they just do for show, or because the other person likes it. Good video. Excuses, excuses. I have a good quote from George Bernard Shaw “The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and if they can’t find them, make them.” Thanx David.
I just find it beautiful to see wether it’s couples, friends or family. Any close human contact is just a beautiful thing to witness. Now when I had my first talk about raised eyebrows when I nursed him in public. People can be so busy with other people lives that they miss the sheer beauty of the moment. Like one of the elder
couples +70 I would say who walk the beach wearing bikini and speedos every day holding hand and occasional kisses each other. A lot of people kind of makes fun of them, personally I find it insanily romantic to see two people still lovin each other
really cool video!
I am now writing down the excuses, i realized i need to write stuff out more, it helps me that way tremendously!
Charles- that’s a great quote, love it!
David- where you get all these cool t-shirt from?
hhaahha i like the new term pda
Lance- I am a big believer in doing the exorcises it helps a lot when you write it out and spend the time to really ponder.
I enjoy doing PDA as well and like you said David why should we limit our self, screw what anyone else think.
Marina- I also enjoy watching those rare moments when i see older couples holding hands, and kissing each other like they were kids again.
Life is way to short why not have as many PDA as we can:)
Nice top today.
I have to admit, I get turned on by pda, and really like a man who is comfortable doing this in public.
John- it seems like you been getting a lot of PDA lately:)
Hi Julia=
I wouldn’t say a lot but enough:)
enough is good:)
Thanx Lance.
PDA is my favorite thing to do in the world when I’m out with my g/f! I love keeping her turned on all day long… and I wouldn’t be able to do that if I couldn’t indulge into some PDA from time to time