So I’m laying around doing my exercises. Literally, laying around doing my exercises next to a woman I’m friends with. We’re sitting in Egoscue, and I’m working on my back….by the way, it’s feeling much better. Anyway, she was describing her date from the other night. She went out with this guy-now listen up, okay, [...]

Gotta love the fade away. It’s one of the best dating tactics in the entire world.
So you went out with somebody, you had a great time, maybe you slept together, maybe you didn’t, but now you’ve determined that this person just isn’t for you. Now when it comes to dating and relationships, most of us are complete chicken shit because there are a lot of feelings and emotions involved, and it’s a really intimate thing.

No words can describe what I am going to share with you on todays podcast.

Are you a voicemail blabberer? Do you just freeze when you hit someone’s voicemail? The phone is ringing, and all of a sudden you hear “Hi. This is Jane. Please leave a message . . .” Your heart starts beating really fast. The next thing you know, you start blabbering. “Oh, hey Jane. It’s Mike. Okay, that’s . . .

Congratulations, man. I’m so glad that you hooked up! You’ve got a great date coming up. So, what are you going to do? Are you going to do the “same old same old” first date of going out to dinner where you watch each other chew across the table, swap resumes and then end the night wondering whether you should kiss her? To me…

I have written two recent blogs about my friend Jeff with whom I workout, and about the issues he had with asking out the woman he met who works at the bank. In those first two blogs, I went through some mindset stuff and about how exactly to go about asking out a woman who works at a bank (or someplace like that). I went through and analyzed, and showed how to get rid of, all of Jeff’s excuses for why he couldn’t ask that woman out. This brings us to the third installment of this blog. So Jeff came over my house the other day and told me he…

The other day I was working out with my buddy, Jeff, and we were talking about cars. That is always fun for me because I can buy a car any old day of the week. Then Jeff started telling me about a woman who works as one of the “meet and greeters” at Wells Fargo (the people who welcome you when you walk in the door). Jeff spent some time talking to her, but he wondered how he can ask this woman out without being noticed by everyone at the bank.

Oh my God . . . Do you know the panic? Did you ever just finish leaving a message on someone’s voicemail and feel that panic? Here you are. You just met a girl (or a guy) you like, and now you’re babbling away on their voicemail.

We went to the movies last night, and I’m glad we got the tickets for free. We saw the movie Paper Heart. It stars a woman who is probably the most unappealing actress I’ve ever seen. Her name is Charlyne Yi.