I get so many women coming to me, posting comments on my Facebook page, on Twitter, on the blog… All of them asking the same question: How do I be feminine? And it’s kind of scary to get asked that from women. And here’s the reason why a lot of women don’t know how to [...]
The term “emotional baggage” makes you think of a suitcase, doesn’t it? There have even been jokes about it. Some of us think that we have baggage that only fits in the overhead compartment on an airplane. Some of us have baggage that needs to be checked in. Some of us have baggage that’s over [...]
Do you realize that the majority of things that trigger you now are things that were programmed into your subconscious mind as a kid? Everyday, something triggers us that doesn’t make sense. The logical brain will look at an issue and think, “I should be able to do this. I’ve read XXX, I’ve done YYY, [...]
I know how awesome it is to be able to sit across a great man with a great glass of wine, some good food, good service… And have that wining and dining experience. But the thing is, most of you don’t wine and dine this way. Most of you will sit across from a close [...]
When you woke up this morning, how did you feel? Did you feel good about yourself? Did you feel sexy? Did you feel strong and powerful? When you put on your clothes, did you feel hot, sexy, and confident? Or are you not feeling sexy because you don’t like the outfit you’re wearing. Or you [...]
You know what’s missing in so many people’s lives? Love. So many people are just not present. They go out and they date with expectations. It’s always about expectations. I want to be careful what I say to this person because I want a relationship with them. I want to make sure that I [...]
All right, it’s here. It is the month of May, and I also declare it Extreme Honesty Month. You’re all going to participate, hopefully. We’re all going to participate in extreme honesty month. Here is what it is all about: For the next 31 days and 31 nights, you’re going to be extremely honest with [...]
That’s right. You women are all obsessed with your feet. I’ve been in New York City the last five days, and all I see are women on the street looking at their feet. I think to myself, why are women so obsessed with their feet? What’s going on? Do women of New York City have [...]
It’s a Saturday night. It’s your second date, maybe your third. And here you are, fooling around with him. The pressure of having to sleep with him has been on you since you were 13 years old. Now, you could be anywhere from your mid-30s to mid-40s to mid-50s, and the pressure is the same, [...]
I just talked to a client of mine. She told me something that got my attention. She ‘hates it when a man tells me that I’m a tease. Or gets angry because I don’t want to have sex with him on the first date.’ I’m still shocked when I hear about certain male behavior. But [...]
