Today during my seminar today in NYC one of the guys asked me to share something personal and what my definition of going deep was. Let me share this with all of you right now.

I’m going to tell you exactly the way that I feel about something that is really personal to me.

I am off to NYC this weekend for my Art Of Communication Seminar and I was thinking.
You know what my favorite part of a relationship is? The part of the relationship where you have to prove that you love the other person. Prove that you love me. If you love me, you will do this for me. People are nuts when they do that crap.

In your marriage, was there ever a time when you forgot to be your spouse’s husband or wife? I want you to think about this for a minute. Whether you are currently married or are recently divorced, I want you to think about whether there was ever a time that you really forget that you [...]

A lot of you bitch and complain about being single.

It is just really shitty mind set as far as I am concerned. Being single is great. It is
amazing. No one to answer to, all the food in the fridge is yours, you
don’t have to leave the toilet seat up, you never have to change
anything about yourself

I wrote a recent blog about fuckation, which is when you’re in a
relationship, you just go and screw each other’s brains out for 48
hours in a random hotel and have a blast. A lot of you got appalled.

Whether you understand it now or not…
Whenever people tell me they’re in pain, or they feel like the world’s coming apart, I always tell them everything happens for a reason. There’s a lesson in everything.

What a great group of men at this bootcamp, we’ve been having such a blast so far! This morning we were at Borough Market in London meeting new people, engaging so many interesting women, and generally just having a great time and sending out a great vibe.
The food at Borough Market is always fantastic. I’m such a food guy too, what I really wanted to do was sample some of everything. I wanted one big, gigantic combination plate of the best food that the market has to offer.

In life, there’s really only love and hate. There is no such thing as like. Let me explain more: Say you’re standing in front of the mirror. You just tried on some new clothes, and you say, “I like this shirt.”
Like is a very indifferent world. You liked it? Like is a very weak word. I liked it.

When we get involved in a relationship, why are we always searching for that perpetual carrot?
It’s amazing that when we’re unsatisfied in a relationship — feeling like our partner is not satisfying our needs, wants and desires — that we feel afraid to tell them. It’s amazing that we are afraid to be that open, honest, raw and vulnerable with our partner.

Have you ever been involved in a relationship where it just went the other direction, and you always think about what it was like the first three months or the first six months?
It seems like in the first three to six months of a relationship, you actually do things for the other person. You make nights special. You light candles for each other. You make sure nights are romantic. You make love for hours instead of minutes.