The world is better when shared.

I’m not talking about Facebook shares.

Instagram shares.

YouTube shares.

I’m not talking about footing the bill at dinner.

I’m not talking about having a roommate.

I’m not talking about sharing things with best friends.

I’m not talking about being mom or dad of the year.

I’m talking about sharing intimate dreams and thoughts with another like-minded, loving soul.

Having somebody in your corner, knowing that they’re in your corner, knowing that they’re part of “team you and them.”

That is what makes life so much better.

Imagine having somebody on your side, your greatest cheerleader, your greatest supporter. They fill you with love. You are their equal; you fill them with love. You support them on every level. You listen to each other.

You help one another.

You share your days and your moments with each other.

You listen to everything they’re about.

When you have that feeling, you literally feel like you can accomplish everything, conquer the world.

Behind every king, there’s a queen.

Behind every great man, there’s a great woman. We’ve all heard the cliches over, and over, and over again.

Still, some of you doubt that love can actually exist due to the all the shit that’s happened to you in the past.

A lot of you are still stuck on past stuff.

I know someone in my life who’s so stuck in the past, I don’t think she even realizes how much she’s stuck in the past.

Wanting to rehash the past.

Wanting to talk about what happened in the past.

I feel for her as a human soul and as a human being because I truly would love to see this individual move forward and embrace the brightness and not hold onto the stories of the past.

Not hold onto the way things should have been.

And certainly not manipulate her world to fit what she feels as the only way she can control everything in her life.

I feel for somebody like that.

I know lots of women and I’ve worked with a lot of people. It makes me feel for them as a human being.

Especially because I know what it feels like to have somebody at your back, knowing that somebody’s there for you every day.

Knowing that when an oh shit moment comes up, you can dial them. They’ll listen, they’ll work it through with you, and you’ll feel needed, warm and desired. They’ll feel satisfied and amazed because somebody has their back. You do the same thing for them and that’s the key core ingredient to having a health, loving, amazing relationship.

All of a sudden, when somebody has your back, you start having conversations with people that you needed to have for a long time. It’s like you’re channeling some superhero power. All of a sudden, the tough conversations that you needed to have with people are flowing out of your mouth all day long.

You’re kicking ass, taking numbers, and accomplishing things that you have not been able to accomplish in a long time.

You’re eloquently speaking to people from your truth. Even people that have taken advantage of you or made you feel triggered or made you feel . All of a sudden, you’re getting on the phone and having heart-to-heart conversation with them.


Because somebody loves you. Somebody has your back. You have your partner. And as partners, together you make the world so much stronger. So you feel like you can accomplish anything and everything.

That is what love is. That’s the secret to life.

That is all what we all need is people, having somebody who has your back, and fucking just loves you for who you are. That’s the superhero power you all channel into when you can literally conquer the world.