You got her number. Now what do you do?
You worked so hard to get the phone number. Everything was perfect.
All the stars were aligned, everything worked out great.
She was laughing at your jokes.
Now what do you do?
You go home, write down everything you talked about and be aware of key points in what she told you.
As I’ve always told you guys, knowledge is key. Knowledge is power and the more information you possess the better you’re going to be at closing a woman.
Closers get laid. Openers get the number, but closers get laid. Keep that in mind.
Now I’m not Alec Baldwin right now yelling at you like in Glen Gary Glen Ross, but I might be in a minute if you don’t listen up.
So here’s the deal: you got her number. You learned something about her. Let’s say you met her at a coffee shop and you learned that she loves Italian coffee.
A couple hours later you text her and say, “It’s funny what you said about coffee. You’re 100% right, and I’m going to tell you why…”
She’s going to want to know why. You’ve intrigued her now. You’ve opened her up a little bit if you have the conversation again via text a little bit later about coffee.
Let’s say for instance you met her at a donut shop and she tried the glazed donut that you recommended. You text her a couple hours later and you say this:
“How’s that donut, did you save me a bite?” Bring her back to that moment. You have a little bit of a conversation there, and then get her on the phone.
All women love to be asked out by the phone. So how do you get her on the phone when most people don’t answer their phone?
Here’s a little trick that I do. I’ll text her and I’ll say, “Hey what are you doing right now, do you have a sec?”
And of course she’s going to wonder—that curiosity is going to come into her brain and she’s going to say, “Yeah, what’s up?”
Pick up the phone, calling you now.
Text that to her.
Then wait about 30 seconds. Then pick up the phone. Call her.
Talk to her briefly and then ask her out. That’s how you do it. That’s how you trap her to basically answer the phone. Otherwise some women nowadays you get stuck in text battles forever and ever and ever or you go to voicemail hell.
That’s one of many things that I do in order to intrigue her once you get the phone number.
Here’s another simple tip to make her want to hang out with you:
Hi David im Manuel from Argentina. I totally agree with ‘openers give you numbers and closers get u laid’ just brilliant. I strongly believe that situational openers are the best as you say and some texts that may work are ‘blank texts’ (just to create intrigue haha its a bit lame but does the job sometimes). Keep it up with the blog! Greetings from Argentina to all the community.
Something that always annoyed is when guys brag about how many numbers they get or they want to compare the amount of numbers. I don’t consider a woman “closed” until i’m sleeping with her for the second time.
David
Great advice.Not sure trap is a word women
would associate with getting them on the phone but still a good example.
You’re supposed to do what Jon Favareu did in the movie “Swingers”. Call the second you get home, then call repeatedly and leave your life story on her answering machine. Works EVERY time.
Wow, I was flipping through old blog posts from about a year ago, and I found this post from David Wygant that I never noticed before, addressing me:
“@John
So do you really think people pay me to say hows the tuna?
Is that the depth of what you think this is all about or is that an attempted joke:)”
Hahahahahaha,, Hahahaha,, hahahahahahaha….
In case anyone new here is wondering why that post was funny, I just always thought I was never able to get Dave rattled. lol.
This reminds me of when I was 7 and got the phone number of the prettiest girl in grade 2. I had her write it on the valentine she gave me.
I was going to call her and serenade her with Stevie Wonder’s “I just called to say I love you.” That was my master plan to get her to love me.
I remember I sat on my bed and picked up my batmobile phone. My hands were shaking as I dialed. Her mom picked up and I asked politely to speak with her daughter. Inside I was dying. The girl picked up and I froze. I said hi and something dumb and quickly said “I have to go. Bye. Click”. I was a mess.
My hands are sweating just thinking about it hahaha
Recently, I remember getting this girl’s number from a friend and then accidentally calling her. I, being in no mood to talk due to having a headache, panicked and hung up mid dial.
Text: “Did you just accidentally call me?”
…
Me: “Yes, I did. blah blah blah”
Not one of my smoothest movements, never fails to make me laugh though.
Lemme get this straight,
Sooooo,, NOT the “swingers” approach then?
Right???
John you just did it in the Forums!
What???
:/
Off topic post…
Wow,, going through old posts again this morning…
I wonder what happened to Mel? It’s odd, her old gravatar “flying hello kitty” avatar is still up and hasn’t been changed / removed.
It’s just odd when someone posts every day and as often as she did, then one day, just disappeared.
I just wonder what happened.
Anyone here remember Theresa? (the one who had some wierd obsession with me.) She had some mental issues, which she was upfront with me about.
Anyway, she is another one who disappeared from the blog suddenly. I looked at her Facebook page last night, out of curiosity, wondering if she was alive,and her last post to her wall, was at the same time she disappeared from the blog. Not a single post or update since then.
Can’t help but think the worst..
Oh well… I’m off to the Cincinnati “cars and coffee” meet.
Everyone have a great weekend.
Mel was smart. I liked her. Why’d she have to disappear? I’m still not sure why you didn’t go for Theresa though. Don’t all women have mental issues?
She had REAL mental issues. (I mean TOM like, mental issues.)
She made a comment about putting a shotgun to her head, after I said I wanted to just be friends, remember that? She had never even MET ME.
When I get a girl’s number for the purpose of hanging out with her again to get to know her better, I call her rather than text message. After I get to know her better than I might have fun with the text messaging stuff…
Yup. I do exactly the same. Actually makes you stand out because you had the balls to to actually call.
I must admit, Theresa was cute. Wonder why she had trouble wih men in the first place. It couldnt have been all mental.
i mean to say i bet she had a smokin’ body. at one point theresa wore a nightgown in her avatar.
I just read this bog and then put it into action immediately. I used a variation of the “do you have a minute” text, got a response, told the girl I would call and did. I had a great conversation. What a great way to avoid missed calls and awkward voicemails and all the worrying about when would be the best time to call!
I love the specific actionable blogs. Keep up the great work!