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Sunday, July 26th, 2009
Recently on my blog, a reader posted a comment about one of my articles in which he questioned that I or anyone else could help him to be able to meet someone. He said he has tried “everything” to meet someone. He’s tried pick-up lines and routines. He’s tried what some term “natural game.” He said nothing he’s tried has worked.
Then he started listing some of the reasons why things aren’t working for him in his dating life. What every one of his “reasons” had in common, were that they were all excuses.
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Tags: Divorce, excuses, hot women, overcome fear, perfect match, perfect mate
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Sunday, June 21st, 2009
Last night we went to see a The Graduate at the Hollywood Forever cemetery.
What a great night and a lot of fun. You guys need to check out in your town where they play movies at night outdoors.
The perfect summer date!!
Anyway lets talk today about the convenience that things like cell phones, iPhones and BlackBerrys afford us, there is one major drawback: Our constant attention to them may be putting a serious dent in our love lives. There are so many people who spend virtually all day every day giving their cell phone, iPhone or BlackBerry 100% of their attention. Those people are missing opportunities to meet people every day, and in fact may not be meeting people at all.
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Tags: Blackberry, Divorce, dustin hoffman, hollywood forever cemetery, I Phone, instant message, lifestyle, phone sex, picture, T Mobile, texting, the graduate
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, Dating Etiquette, Divorce | 12 Comments »
Saturday, June 6th, 2009
I woke up yesterday morning to a panting dog . . . or an antsy dog. I figured it was maybe because I’ve been so lazy of late due to the herniation in my back between my L4 and L5 vertebrae.
So I took her to the beach for a walk, and learned quickly that apparently Daphne had a belly ache. After she did her business, I put her back in the house and went out to run an errand.
When I returned I didn’t see anything out of the ordinary . . . at first. I went upstairs, checked my email and did a few things. Then I went downstairs and there was that “brown smell” on my white rug.
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Tags: diarheaa, Divorce, dogs, networking, social networking
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Tuesday, May 12th, 2009
So this morning I didn’t know what I was going to write in today’s blog, until I was driving down Pacific and saw something I could not believe. I look up and there was an ambulance driving near me with it’s lights on and the siren blaring. The thing was, it was only driving about 15 mph and both guys were sitting in the front seat drinking Starbucks.
Now really, there can’t possibly be someone in the back of that ambulance when it’s only traveling 15 mph and when the two guys in the ambulance are sitting up front enjoying their morning latte. I just sometimes think ambulance drivers are like little children, and think it’s fun to play and put the sirens on as they’re driving around town.
I know if I was driving a police car, I’d put the sirens on half the day just to screw with people. I’d enjoy making people sweat. I’d turn the siren on if I saw someone jaywalking. I’d turn the siren on if I didn’t feel like using a public restroom and wanted to get home faster. I’d especially turn the siren on if traffic was too busy and I wanted people to get out of the way.
So on to today’s topic which is all about some of the parallels I realized exist between the way people drive and the way they date. Here’s how this concept came into my head.
The other day I was driving. This is the second time I’m talking about driving recently in a blog. Gee, I wonder if I live in Los Angeles or not. . .
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Tags: Divorce, dmv, driving, dui, How To Be A Better Communicator, red light district
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, Dating Etiquette, Divorce | 28 Comments »
Sunday, May 3rd, 2009
As you all know, I am a health nut. So my girlfriend had this great idea that this weekend we should do a juice cleanse.
Well, I certainly don’t need to lose any weight (cause if I do, I’ll disappear!). Supposedly, though, it is good for your organs. So a juice fast is what we’re doing.
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Tags: cleanse, diet, Divorce, feel special, Greece, guilty pleasure, juice fast, pleasure, reward
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, Dating Etiquette, Divorce | 26 Comments »
Saturday, April 18th, 2009
My girlfriend and I spend a ton of time together, and we really enjoy it. But we also give each other time off.
Even if it’s just 10 minutes driving alone in the car, 20 minutes downstairs meditating, or spending an afternoon just puttering around the house in separate rooms – it doesn’t matter. You still need to get your alone time. Are you in relationship in which you both are always on top of each other? And do you feel like you never get that time to just recharge your batteries?
A lot of people fail to realize that alone time is healthy. Sure, it feels great to be next to your lover at all times. But if you’re with the right person in the right relationship, you could be sitting on the couch, watching a movie or holding hands where you’re both in your own little world, yet you are still connected to each other.
You could recharge your batteries in this way. Or you could be lying in bed next to your lover, reading a book and really getting into what you’re reading. You might be sitting right next to your lover, but you can still have your alone time.
Alone time is great. Going out with your friends is healthy.
How many of you are in relationships – or have been in relationships in the past – where you get shit from your lover whenever you go out with your friends? Does your boyfriend or girlfriend get jealous and pissed whenever you leave them? That’s not healthy.
If you’re in a relationship and your partner is doing that to you, you need to know that you’re in a very unhealthy relationship. Having friends and family and separate lives is what makes the relationship healthy.
Being two unique individuals who get together and combine their lives – yet still have their own separate lives – is the way to go. You should never have to constantly answer to somebody because you went out with your friends.
A friend of mine once wrote to me and said, “David, I just don’t understand. Every time I go out with my friend Bill, my girlfriend gets all pissed off because she doesn’t like him. This is starting to ruin my friendship with Bill and we’ve been friends for 30 years!” She has no right to do that!
Another friend of mine got married to a woman who did not like his mother. Through the course of their marriage, my friend’s relationship with his mother eroded and they lost contact for ten years. My friend’s mother was deprived of meeting her grandchildren.
The minute they got divorced, my friend went and reconnected with his mother. Unfortunately, the kids had been poisoned against their grandmother and didn’t want to meet her.
This is not what life is about! You have to accept who your lover is – their friends, family, and every aspect of their life. If you can’t, then you’re not in a real, healthy relationship!
Now I know some of you are going to rebut today and write to me, “Well I don’t like that he goes out with Dave all of the time because they’re always getting drunk and looking at women.”
That STILL is an immature relationship. But even if he’s getting drunk with his friend Dave and they’re looking at women, he’s still not going home with any of these women.
Men will always look at women. Who cares? It’s time to get secure with yourself and have a real honest and open relationship – this is something I talk about in a lot of my new relationship products.
How do you have an open relationship? I’m not talking about a 70s swinger-type relationship; I’m talking about being open and honest about who you are and being an accepting person.
Isn’t that who you fell in love with – that unique and interesting individual who came into your life? Not a clone, or someone you tried to transform into your ideal mate?
Tags: Divorce, Goals & Aspirations, hoem alone, home alone, How To Be A Better Communicator, island, lost
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, Dating Etiquette, Divorce | 18 Comments »
Monday, April 13th, 2009
Monday and as always wishing it was still Sunday!!
Great weekend here with 7 guys for the LA bootcamp!!!
How was everyone’s weekend?
Today I was thinking.
Do you enjoy the people who you hang out with?
Do you have a good time with your friends?
Or are you just hanging out with them because they are the people that go to the right places on Friday night? Or are they people that make it easier to meet women?
Life is about attraction. It’s about attracting people into your life in every way.
So really: who are your closest friends? Are they people that you really love? Are they people who you really enjoy being around? And are they people who you have a really great time with?
Or are you just hanging out with people that only serve your needs? Because if you hang out with them, you can get invited to the right parties?
If you’ve listened to my products, read the blog regularly, or met me in person, you understand that I’m not about chasing; I’m about attracting. If you’re with people who don’t make you feel good or aren’t fun to be with – the woman or man who you’re hoping to attract will look at you and wonder about your own character.
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Tags: attraction, blackout, Divorce, drunk, entourage, friends
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Tuesday, April 7th, 2009
Are you a back talker?
That is, are you somebody who won’t talk to people to their face – so you talk shit about them behind their back?
There is nothing I disrespect more than back talking. I don’t respect someone who can’t look me in the eyes and talk to me directly – someone who badmouths me behind my back. I find that to be the most disgraceful way of addressing something.
I don’t honor people who talk behind other people’s backs. I don’t honor people who don’t look me in the eyes and tell me what is on their mind. I don’t respect somebody who can’t talk to me face-to-face.
If anyone has an issue with me, I want to hear about it. I want to discuss it, because that is what a real friend would do.
Do you know anyone who is a real back talker? Or are you somebody that has been a chicken in life and decided to talk behind people’s backs?
Really, I think that back talking shows something important about your personality. I think it shows something about your development and your confidence level. A genuinely confident person will talk to somebody about the things that bother him or her. They won’t talk shit about somebody.
Shit talkers and back talkers are people who are really insecure. These are people who don’t really know themselves.
Do you know of any back talkers in your life? Or have you been one at times?
We’ve all talked shit about people behind their backs before. We’ve all done it. But hopefully most of us have stopped doing it – it really is one of the ugliest traits anyone can have.
Tags: date hot women, dishonest, Divorce, flirt, honesty, lies, power of now, the truth
Posted in Attract and Approach Women, Dating Etiquette, Divorce | 57 Comments »
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