For so many of you, when you;re out on a date or in a new relationship, the sound of silence really bothers you. But in reality, there never really is any silence. You can be standing there looking out at the water on a date, listening to the ocean, and feeling the need to talk...

...let's put it in pick up terms: when you approach a woman and you hook your words and you don't go anywhere with them. The reason why you're hooking your words, the reason why you're dropping the easy ones, is because you're not going out and doing the work every single day. In order to become amazing at meeting women, you need to go out every single day...

Years ago, I was vacationing in Boulder, Colorado. One day, after a two-hour massage, I went to Whole Foods for some dinner. As I was walking out, I passed by a gorgeous woman and we had one of those moments. (You know those moments that happen when a woman stares at you and you stare at her at the same time and an extreme sexual chemistry builds up that you can feel? It was one of those...)

You see this woman every single day and you don't know what to say or what to do. One day you actually swear you locked eyes with her and you think she might have even smiled...but you said nothing. And everyday you repeat this pattern over and over again...