vision for lifeHere’s the cold reality of life:

Imagine you are driving a car aimlessly down a road. This road has no exits. In fact, I want you to imagine driving down a road, an interstate, a highway, a freeway, a throughway, a turnpike.

Whatever word you want to use, and I want you to imagine driving down this road with no exits. You’re not able to get off this road at any time.

Maddening isn’t it?

You drive down the road, paying toll after toll. But you can’t ever exit off this freeway. That’s exactly what life is for so many people. Most people don’t have a vision of what they want in life. It’s like driving down a road aimlessly with no right turns, left turns, or exits. Imagine, just driving a straight line day-in and day-out with no turns in the road. No bends, no corners, no change. Imagine this road being full of sunshine of every single day with nothing else. There are no obstacles, and nothing ever changes. That’s what life is like for some people.

Do you have a vision?

So many men come to me and they’ll say, “I just want to meet women.”

I always ask them the same thing. “Do you even know what kind of woman you want to meet? Do you have any idea what this woman is like? I don’t just mean the physical side. Do you know what she’s like as a person?”

If you want to meet “random” women then expect the universe to give you women you may or may not like, and women you may or may not get on with.

You see most people don’t have a fucking clue to what they want. They’re clueless, running around, or driving aimlessly down a one-way road to nowhere.

Do you know the type of woman you want to meet?

How would you describe her?

Do you know what she’s like?

Do you know how you want to feel in her presence?

If you answered no to these questions, I strongly suggest you get a vision board. Write down on your vision board exactly the type of woman you’re looking to meet. You need to have some idea of what you’re looking for in your life. If you don’t know what you want from a woman, how do you know when the right one comes along?

If you don’t know where you want to go, you’re never going to be able to exit.

What about your job? Your career? Do you even know what you want to do? Or are you just doing a job because it pays you money? Do you know how you want to spend your life?

Do you ever write down the type of vacations you want to go on? What are you working towards in your life? What are your visions? What are your goals?

See I’m very clear about what I want in my life, and how I want to live my life. That’s why I live my life very clearly every single day. That’s why every single day I enjoy my life. I do all of the things I want to do. I work when I want to work. I create when I want to create. I do fun things. I go on vacations that I manifest inside my mind. I know the type of people I want to be around.

I know the type of people I want to be around so I constantly attract the same type of friends in my life. I know who I am. I have a vision. I could tell you the exact house that I want to buy next. You know what? I’ll find that exact house and I will buy it. I know the type of clothes I want.

I know everything. Most people are clueless and aimless and walk around, not knowing who they are. Get clear in your vision. Don’t just state facts.

“I want a nice house.”

What is a nice house to you?

“I want to make a lot of money.”

What is a lot of money to you?

If you’re ambiguous, the universe gives you ambiguity back. Be bold. Don’t hold back. Why are you asking for so little? Ask for everything. Believe in it. Envision it, and see what happens.