For so many of you, when you;re out on a date or in a new relationship, the sound of silence really bothers you. But in reality, there never really is any silence. You can be standing there looking out at the water on a date, listening to the ocean, and feeling the need to talk…

…let’s put it in pick up terms: when you approach a woman and you hook your words and you don’t go anywhere with them. The reason why you’re hooking your words, the reason why you’re dropping the easy ones, is because you’re not going out and doing the work every single day. In order to become amazing at meeting women, you need to go out every single day…

Years ago, I was vacationing in Boulder, Colorado. One day, after a two-hour massage, I went to Whole Foods for some dinner. As I was walking out, I passed by a gorgeous woman and we had one of those moments. (You know those moments that happen when a woman stares at you and you stare at her at the same time and an extreme sexual chemistry builds up that you can feel? It was one of those…)

You see this woman every single day and you don’t know what to say or what to do. One day you actually swear you locked eyes with her and you think she might have even smiled…but you said nothing. And everyday you repeat this pattern over and over again…

So you are out on a date with somebody, it goes fairly well. Pretty soon, you’re waiting for them to call you back and you become obsessed about that person. You call up all your friends to try to figure out what you did right, what may have gone wrong, when they might call you, or why didn’t they haven’t called you yet. “How come they didn’t call! What did I do wrong?” …

“I’ve been practicing what I’ve learned from you, and I’ve become good at starting casual conversations in a very non-threatening manner. But from the reactions I get with women, I sense that I am giving off more a friendly vibe as opposed to a sexual vibe. I’m not trying to make a girl wet on the spot…”

I like to wake up at different times every single day. I like to start my day off differently every single day. I don’t really enjoy my life when it’s the same every single day. I don’t like to go on the same vacations at the same time each year. I like to go for a beach vacation one month and then, six months later, go on a city vacation. And when I sat down to write Naked I realized that there’s no way in the world…

The girl that you are checking out in the line at Starbucks has no idea about your approach anxiety or about any of your fears. It is about really becoming naked, open and…

When you sell something on Craigslist, you never know who’s going to come over and buy it from you. It could be love at first sight. Secondly, when you buy something on Craigslist, you never know who you’re buying from. She could be super hot…

I’m going to be on Playboy Radio. Check out the The Tiffany Granath Show at 3pm EST if you have Sirius XM. It will also be rebroadcast at 3am EST!