The Truth Behind Seduction And Sex

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By David Wygant December 3, 2011 425 Shares

Take it from the ORIGINAL dating coach — you DON’T need any “pickup lines” or canned material to EFFORTLESSLY attract any woman you want. Watch this free video now to learn what the “pickup artists” & “seduction gurus” don’t want you to know…

Lets talk about sex and seduction.

I think a great topic that everyone should be talking about this weekend.

The weather is getting cold outside and it is time to start warming up the fires inside.

So how do we warm up the fires that lurk deep inside every woman.

Glad you asked.

Today I am in a pre holiday mood and I have a special video just for all my readers.

Today I am going to share with you the secrets on how to make her sizzle with passion and desire for you.

Not only that I am going to show you how to do this the second you meet her.

Enjoy today’s video.

Are you ready to learn the truth behind her orgasms and what really makes her hot for you. Click here to find out, your going to be even more shocked.

About David

1.7 million men & women come to me every month to find the secrets to success. And after 20 years of coaching, I’ve discovered the golden keys to success in dating, business, health and wellness, and life.

I’ve helped millions of men and women around the globe achieve success in their dating, social and personal lives. I’m also a father to the world’s cutest little girl, and I am an unapologetic man. Some say I’m nuts, others say I’ve changed their life forever. One thing’s for certain: I’ll always give you the truth, whether you can handle it or not. I never sugar coat anything.

Nice is so overrated. I’d prefer brutally honest breakthrough to a “nice” rut any damn day of the week. If you’re the same way, then you've come to the right place.

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Michael

Saturday, December 3rd, 2011

From Michael, You are giving away to many secret... about women! Kate is tell me. You are like a mind reader + more... Great video From Michael Great video From Kate xx

Katie

Friday, May 4th, 2012

Hi Michael:0) Who is that Kate ?...;) xxx ...hmmm...interesting...))))))))))

Jeremiah

Saturday, December 3rd, 2011

*get out of my chair and gives a standing ovation*

Tom

Saturday, December 3rd, 2011

(writing as I watch, to anyone who has something to say about it, please reply, it would help me, and this shit took long to write) How I want to be seduced? I want the woman to approach me, flirt to me, take me in her arms, and let me have passionate sex with her. I want to feel loved, I want to be kissed. I can't transition to sex, women don't want to have sex with me, and it's not about what I want, it is about what they want, because they don't want me, what do you want me to rape the woman or something? how many times have I chased after a woman for her affection? every time, especially Maybell. raised my hand for one night stand lol the second I talk is when the attraction is decided? well then that's a bad thing, my accent is stupid, no power in my voice and sometimes I say boring things at an approach. ok then how come I wasn't able to seduce a married woman a couple of years ago when I was stronger than her husband? women don't let me touch them, so no I can't kiss her unless she gave me permission. if they like me then I'll close them? well they never like me. and I'm an ugly guy, from head to toe, so he moment we rip each others clothes off, it'll be over when she sees my body. also womens friends kill it for me, a woman could think I'm attractive, but once a friend of hers tells her otherwise, she will cut communication with me. ok, video has finished, all I can say is women are complicated, I don't know what they want because they always change what they want.

Paula R

Saturday, December 3rd, 2011

I agree with David here. Sex TOTALLY starts when you talk to her. As I've mentioned previously, I said something super awkward/kind of funny/mostly pervy and weird to my boyfriend, which he thought was pretty cool, so he asked me for my number. There was definitely something about how he did it. He was really forceful in the way he did it, instead of saying "Can I have your number?", he said "Give me your number" with a smirk on his face. So... i had to! He called me later that night and we talked for an hour or so and then he asked me what I was doing on Friday night. I told him nothing, so he said "Let's go get beer and nachos and continue this conversation". So we did, and we went really far on the first date. I would have slept with him if it wasn't for my period. I really enjoyed his forceful approach, and how he TOLD me to give him my number and how he TOLD me what we were doing on our date. I didn't have time to watch the full video, but another point I agreed with is that women like strong men. HELL YES we do!! As seen above, we respond well. It also helped that he has a very deep, sexy voice that makes him seem even stronger and more in charge when he was asking me out and stuff. ;)

Richard

Saturday, December 3rd, 2011

Thanks David for another great video. It's all very true. Patience is the key. I always try to be present to the woman and listen to what she says. They love to talk about themselves. They always give me enough information to keep the converstion going naturally. It is amazing. It is where we make the first emotional connection. The light touching and soft kiss goodbye always works and more often than not they grab me for a second kiss. I never push for sex and I almost always let them bring it up first. Now I know they are starting to trust me and feel safe. They sense that I am not needy or desperate and it makes them want to take their clothes off and mine too. Touchdown! The best part is that I was in total control and they thought is was all their idea. Your stuff is great! Keep up the good work.

Tom

Saturday, December 3rd, 2011

@Paula R if that's the case then I have a huge problem. the other day I met a beautiful woman who is 58. I am very attracted to her, she looks like she's 30. she's divorced and all. she comes to best buy once week, every week(for the past 4 years, and I never realized it). I didn't flirt or anything, we had friendly conversation. so I guess the sex didn't start off the bat? I mean, jeez she is sexy, I don't want to screw this up. my co worker says she's old enough to be my mother, but I don't care, it's not like I'm going to marry her, I just want a fling. did I do anything wrong by having a friendly conversation with her? also would it even be possible since she's 23 years older than me? please answer me because I need all the help I could get, desperate time call for desperate measures. what should I do next time I see her? I have to be prepared.

Godfather

Saturday, December 3rd, 2011

Nice video David. It's great to see you warming up to the readers on here with your pre holiday season mood. I agree that we have to take a look at what we want first and how we want to be seduced. Having a better understanding of that can help us be more satisfied in the long run with the people we hook up with. As for watching Hugh Grant romantic comedies, you can a better idea of how women would like to meet a guy, but what I found interesting about Hugh Grant is what he mentioned about finding love throughout his acting career: "I just don't believe in love at first sight any more, even though I've based my whole career on the concept. In my experience, power, money and influence always attract the opposite sex. It's something that I've always exploited - with good results." -- IMDb Quotes: Hugh Grant

LadyDestiny

Saturday, December 3rd, 2011

Nice video :D Lots of spot-on comments there. Another thing about taking your own desires into account and making what you want important, is that it adds to the perception that you are your own person and that there's a give and take there. We don't need someone who's just all about pleasing us, constantly advertising that they'll pleasure us so hard, without any thought to their own desires and pleasures. Dudes, most women already have that! We call them BOBs: Battery Operated Boyfriends :D So if that's all you offer, you're redundant and the proposed relationship would be boring for you AND her.

LadyDestiny

Saturday, December 3rd, 2011

*spams* Sorry for the 2nd comment in a row, this just came to me! As I was watching the video, and David was going on and on about guys who keep trying to 'sell sex' to chicks, I thought... who DOES this? This type of guy can't be real, now, David, really! You're just making shit up now, aren't you? Then I remembered this one guy friend of mine who, way back when I was completely inexperienced, spent half an hour trying to convince me to sleep with him! The fact that I had a boyfriend didn't deter him at all ("he doesn't have to know") and he kept on about how he had so much experience and he was really doing me a favour (!!) by passing on his expertise. Dis.Gus.Ting. So yes, guys like this exist. They also get blocked. Forever. :)

Thomas

Saturday, December 3rd, 2011

Great vid as always david

sandra hutchens

Saturday, December 3rd, 2011

I will sit this one out...

sandra hutchens

Saturday, December 3rd, 2011

Here is some videos to answer this Flashdance Seduce Me Tonight https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iIyj8qww3Rw When I go on a manhunt Flashdance Manhunt https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mH11xy4y9b8 This one reminds me of the guy I am interested in for what would it be like Ah Leah Donnie Iris www.youtube.com/watch?v=mH11xy4y9b8

sandra hutchens

Saturday, December 3rd, 2011

this is so i can read comments

sandra hutchens

Saturday, December 3rd, 2011

I have listened to the video and Dave is right...I want a guy that has his head on straight and does not weasel down and lower himself around me. I want a man not a boy...I want a man that thinks with his head on his shoulders not his COCK....Wanna lay me Dave is right I know when you are thinking with your cock or your head. When in the natural head you can tell me how you truly feel...want wonderful sex with me act like a man not a pua that has never been laid...

Brian

Saturday, December 3rd, 2011

David is what he sells.... powerful... some phenomenal stuff in there.... the only thing i question... tho i can probably agree it has to do with ego.... i believe i truly enjoy giving a woman pleasure.... If a woman is giving me a blowjob... 15 minutes into it i want to either "69" or give her mouth a break and pleasure her.... this is what i BELIEVE to be true at this point in time... I also know (because ive been told) that its frustrating for the women im intimate with because i have never cum from a blowjob and they all want to be the first one to make that happen... seems like it would make them feel powerful if they were able to make it happen. @tom From the things you wrote... I would recommend davids mens mastery series.... women love accents.... and if you can make that accent powerful.... I bet you could be incredibly successful.... self Confidence/esteem is key, something I lacked for ALL of my life and still struggle with to a degree... David is spot on in my opinion in the fact that being the true, authentic you feels good and will get you way more results than any "PUA" Bullshit ever could. And that btw is how i eventually stumbled upon David.... just the road that i took...learn from my mistakes and go straight to the source

mathew

Sunday, December 4th, 2011

I went down to the shops today and I was working on two things. I was saying to myself, that I am what woman are thinking about and they want me because I am a real man(not a boy in a man’s body or a pua). Second, when I looked at a woman I said to myself who is she as a person? Not just looking at her because she was hot. The looks that I started getting was that they knew something was different about me and it was something they wanted.

Ernest

Sunday, December 4th, 2011

I did my homework :) i watched Notthing Hill today the movie s not that bad and i liked the story, but heres my question what should i be focusing on the way he talks or what exacly? he seams like a "nice guy" , hope u can clearify that more for me becouse i didnt learn anything :))

Konstantin

Sunday, December 4th, 2011

Shit how can I get out of my shyness. I'l give you and experience of yesterday whay happened to me. In nightclub I was standing on the bar and I was very tired.And 3 girls came next to me and started to dance.I didn't decide to go and approach them,shyness kills fuck,or I forgot my balls at home. And one girl approach me and sad to me her friend like me.But I wasn't attracted to her friend but to her. They give me lesson in pracise that isn't so hard to approach,although she got to balls :)) I was on the approached side and I saw nothing is hard at all. Thanks for listening

Daniel

Sunday, December 4th, 2011

Ok so after following David's advice, here's what I realize. Guys are fucking afraid of making a romantic emotional moment to a woman, and I do include myself in that category. Here's an example of one of the things that happened to me recently: First, I'm 19 so I'm still in my studies and I can meet a lot of girls. There's this beautiful girl that I'm attracted to. We were talking at her locker about what she did last weekend, and I looked at her really deep in the eyes and listened to what she was saying (btw it's really hard at first to listen and look into her eyes if you've never done it cause it's kinda intimidating at first but you're a man so you can do it). Then I realize that she's attracted to me cause she kinda gets closer to me, starts touching her hair, doesn't look away when I look into her eyes, basically giving me some fucking "IOI". At this point I knew that, this is it. I'm gonna come forward slowly and kiss her. But I got so fucking scared and nervous that I didn't. And I think that same thing goes on for sex. Guys are afraid of having an emotional connection with women. I mean, why is it that when were at a party, take a few shots, and make out with a girl we don't even know and not be afraid of ?? I also believe that the same thing goes on with women too. They're also afraid of living that romantic moment they see in movies. What do you people think?

Bobby M

Sunday, December 4th, 2011

I definitely agree Daniel, and I also think it has to do with overthinking on our part. Like, we get so analytical of what the moment will be like, and spend so much time blowing it up in our minds, that the idea of it actually happening scares the shit out of us.

john

Sunday, December 4th, 2011

That's it,, I've had it ,, I'm switching sides. GO PITTSBURGH!

Bob

Sunday, December 4th, 2011

I feel so blessed. I will put David on my Christmas card list immediately. Thankyou so much for the infinite wisdom of Mr Wygant... Now we can all go out and have sex with any woman we desire with this unrenowned, covert, abstruse, information...:) Really though, you are a great public speaker,and know how to inspire and rally a crowd, similarly as my preacher at the local Baptist church. but, shouldn't any fool know this stuff, if he just thought about it for a minute? I mean, basically, listen to the woman, don't expect to jump down her pants the first ten minutes, be strong, confident, patient, and leading. She will let a man know when she is ready every time, from my experience, and you can't force it from her...I think I will save my seminar money, for now.

Collin

Sunday, December 4th, 2011

I saw this today and thought it was appropriate after David's email today: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qNC8xRo9vXY&feature=player_embedded

Collin

Sunday, December 4th, 2011

Feel free to pretend like I didn't use "today" twice in the same sentence.

Chris D

Sunday, December 4th, 2011

sex is supposed to be fun? well then i must be doing something wrong

sandra hutchens

Sunday, December 4th, 2011

today I was talking to a guy about how things have changed in the dating scene...this is what was said... Me: I was told by my mom that the guy wants to be the persuer the one who does the chasing not the persuee...the one being chased after, I love it when a man makes the first move makes the first call and makes the move in sex. Him: you know that is the way it should be, but it seems like the woman is taking the initiative more. Me: I have seen this time and time again that when a woman chases after a man he will run away from her. Him: The man has the makeup and that is how he was created to approach the woman he wants not the other way around. And that is the way it should be. I was thinking that if a man is being chased by the woman it cuts down his thrill of the hunt and if he cares for another woman he will go after the one who does not pay him any attention. My parents both have told me this if he cares about you...he will let you know if he does not then find you someone who does. If he is married my dad will say to me leave him alone for he very married and may stay with his wife. My mom you are only making a fool of yourself go find you someone else. There are times that I feel like a fool but my woman's curiosity gets the best of me. and I have to find out what it is all about. So all I have to say is God be with me and give me courage and strength to make it another day.

sandra hutchens

Sunday, December 4th, 2011

Daniel There are women who are still virgins and want to wait till it is the right time to be with a guy...It is hard to explain being a woman. There are certain emotions that we ourselves go through and there are those who want to be ladies. It is something I taught both my daughters and it is true....A man will treat you the way you present yourself to him. Yes we women go through the same thing and if she really cares about you she will let you know somehow...little trick watch her actions when she is near you sometimes we can give it away but keep talking to her and see what happens....

Kevin

Sunday, December 4th, 2011

I'm going to add a little to what Paula said and that...Be direct with women, If you give a wishy washy way of asking her out like.. Do you want to hang out sometime"? Do you wanna do something this week? You are going to get a wishy washy answer from her. Be specific and direct with women. Saying "I want..." to a woman is sexy to them. I want to take you out Friday night at 7pm for a drink,What's your number? Ask her out in that way.

Mark

Monday, December 5th, 2011

@Kevin. Agreed. Can't remember where I read it but concentrate more on what YOU want and worry less about what she wants and your results will improve, seems good advice to me. Follows on from what David says in this video. I can feel a shift in my attitude when I think this way.

Rob

Monday, December 5th, 2011

Just watched this video and have thought of something interesting. David, you mention a few times that you wasted alot of time in your 20's doing the wrong things. Well Im 25 (and look 22/23) and can relate to a few things you mentioned..wanting to please women etc etc. However, it could be argued that the reason you are very successful at the moment is partly due to you age. You are in your 40's and alot of women will automatically (before you have even said anything) see you as mature, experienced. In a way, you are automatically given more respect. I think the problem with alot of people in their 20's is that they are quickly judege by women. Take for example James Bond, you would never see a 20 something playing Bond. It would look forced and unconvincing and it will never happen. (Their is currently a debate going on at the moment about the new Q in the latest Bond being in his 30's when he has always been older than Bond - a perfect example). Could this be a reason why you have been taken more seriously by women? Do you think you would you have been as successful in your 20s if you knew everything you knew now?

Mark

Monday, December 5th, 2011

@Rob, reminds me of this song. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=--HaFAtC17U

Trenton

Wednesday, December 7th, 2011

Rob Im 18 and iv dated several girls in their 20s. Simply because iv got the knowledge of how to treat a girl. Do you think things will change as j get a bit older?

Rob

Thursday, December 8th, 2011

@ Trenton I do. I dont know what you look like as a person, but what im saying is physical looks have a big say in how a woman will intitially perceive a man. Chances are the girls you are dating like a younger looking guy, nothing wrong with that..but this is probably something they like otherwise they would not date you. This is not a clear cut theory, of course people will break the rules, but generally speaking, the look of the guy is very important to women - especially with first impressions which is what I was talking about. I would say David is in a stage in his life where he can swing higher and lower in terms of the age of women he wants to attract - generally speaking. I also read somewhere recently that in terms of attracting women..in your 40's is where it really kicks off...providing your still single that is ;-)

Petter the swede

Thursday, December 8th, 2011

True rob. What David talks about is very natural, organic. But women objectifies men, and men like "moments" Society has tought manny women to hide somme of their sexuality. My sister likes big hands, her friend stares at mens asses a day long. Kulture kan messup natural human behavior.

Jonathan

Friday, December 9th, 2011

David - erudite, funny and true. I watched this or parts of it before but it's good to be reminded. I am always the pleaser and don't think about my own needs and need to stand up for what I want and walk away more. Thanks for the reminder!

akirra

Saturday, December 10th, 2011

OMG lol This is so great!! LMAO sack of potatoes

adam

Thursday, December 15th, 2011

Spot on. But I've got one big question: What do I want? Sex? I can have sex with myself. I could go to a club any night of the week and get laid, if that's what I wanted. Love? Affection? I can get a puppy. I want a connection with a person. If that evolves into love and affection that's awesome. If it leads to sex, that's cool, but it's not the name of the game, for me (I know, I'm weird for a guy; but this makes it easy to stay cool and go slow). I truly have no idea how I'd want to be seduced. I'm two+ years single after a ten year marriage and prior to that I had few girlfriends and not much "experience". The big question remains... What do I want? How would I want to be seduced?

Renee

Thursday, January 5th, 2012

I enjoyed your video. I didn't realize that is what works... but you are right. Thinking back on the times I have been seduced and couldn't stop thinking about a man;every time it was because he gave me less than I wanted. It became a challenge for me. The tables were turned and I wanted him as much if not more (or that is how it felt) than he wanted me. It does start with the way he carries himself. His walk and the tone of voice. Confidence is very important. He calls but not too much. He emails but not too much....He gives you a kiss but stops and leaves....it builds. By the time you finally get to serious kissing you are absolutely dying to sleep with him! If he goes too fast too soon you feel like a piece of meat and you are repulsed. Thank you David...I am also thinking...how do I want to be seduced? Hmmmm

Maria Guanajuato

Sunday, January 15th, 2012

lmfao! this is soooo true! a women ALWAYS remember what the guy wears! i've been with my babe since 3132008! <3 :) & I still remember the day i met him! & omfg! in his case apparently he's weak(no offense to him ilovehim) kuz he wasn't even the one who asked me out! our friend did it for him! & I went up to him & him yes & he was all confused! but he was so nice & so romantic... Obviously we weren't sexual yet we weren't sexual yet. we weren't sexual until almost a year of dating.. & as to the mourning too or whatever lol that's sooo true!! :) i mean there are days where i do wake up wanting to be with him! there's nothing wrong with it. i like it when we have sex but it's so true, guys need to be more a little more ROMANTIC & stop acting like fucking SEX ADDICTS! :O they need to CHILL out! let the women imagine & think about how great it'll be to be with you! & i'm a female so i know what i'm saying! :) WHEN A FEMALE LIKES YOU OR YOU'RE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH ONE NO MATTER WHAT... A WOMAN WANTS TO BE LOVED!!! <3 So make her special & don't make her feel like IT'S JUST SEX!!! MAKE LOVE TO HER! & mmmm hmmmm.. DON'T ACT LIKE AN ANIMAL! :)

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