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Friday, March 5th, 2010
There you are, alone at a bar waiting for your friends to arrive. You are standing at the bar only a few feet away from a woman who is also standing alone at the bar.
This woman is beautiful. She is everything you think you want.
You see her take a sip of her drink, play with the straw, look at her watch and check her cell phone. She looks around the room and, for just a split second, your eyes meet and you have a moment. Then she quickly looks down, and looks back at her phone again.
There you are, standing there alone at the bar with your hands in your pocket waiting for you friends. Apparently she is also waiting for her friends.
Your mind starts racing. You start thinking to yourself, “What can I say? What can I do?”
There are so many clues in this situation! She checked her watch. She checked her phone. Obviously she is waiting for her friends.
It is very easy to walk over there, look at her and say, “Obviously you are waiting for your friends. My friends are late too.” You could start chatting with her.
The problem is that your mind starts messing with you. You don’t see the obvious or, even if you did, you start to freak out the second she looks at you.
You start to ask all those questions in your head like “What can I say” and “How can I get this amazing woman’s attention?” Listen, though, to what you are saying.
You already have her attention. She already looked over at you.
It is because you are afraid and overcomplicate things so much that you don’t see the obvious signs in life. You don’t even see the wonder of this moment. You don’t even realize what a powerful moment this can be because you over-analyze things so much.
You have such a fear of embracing the unknown, that this is what is going to happen to you in this scenario: You are going to stay standing where you are and another guy is going to walk up and start talking to her.
Then her friends are going to arrive, and you are going to watch she and her friends get into a great conversation with him and his friends. When you go home, you are going to wonder what you could have done.
The truth is that you already know what you could have done. It is just your fear of the unknown that doesn’t allow you to do it.
Every day you need to face the unknown. Every day you need to push yourself to do something of which you are afraid.
Otherwise, the unknown will continue to scare you and you will end up dating women who don’t intrigue you and to whom you are not attracted. There is nothing worse than having sex with a woman who doesn’t intrigue you.
You also don’t want to ever end up in a relationship with a woman who doesn’t intrigue you. Fear of the unknown is what drives us to loneliness.
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Posted in Attract and Approach Women, College Dating, How To Be A Better Communicator, Mindset, Night Game | 15 Comments »
Saturday, April 25th, 2009
Here is an experiment I did one time with a friend in a bar. Coach Jacob and I just stood in one place, but we had an animated conversation. We were just having a good time. We stood right in the middle of the bar – so that everyone in the bar was standing around us – and just talked animatedly.
And women started coming over to us, asking, “What are you guys talking about?” We’d say, “Look, I’ll meet with you in five minutes; we just have to finish this conversation.” I would push them away a little bit, which would intrigue them a little bit more. In a bar, you can be very playful like that.
So after a few minutes, I looked at one woman and kind of waved her over. She came over and asked, “What?” and I said, “You were curious about what we were talking about, and I want to tell you.” Then I explained what it was we were talking about. “We were just discussion life and the nature of spirituality…” and she just stood there with her mouth wide open.
So then I looked at her and asked, “So tell me, how do you feel about this?” and for five minutes she went off on a tangent, full of passion and emotion, just like I did. She was mimicking my body language the entire time.
Most guys at bars are thinking about what the woman’s body language says. Who cares! It’s your body language that will attract other people.
So once I got her all full of passion, I asked her, “Are those your friends?” She said they were. “Alright, bring them over. We need more people’s opinions.” We had ten people – two of us, and eight girls – all sitting there and talking about spirituality and what it means to be alive. We had the most amazing conversation.
When we left, they all looked at us and said, “This was the greatest experience we’ve ever had in a bar!” It was the first time they’d ever had a real conversation at a bar.
It all comes from you putting yourself in the middle of that bar and saying to yourself: I will be the center of attention in this room tonight. I will talk to my friend and pull over whomever I want in this room!
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Tags: bar openers, get lucky in bars, how to be a better communicator, Meet sexy women, meet women in bars, meet women in the weekends
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, How To Be A Better Communicator, Night Game | 8 Comments »
Wednesday, August 27th, 2008
I spent a recent weekend with one of my clients and I had a great conversation that I wanted to share with all of you.
David: I’ve seen this for so long – and every single guy does this.
What do they do? They go from being whatever they were when they started (perhaps shy or introverted) to being way over the top.
What they forget along the way (on their journey to being way over the top) is to really listen to the other person when they are having a conversation.
You have great conversations, but what I saw last night (when you randomly approached that drunk women – and that’s all they were, just drunk, stupid women. The whole point of last night was NOT to approach and just to observe. I don’t know, but they all turned me off! Every single one of them – their behavior, the way they walked, talked, the way they carried themselves. They had so much negative energy – I didn’t like it at all.)
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Tags: bunny, bunny rabbits, easter bunny, enviroment, fatal attraction, meet women in bars, observe, peter pan, seattle, take charge
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, Body Language, College Dating, Life Style 101, Mindset, Night Game | 47 Comments »
Saturday, July 26th, 2008
How To Meet Great Women In Bars By David Wygant
Hope everyone is having an amazing weekend.
Todays video is a can’t miss, but you need to first read about how to be unique in bars.
Today I want to share with everyone a great question I got from someone in London. I’m sure all of you think about these same things when you go out at night too, so let’s talk about this right now!
Client: First of all, I have to commend you on the Men’s Audio Mastery Series – it’s one of the best audio series I have ever heard.
I also have two questions for you. You said that when you open someone in a bar, you want to ask the women for their opinion on something.
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Tags: alchohol, bars, london, maxim, meet women in bars, motivation, PickUp, seminar
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, How To Be A Better Communicator, Night Game | 8 Comments »
Monday, June 9th, 2008
Age Greater Bar or Real Age? By David Wygant
How was everyones weekend?
I had the opportunity to work with a great guy from Scottsdale. I am off to NYC on Friday for a bootcamp as well as some one on one coaching.
I think todays post will really hit home for a lot of men and women especially after the weekend.
Which number is greater: your age, or the amount of women or men that you’ve met in a bar?
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Tags: date great men, date women, flirt with men, flirt with women, meet men, meet women in bars
Posted in Life Style 101, Night Game | 41 Comments »
Thursday, June 14th, 2007
If you are someone who can’t handle the truth, then I suggest you click on AOL homepage and read a fluff article about dating.
I’m in Detroit this weekend coaching a client, and we were out tonight at a bar on Lake St. Clair. Let’s set the scene right . . .
There were women over the age of thirty, very sexually aware, that spent the day drinking beer, laying in the sun, and thinking about dick. The only problem is that most men lack the balls to walk over, flirt, listen to them, and carry on a conversation so that the women can act upon their raw, sexual desires that they were flaunting all night at Jack’s.
Guys – wake up!!! Women want dick so bad, that they’re willing to look past your social retardation. Men don’t understand that women crave sex after a long hot day of drinking beer and laying in the sun as much, if not more, than men.
Women, when they talk sex with their friends, go over every single detail from how big you are to how good you are with your tongue. Women, when they have sexual fantasies, use battery-operated toys as they lay in their bed thinking about a man that they met or a man they want to meet and how he would feel inside of them.
So here I am at this bar tonight, and four women were looking at me like a piece of steak on the grill. As I walked by they licked their lips, smiled at me, and said hello.
This was after they had stared directly at me for twenty straight minutes. If interested, all I had to do was walk over and talk to her.
How would I have closed the deal tonight, and not ruined it like most men do? I would walk over with edge and I would bust her with: “You haven’t stopped staring at me all night long. Let’s cut through the BS. I’ll share with you one secret if you share with me one secret.”
Some of you right now will read this and say “there’s no way this will work” because you live in fear. So you won’t even try it.
You’ll just dismiss this immediately because it’s so far removed from anything you’ve ever done. But everything you’ve ever done has never given you the results you desire.
Guys – Women love dick. They love it, they crave it, they desire it.
They buy toys in the shape of your dick. They fantasize about a strong, confident man having sex with them. If they don’t find it in the bar that night after a day in the sun, they’re online on a dating site cruising and looking.
What do you think women do at 11:00 p.m.? What do you think they’re really thinking?
They’re thinking about having sex and connecting with a man. Some of them are just horny and want dick. Some of them just want to feel love, romance and passion.
Hey guys . . . I don’t do this for my health. I already know and understand women. I do this because I want you to know and understand women better.
So how do you get laid tonight? How do you not screw it up so a woman gets her dick?
This we’ll go over more in an upcoming podcast. For now, think about what I said. Process it. Because this blog is going to be all about real, hard-hitting, no-BS advice.
Love it or hate it, this is who I am and this is what I’m all about.
Become the guy who knows how to confidently and easily approach any woman you see anywhere — and never again miss an opportunity to connect with a woman you want to meet by clicking here.
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Posted in Foreplay & Sexual Communication, Sex, Sexual Turn-Ons, Understanding Female Psychology & Mindset | 22 Comments »
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