In life, there’s really only love and hate. There is no such thing as like. Let me explain more: Say you’re standing in front of the mirror. You just tried on some new clothes, and you say, “I like this shirt.”
Like is a very indifferent world. You liked it? Like is a very weak word. I liked it.

Have you ever been involved in a relationship where it just went the other direction, and you always think about what it was like the first three months or the first six months?
It seems like in the first three to six months of a relationship, you actually do things for the other person. You make nights special. You light candles for each other. You make sure nights are romantic. You make love for hours instead of minutes.

Do you find yourself falling for people really quickly? You’ve gone on one (or maybe two) dates with someone, and you’re already planning the next six months of a relationship that hasn’t even really started yet.

I was working out at the gym the other day, and I saw one of the tabloid “rags” sitting out nearby. I figured I might as well do a little bit of reading while I was bouncing around on the Stairmaster. The Stairmaster isn’t the most fun piece of equipment in the world, so I thought I would do something to pass the time.

It’s a known fact that women are turned on by men who have powerful voices. They are turned on by men whose voices command attention and are delivered strongly.

I have been reading a great book called The Five Languages Of Love. It led me to want to ask all of you this question: Do you believe that romantic love exists? I want all of you to have at it today on this topic, and really let loose with your thoughts on this. In terms of falling in love, do you believe it is a choice or is it something that just happens?

Have you ever heard the phrase “love is not enough?” How many times have you been in love with someone and it just wasn’t enough? Love alone isn’t enough to sustain a relationship in the long run. It takes understanding each other’s communication style and the way you each express yourself. It takes understanding each other’s needs and desires. It takes really being able to…

Every day you need to look at how your actions affect others. You also need to look at how dropping your ego is important not only for your personal growth, but so that love can grow deeper. Understanding how your actions affect others could be life’s biggest challenge. I know I’ve written about this before (and probably a lot) in the blog, but I think this is something we all need to learn.

You know, I’m not going to write that much about Valentine’s Day. What I am going to say about it is along the lines of what I talked about in Wednesday’s podcast. There is one big Valentine’s Day lesson I want all of you to learn. It is about how to make Valentine’s Day exciting for both sexes. How do you do that? It’s very, very simple.

Here’s something that is interesting about falling in love. Falling in love is really peeling a layer from yourself every single day and giving it to another person. There is one thing about falling in love, however, about which most people don’t talk. While falling in love with someone is incredible, you should always be falling in love with two people. The other person with whom you should be falling in love is…