Hope you all had a great weekend!
I had a very eye-opening weekend, and I will be sharing all my thoughts on that (as well as on a number of other things) tonight when I will be interviewed LIVE on my friend’s MatchMatrix Internet radio show.
If you want to hear my views on relationships, and how to super-connect with the opposite sex, then this is one hour that you do NOT want to miss!
If you want to tune in, it is taking place TONIGHT — Monday, June 8, 2009 at 6pm PST, 7pm MST, 8pm CST, 9pm EST.
Click on this link to listen:
http://www.loaradionetwork.com/frank-seifert-and-larry-michel.html
So onto today’s blog, where I am going to give you hopefully a new perspective on the idea of finding love and relationships.
I don’t know about you guys, but I’m getting tired of hearing all the ‘gloom and doom’ about the economy and the state of things in general. There is one thing, however, that is priceless that you can get for free — it’s love.
The one thing in life that is 100% totally free is love. Love doesn’t cost any money.
Of course, you do have to be willing to “pay” in some senses to find love. The only way to find love is to open yourself up, become vulnerable about who you are, and accept yourself and your quirks.
The truth is, though, that nothing else in life is free except love. With the exception of certain disgusting Los Angeles men or certain other types of very wealthy men who try to do it, you can’t buy love. You can’t buy someone’s heart, because you can only buy possessions.
So instead of complaining during these tough economic times, you should be focusing on the one thing in life that is free: love. Love for yourself and for other people never costs a penny. With love, it doesn’t matter if you’ve had to take a pay cut at work. You can still always afford it.
You can always consistently be loving yourself and trying to let love in from others. If you aren’t doing this, then you’re missing everything. If you’re sitting home every night with a ‘doom and gloom’ mindset thinking how bad your life is right now, then what kind of people are you going to attract?
So start thinking about a change of perspective. Think about what kind of person you want to be attracting right now. Why not decide you are going to concentrate on finding love with yourself (because if you don’t love yourself you will never have anybody else love you) and love with someone else. Start challenging yourself to find love.
David-i clicked on the link and for some reason i can’t hear anything i wonder if it is on your end or mine?
Got to tell you love today blog its the power of love that can bring down all the wars that are happening around us and psychologically.
Amazing blog today David!
Love is free and it’s never too late to get more self lovin:)
I got to share this with everyone, in past i always felt out of place not loved, wanted women to love and I was never satisfied, but moment I realized the power of self love and started to implement it, I had a sudden shift of energy in me that changed my out look on life forever.
Jeffery-
Great job on working yourself and attracting more love to your life. No one can give you all the love but you, who you are is what you attract in life!
Coach Jacob- that is so true that you are what you attract!
Best of luck to you Jeffery.
David- you so right on about LOVE today and my love goes to all the readers on the blog today!!!
Julia-
thank you and my love goes to all the readers as well!
for all the sexy ladies I love you all:)
don’t feel left out i love you too CJ LOL
howe- whatsup with the love stuff are you going fagot on us LOL
agree with everyone what amazing blog today, i got to work on some more self love:)
how can I love myself fully is there an audio product on this coaches or anyone?
Lance-
i suggest you check out David’s self love audio its one of the best i ever listened to or look into the MMS highly recommend it!
what does he talk about in the Self-love audio Rick?
there is so much to say man, don’t know where to start- David gives homework or exercises to get better at loving yourself and just listening to him motivates me to go out!
Lance-
what you not like about yourslf?
sometimes i feel insecure when i am with my date, i feel like inadequate, i feel like people are judging me constantly it’s a painful battle in my head man, sometimes i am so lost don’t know what to do please help!!!
great this is turning into a chat room again and enjoy seeing everyone getting involved:)
Lance-
you are in your head way too much man.
relax trying doing some meditation 2-3 times a week.
write down what your fears, look deeply into them, ask yourself what were the cause and effects of those fears….the truth is your fears are holding you back not anyone else you’re living in a space of illusion my friend. You have choice to accept the truth and set free from the negativity!
Thanks CJ!
That makes a lot of sense I really appreciate that, and I will write them down and do what you said.
Hey guys since this blog is about love i have confession to make but I feel like if I say this I will be judged…..maybe I shouldn’t!
Meeeeow-
I hate when people do that, what is it now i am really curious?
Nah man i shouldn’t say this out in the public blog i might offend someone or you guys will never look at me the same way:)
Now you got me intrigued too MEEOOOOOWWWW lol
meeow you enjoy teasing dont’ you?
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well guys i will admit i payed for love in the past i know shouldn’t have i feel bad now.
what is the story behind it how you payed for love?
ohhh meeow this is getitng intersting now i want to hear more…..
i think your real side finally coming out i was wrong about making a assumption that you were a dick, maybe you were in the past now anymore:)
howe-
you crack me up sometimes you know that!
ok so tell us man about that love story how you paid for it?
well you see i paid for sex that basically it.
so you basically saying that you hammered some prostitute in the past:)
nah it wasn’t prostitution i just paid for some sex that’s it.
holly shit what is going on here.
meeow- if you paid for sex, it is prosititution man just admit it LOL
was she a call girl or something?
ok now i feel like i am accused so i will stop now end of discussion!
oh noo noo meeow i am not accusing you what i am saying is that it sounds like prostitution to me, i think howe was little hard on you.
yes howe i don’t care really now anymore i just want to get it off my chest today i felt like i have been hiding this secret for way too many times.
i got to tell you it was a whole lot of fun, however its risky so i stopped seeing those women or paying for sex.
that is why i am here to learn to understand women better and never pay for sex again ever!
wow i don’t know what to say about today’s blog it is pretty interesting as it ever get:)
how in the world this blog turn into paying for sex LOL
I wonder what is David’s or coaches reaction to this LOL
meeow-
Great to hear that you don’t pay for sex anymore it is just not healthy! Continue to work hard in the direction of your dreams best!
where is our blog twins Marina and Sandra when we need them LOL
meeow-
glad you feel better now that you shared it with everyone.
you are in the right place to master the art of connecting with everyone!
It seems liek somehow the blog turns to sex most of the times, lot of horny readers you have here david:)
Stevie- you are speaking for yourself right?
ohhhhhh that was good JIMMI LOL
Hey meeow how many girls you paid for in the past sorry if i was rude by the way!?
I never count lovers man.
how about if you would make a estimate cmon we all want to hear it:)
i think somewhere between 35-40 not sure.
omg….dude you are machine LOL
you kind of remind me of howe
how does he remind you of me are you out of your mind jimmi.
Wasn’t there a song by the Beatles about this?
Tarass — Do you mean “All You Need Is Love?”
Kristen – I think the song he was referring to is Money Can’t Buy Me Love. It obviously can’t, but as Al Bundy once said… it sure can rent it.
How come it’s always appears to be when either Ken or Barbie is around that the blog turns to sex and detours…and the the rest of us get blamed for being horny. I thing Ken and Barbie needs another weekend trip, maybe next time to a couples therapy convention and not Las Vegas
Thanks, David! Great message -don’t you people see that the only ones getting something out of bad news are the corporate media? Ignore their negativity and create your own prosperity!!
Diego R+R–great statement! A lot of people focus on the negative rather than embracing the positive. By creating you own prosperity you will attract positivity in your life!
couples therapy very funny Marina:)
Lance,
If you feel insecure, do the things that Coach Jacob mentioned but also write down somewhere… what makes you attractive? Why would any woman be lucky to be with you? What makes you unique and strong?
Write these things down. It will help put your mind into the right space and as you go about in your life, keep those in mind. Do the things that reinforce the things you wrote down.
By reinforcing that belief system, you’ll find yourself loving yourself more… and therefore become more comfortable and confident in yourself.
As David puts it, don’t give your power away to women. There’s a lot to like about you… so flaunt it
Dito, Diego
love is free for people who are good looking. I still truely believe that looks are all that matters, and these tips are good advice for people who are already good looking, but nothing can help if you weren’t one of the lucky ones who were born with looks. I was born very ugly, and will most likely be alone for the rest of my life, because my face is really ugly. I still like reading these tips though, it feels like i am doing something, although I really know that there is nothing I can do. I can tell when I see the disgust in women’s faces as soon as they look at me. I wish david would put out a podcast or a blog entry addressing things you can do when you have to face facts, and admit that you are ugly beyond help, and no one will ever love you.