Are You Mr. Boring?

When you approach women, do they constantly walk away from you like you have the plague?

Every time you walk up to a woman, is it just you or does it always seem like they’re running for the hills?

Whenever you get into a conversation with a girl, does she seem to roll her eyes or look off into the distance, looking for help or does she check her phone every few seconds?

Well, I hate to tell you this, I’m going to be honest with you right now, and it may not make you feel very good – don’t worry about it because further on in this post, I’m going to make you feel really fantastic about yourself – but, right now, I’m going to tell you the truth.

You’re boring.

That’s right. You are absolutely boring to women.

See what I just said? To women.

That doesn’t mean you’re boring to guys, when you’re around your friends. It doesn’t mean you’re boring with your family; it doesn’t mean you’re boring at work.

As a matter of fact, you could be the funniest guy at the water cooler at your office.

You could be the guy that all your friends look up to and hang on every single word because your stories are so amazing.

But with women, that’s another story.

You Are Mr. Boring

Let’s go over the facts. We’re going to face them right now, and you know what, it’s going to suck to hear.

But you have to hear it.

You’re boring.

That’s right, you are boring to women.

So how do you change being boring?

Well first off, guys who are boring to women are always really uptight when they talk to them, so how can you actually be your positive amazing self? The one that everybody else sees?

I know that if I sat down and had lunch with you right now, you and I would have so much to talk about.

I wouldn’t be rolling my eyes, I’d be hanging on every word because you’re this fantastic, great guy and I’m sure we can share stories about our lives and our childhoods, and talk, and bond, and relate, and listen to one another, and have a great time.

But with women? Whew. Boy, the minute you start talking to women, texting them or doing anything with them, you’re like the most boring guy on the planet.

They see you coming a mile away. As a matter of fact, they run away from you when they see you coming because deep down, deep down inside, your subconscious and conscious mind are telling you over and over again that you don’t deserve women, you’re boring, plain and simple.

You haven’t figured out that women are human beings just like men and you can talk to them the exact same way.

You see, you’ve been reading stuff on the Internet, from those so-called dating experts. You know, all those guys that are out there, basically proclaiming that they know what they’re doing and they tell you all these terms like approach anxiety and sexual escalation? And they teach you how to talk to women differently and they teach you how to memorize different things and you can’t say this, and you have to do this.

Well, guess what, you know what those guys are? They’re great marketers, but they’re also Mr. Boring. I’ve met a lot of them at so-called conventions, and I’ve sat down and talked to them and I’ve watched them try to approach a woman, and guess what they can’t do?

They can mind-fuck the hell out of you and show you that you need to change the way you do things, but in reality my friends, they can’t approach women without being boring either.

Approach Without Thinking Anything

When I talk to a woman for the very, very first time, I don’t think about anything at all.

I don’t think about how I need to sexually escalate her.

And if you really look at the visual of sexual escalation, what does that even mean? Is she naked, riding up an escalator? There she is, she’s escalating right now, she’s about to get to the top floor, she’s naked, go talk to her, because you’re sexually escalating her on the escalator.

I don’t come up with any weird terminology.

All I do, literally, is go over there with this mindset and belief system.

This beautiful woman I’m about to go and approach, you see, she and I, we’re already together. Because this woman is somebody that I can go out with. I can have sex with her if I want. She could be my girlfriend if I want. That’s my mindset.

Mindset is everything. When I go and talk to her, I’m calm, I’m cool and I’m collected.

I talk to her about stuff that’s going on. I’m not coming up with something weird to say that breaks her train of thought. I’m jumping into her life right then and there. And we’re having this effortless, amazing conversation about stuff right from the get go. Real stuff, personal stuff, anything that’s going on in the moment.

She’s not naked going up an escalator and I’m not thinking about how I can get those titties and feel them and sexually escalate.

I’m basically talking to her just like I would talk to you. And that is what bonds her to me, because I’m being different than all you other boring guys that are going over to her and trying to say something so super clever that she looks at you and thinks to herself, this guy probably bought some type of really dumb course teaching him how to meet women using pick-up lines and he tried one on me because he’s got low self-esteem and he’s actually boring because he thinks his own personality sucks and I’m going to roll my eyes and walk away. And maybe if he asks for my phone number I’m going to give it to him, but he’s going to text me and bore me some more, and I’m going to roll my eyes again and never call him back.

Well you know what? That life doesn’t have to be for you. As a matter of fact my friend, that life is no longer going to be your life because you are here right now, reading something that’s going to change your life, that’s going to show you how to do things.

You should go check out my YouTube channel and check out all the free stuff that’s on there because it really can change your life. Because you know what? Today is the first day of the rest of your life. You’re going to finally say goodbye to Mr. Boring. Mr. Boring doesn’t exist anymore in your consciousness. After reading more and watching some videos, you are going to be the man – that’s right, the man – that goes and meets awesome, incredible women.