Are you in a relationship that has become routine? Every night, you both come home from work, you make dinner, you sit there and watch television, you go upstairs, and you go to sleep. You’re both just going through the motions.

Maybe Friday night you go out to dinner. Saturday night perhaps you go see a movie. But every week is the exact same.

You have sex the same time every Saturday night – and it’s the same sex over and over again.

How do you break up those routines in a relationship? It’s very simple.

Grab a piece of paper, and sit down with your lover. Write down the things that you want to do. Don’t focus on the negative and say, “Baby, we’re in such a boring routine.”

Instead, take the high road and say, “I’ve got some great ideas of things I want to do with you. I think that we could be sharing more together, and I have some things I’d like us to share together.”

So write down the 10 things that you’ve never done sexually with your partner. Write down the ten places you’ve never been with your partner that you’d like to go to together.

And then once a week, do something from that list. Start doing things differently.

How many of you are in relationships where you can’t have date night anymore because the kids are always around? Everything has become routine.

Do you realize that dating will help you to put the excitement back into your relationship? Start dating your wife or your girlfriend all over again.

Pretend like you’re in a brand new relationship, and stop letting things get so routine.

So the next time you’re sitting around, watching TV with your partner for the 100th night in a row, take the remote control, flip off the TV, grab your partner’s hand and lead them downstairs to the bathroom. Make a bath. Or give each other erotic massages.

The only reason that your relationship has become routine is because you’ve let it happen!