Finally, the waiting is over. The cast of the 50 Shades of Grey movie have been unveiled, and women around the world are starting to get hot over Mr.Grey all over again. Can you imagine how much money that movieís going to take at the box office?
But what is it about the Christian Grey character women from every corner of the world are so in love with?
Do you know what I think it is?
Women are starving emotionally and sexually. Youíre desperate for a man who passionately desires you. You long to be pursued and claimed. You pine for a strong, sexy man to make you feel like a woman. Women want to be ravished, and Christian Grey knows how to ravish a woman!
The trouble is men donít do these things any more. If youíre lucky, youíll get a few guys stumble over to you on a night out, hit you with some cheesy pickup line, and expect you to fall into their arms. Guys have become lazy.
Porn has made modern men sexually selfish and passive. They donít care about seduction, and they donít understand seduction and arousal has to start in the mind for a woman. You have to seduce her emotionally and mentally, before you can seduce her physically. The Mr.Grey character understands seduction. He understands why you need to get inside a womanís head before her pants.
Thatís one of the things women love about him. Did you read the 50 Shades series? Didnít you imagine Christian was seducing you personally? I bet you did. †
So what else do women love about Grey? Heís not a nice guy really. And in many ways heís broken, but heís strong, confident, and dominant. He knows what he wants and heís not afraid to go after it. Thatís the sort of confidence women love.
So what can you do if youíre dating passive men?
Can you turn them into your own Christian Grey?
Yes you can, but you need to talk to them. Tell them what you want. Most guys need to be told what you want them to do. Itís not they donít want to please you. Itís more theyíre scared to make a wrong move. Tell them how you want him to touch you. Tell him what feels good. Tell him how you like to be licked and caressed.
You have to communicate. Not all guys are confident enough to ravish you without knowing for sure you want to be ravished. Let him know you want him. Let him know you want him to claim you. If youíre open and heís still passive, tell him to man up or ship out.
You want to date a man not a mouse right?
Grey is all man, and if you open yourself up to a guy and tell him what you want, you could be going to bed tonight with your very own Christian Grey.