do not be a cry babyDo you know that some of you are just big crybabies?

Did you ever take a ride on an airplane where you were stuck in front of an obnoxious kid that wouldn’t stop crying?

You think to yourself, “Why does he cry so much?”

Well, it’s no different than a lot of you when it comes to the way you live your lives. Some guys cry non-stop. The complaints I get on a regular basis shock me!

I hear guys all the same time, “I tried so hard to talk to women but it just didn’t work!”

Are you seriously telling me you can erase a lifetime of bad social habits in a few days? Does that make any sense to you?

I love the dedication of some people!

“Well I tried for a while but it didn’t work so I stopped. Then a month later I tried again. And a month after that. How long is this going to take cos I really would like things my way right now?”

We’ve become a society of crybabies, constantly wanting reward non-stop. We’re no different to toddlers running around demanding anything and everything!

Have you ever hung out with a toddler?

They’re like…

“I need water. I need a snack. I need a wee. I need a cuddle. I want television on.”

They don’t ask. They just “need.” It’s almost obnoxious but they don’t know any better because they’re toddlers.

You’re an adult so you DO know better. You’re not a toddler, yet you act like a toddler in many aspects of your life.

You don’t like your job anymore so you bitch and complain instead of getting a new one.

You don’t want to look for a new job because that takes time and energy. You want something to happen overnight, because of course, everything great that happens to successful people just falls into their lap overnight.

I remember working on my social skills, and getting frustrated. I thought to myself, “I don’t want to do this anymore. I don’t want to have to go out every single day to talk to people.”

So, I did nothing, and like magic women started taking my pants off and sucking my dick.

Seriously, if you believe in any of that stuff then you must believe in the tooth fairy and Santa Clause still. You probably also think the Easter Bunny is real too!

I’m tired of people who don’t want to work for things. I’m tired of people that don’t want to put time and effort in. I’m tired of people looking for miracle cures that don’t exist. Everything I’ve ever done in my life I’ve put in the time, effort, and commitment. I’ve gone through the ups, the downs, and the all-arounds.

You can’t lose it the moment things don’t go your way. If you feel like a fat pig and don’t like the way you look, then you have to work out every day, and eat the right diet. You can’t eat a salad and expect to have a six-pack. You have to put one foot in front of the other consistently until you get where you want to be, and you have to take EVERY necessary step to get there.

You have to work at becoming slim. You don’t just become slim. You can’t just become social. You can’t just become rich. You can’t become successful just because you want to.

You have to be willing to try.

I’m sorry. I know I’m being harsh. But I hope you’re pissed off at me right now. I hope you’re angry reading this because I don’t feel sorry for you at all. I don’t feel sorry for anyone who chooses a life of complacency.

Good things come to those who are persistent. Good things come to those who are constantly applying themselves. Good things come to those who get their asses kicked. If you’re afraid of getting your ass kicked then live a life of complacency. Go ahead. Go for it. But you have no right to complain about it!

Complainers get nothing. I don’t want to hear it. Your friends don’t want to hear it and the people around you don’t want to hear it. You have every chance to change your life. Change is good. Embrace it. If you don’t like the way you look, change it. You don’t have enough money, stop complaining and start doing!

Step-by-step, day by day your life will change. Just watch, because I’ve done it in all aspects of my life and it feels amazing!

Get out there and make it happen!