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Saturday, March 7th, 2009
A lot of guys will have a woman visit them for the weekend. Maybe they met on a ski trip or something, and now this woman that he’s not REALLY into is coming to visit.
You start thinking to yourself, “Oh my god, what am I going to do with her for the whole weekend? It’s going to take away from me-time, and she will take me away from finding someone I’m really into…” Have you ever felt like that? (more…)
Tags: be a better lover, Dating Advice, in love, love, soul mate
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, Dating Etiquette, Divorce | 18 Comments »
Thursday, February 5th, 2009
Today’s blog is going to be the first of three different Valentine’s Day related topics . . . but each with a very unique perspective on this “love holiday.” So enjoy today’s firsts installment!
It’s so interesting to me how everyone thinks they need to find some super-special way to celebrate their love on Valentine’s Day, then the thought of how to celebrate their love doesn’t cross their mind again until the following year’s Valentine’s Day. That whole concept is so strange to me.
Here is my view on this. If you have a wonderful love in your life, then every single day should be a day to celebrate your love. You should wake up every single day and find a way to embrace, respect and honor your love.
So this year on Valentine’s Day, I want you to try looking at it as the New Year’s Day of love. Make some Valentine’s Day resolutions.
Look at Valentine’s Day as the first day you will start honoring your love every day. Resolve to start doing something special for your love every single day – even if it’s something as small (but significant) as expressing your love every day.
So let’s start thinking of February 14th as Lovers’ New Year’s Day. This is really the only right way to look at Valentine’s Day, cause celebrating love just one day a year really is not going to cut it in any relationship. Celebrating your love every single day will cultivate and take your relationship to new levels you never imagined.
Tags: celebrating love, honoring love, love, love advice, resolutions, valentine's day
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, Dating Etiquette, Divorce, Fashion & Style (Men), Fashion & Style (Women), Goals & Aspirations, How To Ask For A Date | 21 Comments »
Thursday, January 29th, 2009
In order to be in love with a woman or a man, who is the first person that you need to fall in love with?
Yourself.
How can somebody love you if you don’t love yourself? How can someone respect you if you don’t respect yourself?
You need to be in love with yourself. I like to call it “masturbation of your soul.” You have to fall in love with yourself first. (more…)
Tags: Date, Divorce, first love, love, soulmate, the notebook, true love
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, Dating Etiquette, Divorce | 28 Comments »
Monday, January 26th, 2009
So you’re at a party and you lock into “the woman.” You’ve figured out which woman is the one that you really want to get to know.
You guys converse for a few minutes, and then she walks away. And after this, you stop enjoying yourself because all you’re thinking about is “Where is she right now? Is she coming back?”
With all of these thoughts running through your head, you can’t really concentrate on the conversations you’re having with other people. This is where you make the biggest mistake.
You have to understand that the dynamic presence – the power of who you are as a person – will intrigue her. Did you intrigue her enough? If you intrigued her enough, you can just walk away.
A confident man will walk away knowing that the woman will come back. An unconfident man will follow her around and turn her off. The more you follow her around, the more she’ll start to think, “Why is this guy being so needy and following me around?”
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Tags: Add new tag, approach, approach anxiety, dating advice for men, dynamic, flirt with women, hot women, How To Be A Better Communicator, intrigue, love, maxim, pua
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, Divorce | 67 Comments »
Monday, January 12th, 2009
Can you believe that it’s already January 2009. It’s just ridiculous how quickly time flies.
But there’s something interesting that I want to bring up to everyone on the blog. As many of you know, I’m not really in to New Year’s resolutions – I think that they are a crock of shit. They are just a complete waste of time.
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Tags: abundance, enjoyment, ex girlfriend, girlfriend, goal, law of attraction, love, money, new years, new years resolution, patience, resolution, rich, true love, trust, universe
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, Dating Etiquette, Divorce | 95 Comments »
Thursday, January 8th, 2009
Todays blog I am dedicating to a good friend of mine. You know who you are and I felt that this was just what you needed to hear today. Look deep inside and learn from the lesson.
A lot of times when a woman meets a new man and she feels like everything just “clicks,” she will immediately start to have all sorts of expectations about him. These are not things she expects him to do, however, but rather things she starts to expect that he is (or might be).
She starts to think to herself “This guy could be ‘the one.’ This can be the guy who gets rid of this annoying single binge I’ve been on for so long. This guy is different from all the rest.” She starts building all these expectations about a guy she’s just met.
Then she goes out on another date with that guy which also goes really well and, all of a sudden, she builds the expectations even more. She starts dreaming a little bit and thinking about how that guy might be her soulmate. She may start to think about how this guy could be someone with whom she can spend the rest of her life (and possibly have children).
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Tags: dream girl, dream guy, expectations, first encounter, love, love at first sight, lovestruck, relationship
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, Dating Etiquette, Divorce | 28 Comments »
Wednesday, December 31st, 2008
Happy New Year’s Eve to everyone!
We’re hours away from it being the end of the year, which means that everyone will be starting soon to think about their New Year’s resolutions. My opinion about resolutions, though, is that they are things you need to make every single day so you can become a better person. You should give yourself goals and things to achieve every single day.
I think there is a question we each should ask ourselves before we ever consider what we want to accomplish in 2009: What am I thankful for in 2008? I am going to tell you a few things from 2008 for which I am thankful.
I am thankful for all of you – my readers – who took an interest in my work and participated in commenting on the blog. I am thankful for all my wonderful clients who came and worked with me. I am thankful for all the great people who gave positive and amazing feedback on all the products.
I am thankful for all of your emails that came every single day telling me of your successes, and how you used my programs to achieve those successes. I am thankful for all of you who are now in relationships because what I have taught you helped you to find real and true connections.
I want to thank all the great people who work with me: Tyler, Kristen, Yakub, Adam in London, Taras, Rich … and, of course, Reynold’s Wrap. I am especially thankful for Daphne, my beloved black English Labrador, who beat cancer this summer. It’s been a great year.
I am really thankful for all the things which have happened in my personal life. I am thankful for finding an amazing woman and being in love. I am thankful for being very patient in my own life, because this is the year I met someone in whom I really believe – someone who I think is the most incredible and fantastic woman I have ever met in my entire life.
This all happened because I implemented into my life the exact same things I teach all of you. Everything I tell you and communicate to you, are things I use in my own life. By using all this, I was able to find my girlfriend and to speak the way I feel.
Life is a series of evolutions. Life is about opening yourself up. Life is about really taking the time to explore who you are and what you are all about. This year I explored myself more deeply than I ever have before, and this was the year I was able to find and attract the most amazing love into my life.
So we’re not going to talk about 2009 yet, because I’d first like to hear from all of you about what you are most thankful for in 2008. Tell me what happened to you and how it changed your life.
Tags: finding love, love, love advice, new year's resolutions
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, Dating Etiquette, Divorce, Fashion & Style (Men), Goals & Aspirations, How To Ask For A Date | 19 Comments »
Monday, December 29th, 2008
I had an interesting conversation the other day with a friend of mine, Max, who is also one of my coaches. He and I got into a really interesting discussion about relationships and about love. That conversation got me thinking, and I have a few questions for all of you:
What do you feel about love?
How many times have you been in love?
Have you ever really succumbed to someone else?
Have you ever really had an unconditional love?
One of my biggest jokes was always that the only unconditional love I ever had was with two women: one named Daphne (who is my six and a half year old black English Labrador), and one named Jessie (a Golden Retriever who passed away seven or eight years ago). I realize now that while this was a joke, it also used to be my belief.
I really do believe that love is magic. I believe love is a gift. I’ve written in the past about celebrating your love and embracing your love, but unconditional love is something I believe is really rare. Unconditional love is finding someone who is willing to strip down their walls and who is willing to challenge you. I don’t think a lot of people get challenged.
So here’s what I want to know. A lot of people who read this blog are in relationships. I get a lot of emails from women who are in relationships who want to further that relationship along. Right now, I am challenging all of you who are in relationships to talk about your relationship. Tell me the answer to all of these questions:
How do you challenge each other to be the best person that you can be?
How do you challenge each other to really grow more?
How do you challenge each other to break down all the walls and the barriers you may have so your love can grow?
Something I tell my girlfriend every single day, and something that I really truly believe, is that I honor her. I honor her every single day. Now it’s not like I put her up on a throne, make her the queen and bow down giving thanks to her. I do honor her, though, for who she is. I do honor the gift she has given me, which is the gift of herself. You’ve got to honor people.
As it’s approaching the end of the year and all of you are about to go through the some kind of ridiculous 5-4-3-2-1 countdown thing, there is something about which I want all of you to think. Instead of going through the traditional New Year’s resolution motions, how about taking a different approach to what you want to accomplish in 2009.
How about honoring your friends, your significant other and all the people in your life? Ask yourself whether you really do this by asking yourself how many people really and truly know you – fully exposed and with no walls.
Not only that, ask yourself who influences you in your life. Are there people telling you what you should and shouldn’t do, and how you should be? Are there people who tell you to ‘take it slow’ with a new person you meet? How many people in your life fully embrace your choices and support you in every way.
So I challenge you to think about all of this. There is a lot in here to think about, and I’m going to leave it up to each of you to decide what you want to tell us. So let’s get into this conversation and have some fun.
Tags: challenge, love, love advice, new year's resolutions, self help
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, Dating Etiquette, Divorce, Fashion & Style (Men), Fashion & Style (Women), Goals & Aspirations, How To Ask For A Date, How To Be A Better Communicator | 16 Comments »
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