I get turned on a lot. But nothing turns me on more than when I’m sitting across from a woman I’m attracted to… …and I’m looking deep into her eyes and she’s looking back into mine. I wonder what she’s thinking. Nothing turns me on more than when I am on a date and I’m [...]

So, last night I was stirring in my place. No, not like happily-awaiting-Christmas stirring—I was bored. Actually, I wasn’t even bored, I just wanted a complete project. I just moved into this new place about 10 days ago and I just want to get the finishing pieces done. I decided to go to Home Depot [...]

Getting Naked is the core of what I want to teach you. Being open and vulnerable is the secret sauce to creating meaningful relationships. Last week, I had a chat with a sex, relationship & cougar-living expert, Lucia, to talk all about getting naked. Listen to the radio show here: And let me know your [...]

All right, it’s here. It is the month of May, and I also declare it Extreme Honesty Month. You’re all going to participate, hopefully. We’re all going to participate in extreme honesty month. Here is what it is all about: For the next 31 days and 31 nights, you’re going to be extremely honest with [...]

Love is being able to sit across from somebody in a restaurant. Just the two of you, being there in each other’s presence. Just being able to sit near them. Being able to experience them and still be in the presence of your own thoughts. Being so comfortable around somebody that their thoughts can just [...]

You know, it’s strange. You always seem to meet the most interesting people on your last night of vacation. When I was a little kid, I remember my last week in summer camp… …There was this girl. Her name was Jennifer Walsh. She looked so great in her little tennis shorts. She had little white [...]

It’s funny, I spent my first week here in Hawaii and I haven’t laid down once. Maybe 20 minutes here, 20 minutes there, but not for any extended period of time at all, have I been “relaxing”. I just really enjoy walking around, talking to people, checking people out, having short conversations, looking around, seeing [...]

I was sitting around the pool yesterday, doing a little bit of exercise to alleviate the pressure in my lower back. A bearded guy walks into the gated pool area—he’s in his early to mid-30s. All of a sudden from one corner of the pool you hear a man chirp up and say, “Almost 5:00pm, [...]

So you’re dating online. And you put up a picture of you and your girlfriends in Hawaii or Mexico. In the picture, you’re all in your bikinis, you all have cocktails, and you all look like you’re having a really, really, good time. It’s an innocent moment in your life, but the guy that’s checking [...]

Hey ladies, Happy National Wear Your Pajamas to Work Day! Did you know that? (I’m going to personally email all my lady friends a reminder next year.) Annndd, it’s also Wednesday, which means that it is time for the always-popular Wednesday Podcast. Last week we talked about The Negotiator vs. Intuition, and many readers expressed [...]