You know what SHK stands for? It’s a Should-Have-Known person. We do this to ourselves every day of our lives.
We do it when we……

This is the perfect blog for the day before the most overhyped night of the year. I want you to read this before you think about those so called New Years resolutions….

Today I was driving around and I was listening to U2′s “With or Without You” in my car.
Sirius radio is great because you can just scroll right over the display and it gives you the name of the music that’s playing and the year. And while I scrolled over the song, I realized that With or Without You was a song that came out in 1987.
I remember listening to that song, I was 25 at the time and I had either just gotten broken up with or I had met somebody…..

Hey guys, Shogo with another weekend blog. Today let’s talk about getting intimate.

Sometimes less is more. The last 2 blogs had some comments that needed to be addressed. Its time some of you listened and got out of your heads. No more typing. Its time to listen and learn.

The weekend is over and yes my beloved Jets do suck. Sanchez is exactly what most USC qbs are in the NFL. Very mediocre. But today is not about why the Jets have gone bad, today is all about how your Ego is killing your dating life.

The other day I got a great email from a client that got me thinking about how many of you guys really let your past and where you come from in life to prevent you from reaching great success in dating, in connecting to the opposite sex on a deeper level, and in making yourself an attractive and desirable man.
A lot of you get nervous around the kind of woman who you would like to date

When we get involved in a relationship, why are we always searching for that perpetual carrot?
It’s amazing that when we’re unsatisfied in a relationship — feeling like our partner is not satisfying our needs, wants and desires — that we feel afraid to tell them. It’s amazing that we are afraid to be that open, honest, raw and vulnerable with our partner.

I was on the phone the other day with a client and he asked me, “When are things going to be perfect in my life, and when am I going to be amazingly happy? Because I’ve been doing the ‘growth thing’ for a almost a year.”
I stopped him at this point, and said “Almost a year? Do you realize that self-growth is a never-ending process?”

You always hear the saying, “Get out of your head,” but a lot of people don’t know what that really means or how to do it. I get asked all the time how to do this.
The way I do it is really easy. I happen to have been born with a zipper on my skull, so all I have to do is peel back my toupee, unzip the back of my head, and crawl out (usually feet first). It’s a really interesting phenomenon to watch me, because I’ll just be there laying on the ground and then all of a sudden I’ll whip my toupee off, unzip my head and crawl right out.