Is your favorite motto in life “Poor me?”

Are you someone who makes an excuse for everything that goes wrong in your life? It’s always someone else’s fault and not yours.

So, you’ve been single for a while. You’re pissed off with it, and it feels like there aren’t any nice single women out there. Wherever you go, women have either a boyfriend or a ring on their finger. Where you live, there are no single women. The women in your City are all macho career women, or just “not your type.”

Your town is too small. You even talk about moving somewhere else so you have half a chance to meet someone. All the time you’re moaning about being single, you’re not doing anything about looking for love where you live. You don’t even bother because it’s easier to make excuses.

I gotta tell you guys. It’s a whole lot of B.S! The reason you’ve not met someone is because you’re full of excuses. No matter where you live, there are single women EVERYWHERE. Maybe you’ve had a few knockbacks in the past, or you’ve approached women and been rejected. So what?

Are you seriously telling me you’ve met and asked out every woman in your town?

Of course not. Whether you want to admit it or not, you’re scared and lazy. You’re scared of rejection, and you don’t want to put yourself out there. You don’t want to do the work. It’s much easier to make excuses and blame everyone else for you being single.

“But David. All the women where I live really are married!”

No they’re not!

You’re only seeing the married ones, because it validates you. It backs up your excuse. The only person you’re fooling is yourself. You’ve created this defeatist mindset, and until you ditch it, you’re never going to meet a woman.

Think about it this way. Imagine if you said there were no decent jobs around anymore. If you kept repeating it over and over again. You kept telling everyone the reason you couldn’t get a job was because you were too qualified, or you lived too far away. Eventually you start believing it and it becomes your reality. You have to go out there and look for the jobs. You have to go to every interview possible until you get the job.

It’s the same with women. It’s easy to say there are no single women where you live. It’s a lot harder to go out there and start approaching them. But that’s the only way you’re actually going to find love. You have to get out there, and you have to make yourself vulnerable. You have to start telling yourself a different story, and you’ll get a different result.

I’m sure I’ll hear a ton of reasons from you why I’m wrong, and that you can’t meet women for this or that reason, but I’ve being coaching men and women so long, I know it’s all rubbish!

Drop the “Poor me” attitude and start being more proactive. Trust me, it won’t be long before you stumble over someone who isn’t married!